aries woman and cancer male

okay i met this guy online...never ever met a guy online but figure what the hey....well i met this cancer male and he sent me his picture...he was cute but the internet didnt give him his props...anyway he sent me a flirt and i read his profile...it was really direct and we want the same things.....well we met for dinner and he was a knock out...i mean very handsome and oh such a gentlemen...we ate dinner,talked and laugh, and we had a serious attraction and before you know it we were sitting really close to each other...he then walked me to my car and gave me a really nice hug and I went home....now we talk and chat constantly. im having dinner with him again tomorrw..i like this guy but im so tired of screwing up when it comes to a relationship...can anybody tell me what to do to keep this guy guessing? im gonna take it slow but time is not really on my side...thanks for your input

the first thing is don't keep him guessing. of course we all like a little mystery but don't over do it especially with a cancer. we cancers don't like guessing games, well games period. if he senses you are playing games with him then he will never open up to you. we have to be sure of things that is why we are so cautious. just be open and honest with him and let things flow naturally. you both will know if this is something you both will want to pursue if you give it some time.

Just go with the flow ! 🙂

DWARD 417,

i am so curious to see what will happen to the next stage, please come back and post it on here, if you don't mind? thank you

thanks guys for your input...i have some unusual butterflies in my stomach...he call me this morning to tell me he's taking his picture and profile off the website we met on...isnt that sweet? I asked him why? he said he didnt need it there anymore. okay scorp ill keep you guys posted

so the next obvious question is, dward have you taken your profile down 😉

yea i took mine off too.....im afraid hes going to be tough to settle....

I say this because hes 45..never been married...and well... i dont know now a days its hard to start a new relationship

in my opinion a cancer male should be easier to deal with as he gets older. we are a little wiser and can handle our emotions a lot better. we love home and family and you never know he might be ready to settle down. the main thing is to communicate and like i said just take things slow and let nature take its course...

thanks cansir i appreciate your input...so should i chase him i should i let him chase me? I know this is now the best of questions but i dont want to scare him off by calling or emailing too much...and if he doesnt call should i figure he doesnt want me or what?

i am going to give you an easy answer. do what feels right. the first thing is to not put to much pressure on yourselves. this goes back to going with the flow and letting nature take its course. i will give you some hints about cancers and that is we want to make sure you are into us as we are you and we like to talk or be told things in a joking non-confrontational way. always approach us in an easy manner cause we can sense peoples moods and emotions and if we sense your coming at us we will put up our defenses before you even get a word out. so i guess my point is to just go and have fun with this guy. a cancer will give as much as our partners if not more. also, another thing to remember is that we love attention via email or phone but we do things on our time. so don't take it personal if he doesn't respond right away. we take our time and even more so when it comes to relationships. he will definitely test your patience but if you stay calm cool and collected he will notice and you will score major points. so try to control some of your aries tendencies and i know that is tough since my rising sign is aries :-)

i know we aries woman have the tendency to rush things. which has hurt me a lot in the past....especially when we like someone...so i am definitely taking it slow

there you go..seems like you have learned from past mistakes and you are already taking the right approach.

update....well the cancer and I are getting along great.....he is so smart and we have very intellectual conversations...I am taking your advice and letting nature take its course...but its great to meet someone so genuine..i love you cancers because you definitely keep it real!

be careful of the promises and plans. cancers are very good at emotional manipulation - from my personal experience🙂

how long were you guys together—

about 9 months. are we talking on 2 treads now lmao

we too real i guess,lol. Hmmm hey who gonna see da hulk and indiana jones. I defnietly will

scorp978 well havent had much communication from this guy...then when i do try communicate hes like why havent you call me...i dont get guys these days...if you are not calling or showing some kind of genuine interest...why should i call you? I mean you meet someone...you have chemistry...you talk..you connect...and then the games start....im so tired of it...

AAAAH, DEAR DWARD417,

don't give up, now!!this goes 2 ways: he doesn't want to initiate contact becase he is afraid of rejection and he needs to trust you a bit and put you through tests, or he realized that it should have been him the one to show you interest and now because he regrets it he cannot take the blame(they really do not like feeling guilty) so he is twisting the scenario a bit......by the way...did you let him know that he should have shown interest?
to be honest they are not great communicators, they rely on instinct, and they expect the same, they like to throw hints( you need to learn how to read between the lines because they are very insecure, at least this is how my cancer guy is, he is scared sometimes of his own feelings and then he keeps away from me for a day or two, then he calls me). he needs time to study you and see how you react, they are so sweet, very deep too, if he really likes you you will not regret it, and cancers will very easily tell you if they do not like/want you.