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Aries Man x Cancer Woman Relationship
4. Will there be even a chance that we can be Compatible to each other? What are the possible pros and cons in our relationship? And how can we cope up with it?
5. Is an Aries Man the type of guy you can have for a long term? If ever, how can you convince him if possible?
6. Last but not the least, how to maintain an Aries Man using a Cancer Woman's strengths?
(I am hoping for some answers... Because I honestly love this guy... And I don't feel like letting him go despite our relationship can be rocky at times.)
5. Is an Aries Man the type of guy you can have for a long term? If ever, how can you convince him if possible?
6. Last but not the least, how to maintain an Aries Man using a Cancer Woman's strengths?
(I am hoping for some answers... Because I honestly love this guy... And I don't feel like letting him go despite our relationship can be rocky at times.)
Is there something stopping you from meeting? Distance? Timing? Willpower?
Posted by mr.crabby
Is there something stopping you from meeting? Distance? Timing? Willpower?
We are geographically distant. We live in different countries.
And we're both still have a long way like we need to work and save money if ever we decide to meet.
...Honestly, we also still don't have plans to do so. We only have some wishful thinking.
And I am a bit hesitant to ask him stuff like this, knowing that Aries people are known to be "present oriented" and they don't think on future as much...
Online relationships are crap, and I've had my share. I once had a guy fly all the way from america to be with me and I didnt like him the second he walked off the plane..online everything was perfect then suddenly, it was so wrong, and I had known him for years. you simply cannot know if you will or will not have chemistry irl until you are there. You can get your hopes up for absolutely nothing.
A lot of people date online because they are completely fake as well
have you seen him live on cam? heard his voice? etc
My heart is currently mending from being completely fucking stomped on by an aqua, we spent 6 months hanging out every single day on SecondLife, after work, on weekends, etc and then he disappeared 2 months ago. Just stopped logging in. Did not even say goodbye.
very hurtful.
I hope everything works out for you though, you seems sweet, just i dunno try not to rest everything on it you know?
A lot of people date online because they are completely fake as well
have you seen him live on cam? heard his voice? etc
My heart is currently mending from being completely fucking stomped on by an aqua, we spent 6 months hanging out every single day on SecondLife, after work, on weekends, etc and then he disappeared 2 months ago. Just stopped logging in. Did not even say goodbye.
very hurtful.
I hope everything works out for you though, you seems sweet, just i dunno try not to rest everything on it you know?
Posted by CancerLeoDynamite
Online relationships are crap, and I've had my share. I once had a guy fly all the way from america to be with me and I didnt like him the second he walked off the plane..online everything was perfect then suddenly, it was so wrong, and I had known him for years. you simply cannot know if you will or will not have chemistry irl until you are there. You can get your hopes up for absolutely nothing.
A lot of people date online because they are completely fake as well
have you seen him live on cam? heard his voice? etc
My heart is currently mending from being completely fucking stomped on by an aqua, we spent 6 months hanging out every single day on SecondLife, after work, on weekends, etc and then he disappeared 2 months ago. Just stopped logging in. Did not even say goodbye.
very hurtful.
I hope everything works out for you though, you seems sweet, just i dunno try not to rest everything on it you know?
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Well I guess... I can see your point in there. But here comes my "Cancerian Stubborness" who still tries and only heartache can stop me. (sometimes even that doesn't do.)
So far, we take things slowly. We chat, and show pictures of each other and stick with each other.
Before then, we are both already aware that our times together are indefinite.
Then again, I am very glad to have him by my side. Even if I tend to be confused about him at times. (like now)
Probably because of his personality of being both Hot and Cold. He tends to be very warm at one point then very cold at one another point.
But yeah, I go take this as a note. To dream for our future, but do not expect high.
And to keep him always but I should also be ready to let go just in case.
Half of me feels pessismistic about it. But still, I think that trying is better than nothing.
Thank you anyways.
Posted by xxnightbynight
Why are you wasting your time then?! I mean, I don't want to judge you... but you cannot truly get to know someone unless you connect with them in person... If you two are serious about your future, do so.
Anyway - to answer one of your questions: Aries like to create problems out of nothing. - We just want to make sure you care enough about us to put up a fight. We're all about fire, and passion... and sometimes we'll create a fire just because... we can. - It
Posted by xxnightbynight
PS- I'm a cancer rising... so I am an Aries that can feel emotions in depth... but... my Aries is strong with me... so I also understand that a lot of Rams just like to run in, and charge... get things done without all the tears.
Johnson and Johnson - no more tears. hahaha
I am trying to work for the future matters, one at a time. But I am also waiting for the possible chances that I'll be able to come up talking with my boyfriend about this. Because I still find it in question if he's even serious and if he will actually consider my demands for planning ahead in the future. (Both seemed to be hard, as far as I read about what an Aries Man is. But I am also trying to think if an 8 month relationship is already long enough that we can talk about it.)
And true enough, My Aries Man tend to have this little hobby of starting arguments may it be petty or not. I am not even sure if he's actually testing my cool or its just "his" way of making things lively. Then again, I also find it a bit stressing especially when I am not on the right mood.
One thing that I only never get used to about him is the fact that he doesn't seemed to be taking things seriously. Some of my efforts feels as if I am being taken for granted. (In my point of view) Or maybe because I am expecting more, but I am not even telling him about it. (Because I am scared that I might end up suffocating him if I do.)
I dunno... but does Aries Men don't take things seriously at all? Or they just keep their seriousness and troubles inside?
As much as possible, I want to understand more about an Aries Man.
Posted by xxnightbynight
aries keep their emotions and troubles inside. - it's a pride thing.
how far is far away? - i mean... where there is a will there is a way. - make it happen is all I'm saying. You're both cardinal signs...
Perhaps. Maybe there will come a time we will end up talking about this when the time is right.
I am honestly just waiting for the time where he is ready enough to take my words and plans.
I don't even know how will an Aries Man take this. And/or how will I approach him regarding the matter.
Now that you mention it. My Aries Man also have tendencies to be passive when it comes to conversations.
Which I kinda find it weird. We end up stuck, unless I start conversations most of the time.
Posted by CancerianCatPosted by mr.crabby
Is there something stopping you from meeting? Distance? Timing? Willpower?
We are geographically distant. We live in different countries.
And we're both still have a long way like we need to work and save money if ever we decide to meet.
...Honestly, we also still don't have plans to do so. We only have some wishful thinking.
And I am a bit hesitant to ask him stuff like this, knowing that Aries people are known to be "present oriented" and they don't think on future as much...click to expand
There's nothing wrong with some comforting connection, as long as it doesn't stop you from keeping your eyes open.
I fail to see how a crab and the beautifully simple mind of a ram could connect, as I see this as a mostly physical relationship possibility. Either way, you can enjoy a connection with someone online without expecting more. It would be a terrible idea to wait for something to happen, thus preventing you from living your real life in the process. I don't mean that online relationships are garbage, they do indeed fill a void, but I don't believe they can lead to something real. Just take it for what it is and move on when you're ready. And make sure you remove the thought from your head that this is a relationship and that he's your boyfriend. Comfort is OK, delusion is not. :p
Posted by CancerLeoDynamite
Online relationships are crap, and I've had my share. I once had a guy fly all the way from america to be with me and I didnt like him the second he walked off the plane..online everything was perfect then suddenly, it was so wrong, and I had known him for years. you simply cannot know if you will or will not have chemistry irl until you are there. You can get your hopes up for absolutely nothing.
A lot of people date online because they are completely fake as well
have you seen him live on cam? heard his voice? etc
My heart is currently mending from being completely fucking stomped on by an aqua, we spent 6 months hanging out every single day on SecondLife, after work, on weekends, etc and then he disappeared 2 months ago. Just stopped logging in. Did not even say goodbye.
very hurtful.
I hope everything works out for you though, you seems sweet, just i dunno try not to rest everything on it you know?
I think that's the first time I've heard about SL since that Law & Order episode. Creepy as fuck. 😄
Posted by CancerianCat
Well I guess... I can see your point in there. But here comes my "Cancerian Stubborness" who still tries and only heartache can stop me. (sometimes even that doesn't do.)
So far, we take things slowly. We chat, and show pictures of each other and stick with each other.
Before then, we are both already aware that our times together are indefinite.
Then again, I am very glad to have him by my side. Even if I tend to be confused about him at times. (like now)
Probably because of his personality of being both Hot and Cold. He tends to be very warm at one point then very cold at one another point.
But yeah, I go take this as a note. To dream for our future, but do not expect high.
And to keep him always but I should also be ready to let go just in case.
Half of me feels pessismistic about it. But still, I think that trying is better than nothing.
Thank you anyways.
yehh I'll be the first to admit that my views are bias from personal experiences that went poorly but I do really feel where you are coming from too. It must be a cancer thing, to dare to hope against all odds. It can be very romantic!
I will always keep trying too! been hurt a thousand times, nothing stops me -shrug-
Good Luck to you both.
Posted by mr.crabbyPosted by CancerLeoDynamite
Online relationships are crap, and I've had my share. I once had a guy fly all the way from america to be with me and I didnt like him the second he walked off the plane..online everything was perfect then suddenly, it was so wrong, and I had known him for years. you simply cannot know if you will or will not have chemistry irl until you are there. You can get your hopes up for absolutely nothing.
A lot of people date online because they are completely fake as well
have you seen him live on cam? heard his voice? etc
My heart is currently mending from being completely fucking stomped on by an aqua, we spent 6 months hanging out every single day on SecondLife, after work, on weekends, etc and then he disappeared 2 months ago. Just stopped logging in. Did not even say goodbye.
very hurtful.
I hope everything works out for you though, you seems sweet, just i dunno try not to rest everything on it you know?
I think that's the first time I've heard about SL since that Law & Order episode. Creepy as fuck. 😄click to expand
haha I
Posted by mr.crabbyPosted by CancerianCatPosted by mr.crabby
Is there something stopping you from meeting? Distance? Timing? Willpower?
We are geographically distant. We live in different countries.
And we're both still have a long way like we need to work and save money if ever we decide to meet.
...Honestly, we also still don't have plans to do so. We only have some wishful thinking.
And I am a bit hesitant to ask him stuff like this, knowing that Aries people are known to be "present oriented" and they don't think on future as much...
There's nothing wrong with some comforting connection, as long as it doesn't stop you from keeping your eyes open.
I fail to see how a crab and the beautifully simple mind of a ram could connect, as I see this as a mostly physical relationship possibility. Either way, you can enjoy a connection with someone online without expecting more. It would be a terrible idea to wait for something to happen, thus preventing you from living your real life in the process. I don't mean that online relationships are garbage, they do indeed fill a void, but I don't believe they can lead to something real. Just take it for what it is and move on when you're ready. And make sure you remove the thought from your head that this is a relationship and that he's your boyfriend. Comfort is OK, delusion is not. :pclick to expand
I agree with the sentiment but disagree with it being impossible to work. . I know many couples who met online and are married now. Lots of relationships do not work out. online, offline, whatevs. I met my husband online..oh wait.. that's an incredibly shitty example..
er
nvm
-whistles-
Any updates OP?
Almost all of my exes have been Aries and none of them worked out. I keep attracting Aries men for some reason. I feel like there is such a big attraction in the beginning and then the flame just burns out as we get to know one another. Aries are just too blunt and insensitive and we crabs are just so sensitive. It's the opposites attract thing at first but I feel that for a relationship to work out, you have to have more similarities than differences.
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He also have this "strong image" that attracts me even more.
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But on some months of time, it become like a Hot and Cold Relationship.
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Then the usual process: we argue, he gets mad, I get emotional, few moments of silence and back again like nothing happened.
Not to mention that he always tell me that I am overthinking, well... admittingly, yeah. (like what a usual cancerians are.)
He also have this tendencies to ignore my feelings over the matter.
Which at one point he decided to broke up with me, and after a few days he came back, talked to me again and we're back together again.
Hopefully, we changed our ways in some way. Whenever we possibly start to argue, I try to adjust myself like telling him the things straightly. Like my needs and the matter.
While he also tries to hear my sentiments in some way. And if argument happens, we try not to take it as serious.
So far, things are going smoothly at the moment.
But then, half of me is also confused.
1. First, this thing is an online relationship. I don't even know how can we even go through this. I wonder if an Aries and Cancer relationship will even go stronger and lasts till we eventually meet each other? How long does an Aries and Cancer relationship usually go? (Me and my man is currently around 8 months together)
2. I wonder what does an Aries look for a relationship? A serious one, fling one or so? Will there be any chance that they will take a relationship seriously?
3. What actually made an Aries Man attracted about a Cancer Woman?
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