@pinklibra
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A DATE WITH A CANCER
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Soooo, helloo there everyone 🙂i a Libra/Virgo (Cusp) with a Pisces moon, don't know his, just know he's the cancer. I have been on and off with him for 3 yrs. He would often tell me he didn't want to speak to me anymore, if I didn't do things when he wanted or the way he wanted. We'd go back and forth for hours, usually ending with him saying he's done and me saying okay. Then 2 days later, he's saying he's sorry and really wished I were his. So about 2 weeks ago we finally crossed the line physically. Quite amazing might I add 😉 I went off on my friend for not warning me on how great Cancer men are in bed. lol. Her boyfriend is cancer. hehe. ANywho...i'm not crazy over, or love sick like I thought I would be I just want to know where we stand.
Because in the past, and even now if guys like my pictures on social networks, or if he see's them talking to me and I so much as ACT like i'm the least bit flattered, he goes off. One time he made me delete a guy's number in front of him and we weren't even physical or together yet!? He's been asking me to be his girlfriend for 3yrs, but I never thought he was serious, but i'd always say yes. But everytime he tried to get physical i'd say no, and he'd get upset. Whish Im sure you know why that would alarm me. No sex, now you mad? hmmm. So now that he's got what he wanted his still into me it seems, and still a bit possessive, but I need to know if we are exclusively dating or just "kicking it" because if I don't know then i'll assume we are just kicking it, and the last time I did that he "dumped" me. I was like huh? We don't even talk everyday, so wtf. Anyway, we have a date on Sunday, so I want to bring it up...any ideas on how I should approach the subject, I mean I have an idea but I want outside opinions. Thanks!
I really really like him, but he's well known and a lot of girls like him, so i'm super scared of letting him in. I don't want to give him a big head. So i'm very cool and calm towards him, I've been that way the whole 3 yrs. He just knows how to push my buttons, then melt me at the same time. Comments appreciated. lol