All male crabs!!! He dissapeared!

Hi everybody! thanks for tunning in. Ok, here is the deal for those who want to know. I met this exceptional cancer. We were talking every day almost and felt really comfortable with ea. other. We went out, I guess that's what u would call it, and we had fun. We felt comfy enough to hold hands and at the end of our night out we hugged & I gave him a friendy, small kiss on the cheek. No big deal right? wrong! he hasn't called me ever since, for a week now. What is a scorpio gal to think? I am confused. Did that gesture scare the poor crab into retreating mode? My show of affection didn't have the desired effect.It didn't pull him closer put pushed him further away. What do u think? Any advice is greatly appreciated.

Dear scorpio woman ...I too am a scorpio female who fell head over heels with a crab. I thought he was heaven sent , but it turned into a hellish nightmare for me in the end. They seem to tell you the most wonderful , romantic things, and scorpio women feel so pulled to them I believe. In the end , they can just walk away without a word or explanation. Why you ask ? They are too scared , and don't like hurting people , and don't want a confrontation. I hope for yours sake , this crab will come to his senses. It's ashame they have to act this way because we (scorpio) really do have such a wonderful connection with them.

I can see u have some real experience and I agree with u 100% . I foud out from him that he didn't want to make me believe that he wanted to be more than friends. I still think he led me on, with the holding hands thing, he just wanted to go with whatever I did. That's not cool, he should have acted more maturly and tell me if he didn't feel like it, but I guess he didn't want to hurt my feelings. U R right, he was kinda scared.I wonder if even now , when we know where we stand he wil call me? i was just thinking for myself.

Regarding my topic, I already have my answer so if u want to let me in on some other manual characteristics of cancers be cool and right. This information might come in handy to someone else who needs it.

As a cancer male, the only time I withdraw from something is if I am hurt - and hurt badly. I can just extricate myself from a situation that has been hurtful or painful to rejuvenate myself and get control of my feelings. I did that with my b/f. He lied, cheated, and I removed myself from all of it, and him in one shot.
Cancers are incredibly strong - and will not lower their values or standards. Lying, cheating, mistrust, or game playing will send the crab running...and for good!

hey if that's the case why do some crabs lie cheat and steal your time and affection and run away? I personally think that crabs love the idea that someone somewhere still holds a torch for them.

It's not to say that liars and cheaters aren't in all zodiac signs. The quintessential cancer will NOT do this, or behave in such an immature manner. Yes, I hate confrontations and to hurt someone kills me! It's strange that affection will send the crab back into his shell, unless he is just not ready or afraid. We are very good mates to our partners, and find that we most of the time, get hurt in the end. He sounds like an immature little "crab".