Aries Stuck On Cancer Man

Hey Guys,
I'm an Aries too....April 1st, very aggressive, spontaneous, assertive, sarcastic.......never really been to emotional, normally keep guys on their toes.......Unitl I met this Cancer.he is my first Cancer.........I travel alot so I offer him to travel with me, keep it very exciting, always spontaneous, never ever dull.........we have been together for months..........waited for awhile to have sex with him.........made him pratically beg me first.........I love a challenge and an agressive man that can take charge.........have never found anyone who can actually control me.......until now........I think Im falling for him...which is very much out of my character.......Im seperated, and he is very cautious of me unitl my divorce is final, and I understand that.........I just feel so much intense passion and chemistry with him that its crazy........everything I read says Aries and Cancers can never make it.......we are way to sarcastic, agressive and untactful.........and cancers are to emotional, move alot slower......and are not use to smart mouths...........do you guys even think its worth it? For some reason I just cant get him out of my mind, and I try really hard not to be too sarcastic, or say anything crazy.........but that will only last but for so long........I never ask for help....but I dont know how to read him........

I think you doing the right thing and taking it very slow, in my opinion you should continue the relationship until your completely. Btw i still think you guys are a good match besides what zodiac compatibility, they are only helpful to what expect from a relationship and learn how to compromise with it.

My uncle married an aries woman. This is pertinent because he's a cancer....

But if you are hiding who you are [as in you said you try to watch what you say but that will only last so long] then it probably won't work. You should never hide who you are - I don't believe in making good first impressions, I believe in making honest ones. If you are a sarcastic aggressive person then you need to show him that from the start and let him decide if you are what he wants. Otherwise you're essentially lying to him, and when you start acting like yourself he may feel like he was tricked, or you changed, or he could even just be angry with you for pretending to be someone else - even though he may have liked you the way you are if you'd been yourself from the start.

Always be yourself - the right man for you will love you that way and a man that doesn't isn't right for you.

thank you guys.........

I guess what i left out is, the first day he met me.......I told him im not a very nice person....in a rush...normally very smart, just came here to pick up my carryout order......in a rush.....and am not in the mood to talk right now............he totally ignored me.......and went to the counter and paid for my order......and I had never met him before.......he told me he is not really pressed to meet anyone right now either, but there is something about me, and asked for my number.........I gave him my number and he dialed it in front of me.i guess to see if it was the real number........my phone was on vibrate and he couldnt hear it.......I told him he probably dialed the wrong number.......and sorry but he can only get one chance.........I have to go..............he gave me a crazy look.......directly in my eyes........it kinda turned me on a bit.......he said give it to me again......and I did.........i was myself in the begining...very sarcastic, mean, and unpatient.......but he was so damn nice and intelligent and crawled right into my damn heart......so I started to try and work on my tactfulness.......but I guess i do wonder how long this will last......i am a very free spirit.so even if i say something smart or someone says something crazy to me......Im over it in a second and I dont argue at all.......I just wonder if he ignored my crazy ways in the begining just to see if he could get me?

WOW!! O_O HAHAHA!!! That dude is smooth man! I'm going to have to use that one day! LOL! Anyway, i think you truly showed yourself, if a chic did that to me, my ass would felt like shit. That didn't stopped him from the bitchy attitude you had towards him (no offense). How long you guys been talking?

lol.......i never thought i was that bad until i shared that story..........we have been together for 4mths so far.....i really am trying to get better......lol🙂 Its hard work being an Aries.......

LOL!! Hey continue to be yourself! We don't like people feel like they cannot be true, i actaully women that punch me and slap me at times :p Well that's good you guys getting to know each other rather than rushing into a relationship.