SirHorns
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An observation about Cancers from a Capricorn (SirHorns)
Honestly, as a guy that takes time to build trust with and even longer to really show that I have needs I can't meet all on my own, it's also an enviable trait. No pain, no gain, right? With every blow that would cripple many others and make them whiney and wallow in pity, you can't stay stuck in your own pain twenty-four/seven. You can make your shell harder to penetrate, but you can't stop the desire to share the warm softness that underneath it. It's something I'm trying to grow into myself as we speak, to be so bold and firm in the feelings and emotions that I normally but aside for matters at hand. I have quite a few people around me that aren't the "soft" type, taking pride in being a hardass, in a sense. So when I see you, show this "weakness" and not only survive but even thrive in this risky place of expression, is one of the most beautiful expressions of your sign to me.
As a Cap, it could be said I'm cold and hard to approach. I know that if I don't want to be bother with anyone, my body will clearly show it. However, a chat with a Cancer in my life can easily make me uncross my arms and make myself temporarily more "open" to others around me. If only for a little while. That said, thank you for bring that kind of power into the world. To ability to smooth the edges of stone-hearted people and give them what they desperately need but refuse to admit, due to pride or shame. Sure your flaws might get mentioned more than your strengths at times, but to me, you guys have my appreciation. You remind me every time you open yourself to others, that even if you get hurt, you'll survive. That living life in a closed off shell of mountain of aloofness isn't truly living and that with the most precious finite resource we have, time, that it shouldn't be wasted living in a bubble unable to be hurt but also unable to be truly yourself as well.
Also I hear you're bitchin cooks and if I play my cards right, someday I'll have eaten a Cancer's home cooking! 😄
As a Cap, it could be said I'm cold and hard to approach. I know that if I don't want to be bother with anyone, my body will clearly show it. However, a chat with a Cancer in my life can easily make me uncross my arms and make myself temporarily more "open" to others around me. If only for a little while. That said, thank you for bring that kind of power into the world. To ability to smooth the edges of stone-hearted people and give them what they desperately need but refuse to admit, due to pride or shame. Sure your flaws might get mentioned more than your strengths at times, but to me, you guys have my appreciation. You remind me every time you open yourself to others, that even if you get hurt, you'll survive. That living life in a closed off shell of mountain of aloofness isn't truly living and that with the most precious finite resource we have, time, that it shouldn't be wasted living in a bubble unable to be hurt but also unable to be truly yourself as well.
Also I hear you're bitchin cooks and if I play my cards right, someday I'll have eaten a Cancer's home cooking! 😄
Posted by starwarsIt will get done, needed to get this out first though.
what about the game thread?
Thanks man. Means a lot coming from a goat.
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspThanks, but the credit should go towards the Cancers that have been in my life.
Thanks man. Means a lot coming from a goat.
Sigh I think I'm in
Posted by SirHornsWaw.....so beautiful said...Thank you.
Honestly, as a guy that takes time to build trust with and even longer to really show that I have needs I can't meet all on my own, it's also an enviable trait. No pain, no gain, right? With every blow that would cripple many others and make them whiney and wallow in pity, you can't stay stuck in your own pain twenty-four/seven. You can make your shell harder to penetrate, but you can't stop the desire to share the warm softness that underneath it. It's something I'm trying to grow into myself as we speak, to be so bold and firm in the feelings and emotions that I normally but aside for matters at hand. I have quite a few people around me that aren't the "soft" type, taking pride in being a hardass, in a sense. So when I see you, show this "weakness" and not only survive but even thrive in this risky place of expression, is one of the most beautiful expressions of your sign to me.
As a Cap, it could be said I'm cold and hard to approach. I know that if I don't want to be bother with anyone, my body will clearly show it. However, a chat with a Cancer in my life can easily make me uncross my arms and make myself temporarily more "open" to others around me. If only for a little while. That said, thank you for bring that kind of power into the world. To ability to smooth the edges of stone-hearted people and give them what they desperately need but refuse to admit, due to pride or shame. Sure your flaws might get mentioned more than your strengths at times, but to me, you guys have my appreciation. You remind me every time you open yourself to others, that even if you get hurt, you'll survive. That living life in a closed off shell of mountain of aloofness isn't truly living and that with the most precious finite resource we have, time, that it shouldn't be wasted living in a bubble unable to be hurt but also unable to be truly yourself as well.
Also I hear you're bitchin cooks and if I play my cards right, someday I'll have eaten a Cancer's home cooking! 😄
-Sincerely, A hardass Capricorn
I am glad it's not another threat about " the forever winning cancers"
Maybe we do help you ( caps) in the emotional/expressive way but hey idem dito. You're helping us too....
Aww 🙂
So true. I'm lucky I have a few crabs in my life.
No one like them â¤
So true. I'm lucky I have a few crabs in my life.
No one like them â¤
Thanks for such kindly words, straight from the heart, about our misunderstood species â¤
Thank you! 🙂 Kind words ! 🙂
You get us weirdos!
Capricorns know how to keep a job dammit. I have never seen anything like it. How to be in control and deal with so many different scenerios on a day to day basis rain or shine,good or bad and quietly have 20 years under their belts.
Problem with Cancer is we take shit so personally, even at work. We work hard and try to be quiet and earn our pay but there is always some asshole who gets under our skins because we look vulnerable and they want entertainment. For a Capricorn to lose their cool at work and actually lose their jobs has to take a serious kind of asshole that is an elite sociopath on top of a piece of shit universally hated by everyone everywhere.
Problem with Cancer is we take shit so personally, even at work. We work hard and try to be quiet and earn our pay but there is always some asshole who gets under our skins because we look vulnerable and they want entertainment. For a Capricorn to lose their cool at work and actually lose their jobs has to take a serious kind of asshole that is an elite sociopath on top of a piece of shit universally hated by everyone everywhere.
Posted by RumiLAgreed. No other sign can take their place in the world.
Aww 🙂
So true. I'm lucky I have a few crabs in my life.
No one like them â¤
Posted by snowcrabAnd thank you for appreciating the sentiment!
Thanks for such kindly words, straight from the heart, about our misunderstood species â¤
Posted by FinbuffIf you can budget well enough to put the house hold bills, mortgage/rent ahead a month...you quite possibly might get laid by your crab/goat.Posted by starwars
capricorn > cancer
I disagree - intellectually, you guys aren't in the same zip code. That aside, I do agree with OP, we do both care about the same things - mostly financial security.click to expand
Posted by kissmygrits
You get us weirdos!
I'm forever a student~
Posted by HighTideThanks! Don't be too hard on yourselves though, with Caps we can put up with stuff that would be borderline/actual emotional abuse.
Capricorns know how to keep a job dammit. I have never seen anything like it. How to be in control and deal with so many different scenerios on a day to day basis rain or shine,good or bad and quietly have 20 years under their belts.
Problem with Cancer is we take shit so personally, even at work. We work hard and try to be quiet and earn our pay but there is always some asshole who gets under our skins because we look vulnerable and they want entertainment. For a Capricorn to lose their cool at work and actually lose their jobs has to take a serious kind of asshole that is an elite sociopath on top of a piece of shit universally hated by everyone everywhere.
It's funny.
So many talk about Cancer's being whinny and emotionally immature, etc
When emotional maturity, like any skill, takes time, effort and trail-error growth in order to achieve.
I doubt many who rant and rave are nearly as nay better as the Cancer's who are too "emotional".
Emotional being "negative" emotions, since nobody bitches when the Cancer is happy and gives you great sex and food, right? 😐
So many talk about Cancer's being whinny and emotionally immature, etc
When emotional maturity, like any skill, takes time, effort and trail-error growth in order to achieve.
I doubt many who rant and rave are nearly as nay better as the Cancer's who are too "emotional".
Emotional being "negative" emotions, since nobody bitches when the Cancer is happy and gives you great sex and food, right? 😐
Cancer's get more emotionally stable the older they get. By then they know who they are and understand emotion better than anyone else. When your a little Cancer you experience these emotions that are very strong. That is very scary. Then you have people making fun of you for crying. So you have to go through a process of learning how to deal with strong emotion and how to deal with negative emotion in a constructive manner. Things don't bother you as much the older you get.
Also our ruling planet is the moon. It is always changing. If it can affect the tides and effect people during a full moon, imagine what it feels like for us. I also think the moon aspecting other planets is what causes some moods. If the moon is opposing or squaring other planets I'm sure that affects us as well.
Sadly I don't know many Capricorns. I know only one and he is a very hard worker. He is stable, kind, and shows me I can achieve anything I put my mind to. He also taught me the difference of wants vs needs.
Also our ruling planet is the moon. It is always changing. If it can affect the tides and effect people during a full moon, imagine what it feels like for us. I also think the moon aspecting other planets is what causes some moods. If the moon is opposing or squaring other planets I'm sure that affects us as well.
Sadly I don't know many Capricorns. I know only one and he is a very hard worker. He is stable, kind, and shows me I can achieve anything I put my mind to. He also taught me the difference of wants vs needs.
This is a nice politically correct generalization of Cancers, but you need to remember the wise words of Yoda whenever writing up a particularly complicated sign like Cancer.
"But, beware the Dark Side...."
"But, beware the Dark Side...."
Posted by AnOdeToNoOneThat darkside clung to me and tried to own me.
This is a nice politically correct generalization of Cancers, but you need to remember the wise words of Yoda whenever writing up a particularly complicated sign like Cancer.
"But, beware the Dark Side...."
I'm aware. I still stand by my words. 😐
Posted by AnOdeToNoOneSwim away little fish before a big bad crab decides to dice you up simply for the entertainment value.
This is a nice politically correct generalization of Cancers, but you need to remember the wise words of Yoda whenever writing up a particularly complicated sign like Cancer.
"But, beware the Dark Side...."
Posted by MoonArtistEat him! Eat him! Eat him!Posted by AnOdeToNoOneSwim away little fish before a big bad crab decides to dice you up simply for the entertainment value.
This is a nice politically correct generalization of Cancers, but you need to remember the wise words of Yoda whenever writing up a particularly complicated sign like Cancer.
"But, beware the Dark Side...."
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Posted by SirHornsNo, he's not the tasty sort. He'd work as chum, though.Posted by MoonArtistEat him! Eat him! Eat him!Posted by AnOdeToNoOneSwim away little fish before a big bad crab decides to dice you up simply for the entertainment value.
This is a nice politically correct generalization of Cancers, but you need to remember the wise words of Yoda whenever writing up a particularly complicated sign like Cancer.
"But, beware the Dark Side...."
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Posted by MoonArtistI'm sure someone can make him tasty. Like @CrabraPosted by SirHornsNo, he's not the tasty sort. He'd work as chum, though.Posted by MoonArtistEat him! Eat him! Eat him!Posted by AnOdeToNoOneSwim away little fish before a big bad crab decides to dice you up simply for the entertainment value.
This is a nice politically correct generalization of Cancers, but you need to remember the wise words of Yoda whenever writing up a particularly complicated sign like Cancer.
"But, beware the Dark Side...."
click to expand
Posted by SirHornsI doubt it. No amount of anything will make vomit mixed with shit mixed with rotting meat and maggots taste good.Posted by MoonArtistI'm sure someone can make him tasty. Like @CrabraPosted by SirHornsNo, he's not the tasty sort. He'd work as chum, though.Posted by MoonArtistEat him! Eat him! Eat him!Posted by AnOdeToNoOneSwim away little fish before a big bad crab decides to dice you up simply for the entertainment value.
This is a nice politically correct generalization of Cancers, but you need to remember the wise words of Yoda whenever writing up a particularly complicated sign like Cancer.
"But, beware the Dark Side...."
click to expand
Hugs!!
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