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Ask a REAL Cancer Male....
Posted by TeddyBearMDHere's your opportunity! Seize it!
FUCK THIS GUY!
I'm the one that should be answering all these question. My chart is nearly ALL CANCER! I'm the real representation. This guy is like some half breed beta male faggot. 😄
would the real male crab please stand up !
Posted by blackphase"Okay fine", said the genie, "but you've rubbed the lamp so much one can almost see through it. One more wish if you'll stop rubbing the lamp!!!!!"
Psst.. I like you better 😄
(Aka, I'll answer 1 question from you, and that's it)
Hi and thanks for doing this! If a cancer male tells me "it's over!" will gossiping about him, spreading rumors, telling lies or generally trying to make him look bad magically make him decide that I am now worth it?
What if cancer male has never shown any attraction in the first place, will he now be attracted if I do that too?
Also, do you think maybe he is just playing hard to get? What if I ask the same question but change the wording, will the cancer male be swindled into the answer I want him to say?
What if cancer male has never shown any attraction in the first place, will he now be attracted if I do that too?
Also, do you think maybe he is just playing hard to get? What if I ask the same question but change the wording, will the cancer male be swindled into the answer I want him to say?
Posted by rabidtalkerCancers don't play hard to get when we really want something. But sometimes we go through periods of confusion. We don't know if we want you so at first we will try to u out and get to know you. Then if we are still confused we might give ourselves space. This could turn into a constant cycle for a long time. Even if we are a little emotionally attached, it's hard to let go completely.
Hi and thanks for doing this! If a cancer male tells me "it's over!" will gossiping about him, spreading rumors, telling lies or generally trying to make him look bad magically make him decide that I am now worth it?
What if cancer male has never shown any attraction in the first place, will he now be attracted if I do that too?
Also, do you think maybe he is just playing hard to get? What if I ask the same question but change the wording, will the cancer male be swindled into the answer I want him to say?
I'm true we can be self distructive. I know in the past I've done some dramatic things as a way to force myself to move on because it was the only way i could detach myself from my situation. Maybe he is doing that.
How long have you been with him?
Are Caner men prone to stalking?
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollIt's weird. Some of the cancer men I know in my life are like this. Not talking stalking in a bad way. They just never "go away". And if they do, they back in your life after a couple months/years.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesYes. So are the women.
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I know one cancer guy who randomly emails me. For the past 6 years. I never even met the guy, but every so often pops up via email.
Posted by CanbullriusSo it comes down to my flirtatious friendliness? LOLPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesYes.
Are Caner men prone to stalking?
But usually only if they know someone likes them.
Any other type is weird and you should buy yourself a rocket launcher.
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Posted by AliensusedourbogrollSo is it a case that they struggle to let go so to speak?Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesI understand. I'm a cancer myself. If you're in my past, you're in my present. Even if it's just in thought. Sometimes it's in action.Posted by AliensusedourbogrollIt's weird. Some of the cancer men I know in my life are like this. Not talking stalking in a bad way. They just never "go away". And if they do, they back in your life after a couple months/years.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesYes. So are the women.
Are Caner men prone to stalking?
I know one cancer guy who randomly emails me. For the past 6 years. I never even met the guy, but every so often pops up via email.
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I love cancers. I get on well with them. My best mate of 26 years is cancer. But they are emotional. Thankfully I understand them and know how to handle them.
Posted by CanbullriusI am not sure if all can be so understanding though. I find sometimes a cancer can "brew"Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesHey i like you i want to know if you like me.Posted by AliensusedourbogrollIt's weird. Some of the cancer men I know in my life are like this. Not talking stalking in a bad way. They just never "go away". And if they do, they back in your life after a couple months/years.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesYes. So are the women.
Are Caner men prone to stalking?
I know one cancer guy who randomly emails me. For the past 6 years. I never even met the guy, but every so often pops up via email.
If you like me, i'm gonna chat you up a storm until we hot and naughty.
Very vague and basic version...
That's how it goes with me usually.
But if you tell me straight i'm cool and i back off and remain a friend.
Some people don't understand personal space though.
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@Canbullrius I get that. I have a lot of water in my chart. Letting go is not easy depending on the terms it ended...
Having said that though, if it ends bad, I walk away and have never looked back. I was engaged to a guy and had gone out for the night, decided to come home early to find him in our bed in our house with another woman. I left the very next day and have not seen them since.
Having said that though, if it ends bad, I walk away and have never looked back. I was engaged to a guy and had gone out for the night, decided to come home early to find him in our bed in our house with another woman. I left the very next day and have not seen them since.
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollDo you think it is time and intensity dependant?Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesYes, we tend to struggle to let go. Even when I make an effort, thoughts and feelings drift back to how it once was.Posted by AliensusedourbogrollSo is it a case that they struggle to let go so to speak?Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesI understand. I'm a cancer myself. If you're in my past, you're in my present. Even if it's just in thought. Sometimes it's in action.Posted by AliensusedourbogrollIt's weird. Some of the cancer men I know in my life are like this. Not talking stalking in a bad way. They just never "go away". And if they do, they back in your life after a couple months/years.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesYes. So are the women.
Are Caner men prone to stalking?
I know one cancer guy who randomly emails me. For the past 6 years. I never even met the guy, but every so often pops up via email.
I love cancers. I get on well with them. My best mate of 26 years is cancer. But they are emotional. Thankfully I understand them and know how to handle them.
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I mean if you with someone for 3 months head over heels, intense connection and it ends will it be the same hardship letting go as being with someone for 3 years and the relationship was just good?
Posted by Canbullrius😢 I am sorry. HugsPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesFor me if i am courting someone new i tell them about my history because it is something i may bring up at a later time.
@Canbullrius I get that. I have a lot of water in my chart. Letting go is not easy depending on the terms it ended...
Having said that though, if it ends bad, I walk away and have never looked back. I was engaged to a guy and had gone out for the night, decided to come home early to find him in our bed in our house with another woman. I left the very next day and have not seen them since.
Like my lady passing away and my childhood being hell... it's stuff we can't get over as Cancers it's a forever lasting wound, so i seek an understanding partner.
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@Canbullrius I think we all need that to some degree. Some more than others.
I found that in my life, I need someone who has a really strong character though. Shamefully I tend to walk all over those who .... I don't like to say the word but, weaker than me. It sounds so dirty, but I hope you get the gist of what I am trying to say. I will stop now as I am digging my own grave here.
I found that in my life, I need someone who has a really strong character though. Shamefully I tend to walk all over those who .... I don't like to say the word but, weaker than me. It sounds so dirty, but I hope you get the gist of what I am trying to say. I will stop now as I am digging my own grave here.
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollThat reminds me of one night I went out with my mate. she was being moody. I couldn't take it anymore. I pulled the car into the petrol station, told her to get out and left her there.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesDon't apologize for not wanting to walk on eggshells.
@Canbullrius I think we all need that to some degree. Some more than others.
I found that in my life, I need someone who has a really strong character though. Shamefully I tend to walk all over those who .... I don't like to say the word but, weaker than me. It sounds so dirty, but I hope you get the gist of what I am trying to say. I will stop now as I am digging my own grave here.click to expand
Bearing in mind this was early hours of the morning. In my defence I did drive to her mothers house and told her to go pick her up from the station.
She got her own back one day while on the motor way. During a fight we were having..... she stopped her car. I got out and hitched home
Ah good times together... good times 😄
I don't meet them often so but heard they are compatible with earth signs. Is it true?
Posted by pinkbird03Hello and thank you for your answers. Sometimes if I repeat a lie over and over it can become the truth how many times do I have to repeat a lie to a cancer male for him to believe it? What if it is a half-lie? OK not a half-lie but a half-truth? What if I smile while lying, will that work?Posted by rabidtalkerCancers don't play hard to get when we really want something. But sometimes we go through periods of confusion. We don't know if we want you so at first we will try to u out and get to know you. Then if we are still confused we might give ourselves space. This could turn into a constant cycle for a long time. Even if we are a little emotionally attached, it's hard to let go completely.
Hi and thanks for doing this! If a cancer male tells me "it's over!" will gossiping about him, spreading rumors, telling lies or generally trying to make him look bad magically make him decide that I am now worth it?
What if cancer male has never shown any attraction in the first place, will he now be attracted if I do that too?
Also, do you think maybe he is just playing hard to get? What if I ask the same question but change the wording, will the cancer male be swindled into the answer I want him to say?
I'm true we can be self distructive. I know in the past I've done some dramatic things as a way to force myself to move on because it was the only way i could detach myself from my situation. Maybe he is doing that.
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Posted by rabidtalkerPosted by pinkbird03Hello and thank you for your answers. Sometimes if I repeat a lie over and over it can become the truth how many times do I have to repeat a lie to a cancer male for him to believe it? What if it is a half-lie? OK not a half-lie but a half-truth? What if I smile while lying, will that work?Posted by rabidtalkerCancers don't play hard to get when we really want something. But sometimes we go through periods of confusion. We don't know if we want you so at first we will try to u out and get to know you. Then if we are still confused we might give ourselves space. This could turn into a constant cycle for a long time. Even if we are a little emotionally attached, it's hard to let go completely.
Hi and thanks for doing this! If a cancer male tells me "it's over!" will gossiping about him, spreading rumors, telling lies or generally trying to make him look bad magically make him decide that I am now worth it?
What if cancer male has never shown any attraction in the first place, will he now be attracted if I do that too?
Also, do you think maybe he is just playing hard to get? What if I ask the same question but change the wording, will the cancer male be swindled into the answer I want him to say?
I'm true we can be self distructive. I know in the past I've done some dramatic things as a way to force myself to move on because it was the only way i could detach myself from my situation. Maybe he is doing that.
How long have you been with him?
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Cancer sign is a water sign. Most of us our intuitive and can sense a lie pretty easily. Smiling won't make a difference. How you say it, including tone and volume, as well as controlling your micro expressions may help you. But I think this is hard to do.
Posted by CanbullriusOh yeah do wrong to a bull I will crush you and then slap some butter on it. The end of that!
Oh yeah do wrong to a Cancer they know how to level you lol.
Posted by CanbullriusWhich one are you most compatible with though out of those three?Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Yes very actually.
I don't meet them often so but heard they are compatible with earth signs. Is it true?
Virgo, Taurus & Capricorn.
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With Taurus moon and Mars it would be a pretty steady and suitable friendship to start. That's cool.
I'm honored.
Posted by bubbythewhale1Really? I never bring up an ex with my current gf. My ex Libra cunt gf used to always bring her up her ex boyfriend and I hated it. She would usually bring him up if I did something that was like what her ex did.
Since cancers bring up their ex's (often), how do you feel about your love interest bringing up their ex's in convo?
I don't mind that it happens, my past is important to me too, like my way of letting the person know why I love/act the way I do
I don't like being compared to previous dicks you've sucked.
Posted by bubbythewhale1That's okay in my book, if you're telling me in such a way that you don't want it to happen in the current relationship then it's cool. As long as it's not something that's petty as shit.Posted by CanbullriusI tend to tell the things that really broke my heart in relationships hoping the guy would "catch my hint" and file that away in the "never do that to her folder" (things that were done to hurt me on purpose & were avoidable)Posted by bubbythewhale1
Since cancers bring up their ex's (often), how do you feel about your love interest bringing up their ex's in convo?
I don't mind that it happens, my past is important to me too, like my way of letting the person know why I love/act the way I do
I find it's a good thing, i have something to compare to and see where i should not go wrong.
I mention the little things that make me super happy, I couldn't stop smiling talking about a simple letter my best friend sent me wen I was down 🙂 I know I might give off a "hard to please" vibe but not at all
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Posted by TeddyBearMDLike not sure who likes to be judged by past relationships it sucks to carry the past troubles and always worry if it will happen again or even worse having your friends or family members ruin a good thing about the ex towards a new blossom of a different person. I would be so upset if my family ruined a good thing because it means they have no respect or the guy doesn't care either and bash peeps.Posted by bubbythewhale1Really? I never bring up an ex with my current gf. My ex Libra cunt gf used to always bring her up her ex boyfriend and I hated it. She would usually bring him up if I did something that was like what her ex did.
Since cancers bring up their ex's (often), how do you feel about your love interest bringing up their ex's in convo?
I don't mind that it happens, my past is important to me too, like my way of letting the person know why I love/act the way I do
I don't like being compared to previous dicks you've sucked.click to expand
Oh is the body count really important?
Is the body count really important?
If a kiss on the first date is wack what do you do?
If a kiss on the first date is wack what do you do?
Do cancers miss you if you walk out on them?? Do they ever feel remorse or regret for treating someone wrong?
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Is the body count really important?
If a kiss on the first date is wack what do you do?
Body count is important to me. If it's high, I simply don't want to know. I think men (in general) don't like to think about their girl being with another guy (past or present... or future). So the thought of 14 different guys being inside of her at some point in her life is hard to stomach.
lol why all the "ask a cancer male " or the real cancer male. 😆
Posted by bubbythewhale1
Cancers.... why you so fineeeee??
Posted by lisabethur8Dare I say we need BlackIndian to come back and comment as well.....
lol why all the "ask a cancer male " or the real cancer male. 😆
Posted by KrissyTheCappy36I think not if they feel hurt if you walk out on them. So they are actually more affected than thinking if they treat you wrong or why did you walk out. That is if they are too hurt to even think. If not they will try to think through what went wrong and ask you back.
Do cancers miss you if you walk out on them?? Do they ever feel remorse or regret for treating someone wrong?
Posted by TeddyBearMDIn a chart if you were looking at Astrology which placements do you like better friendship wise or long term? How soon do you let someone know your are interested in them? Do you Cancers have a time line?
I'm honored.
Aqua moon, mars, mercury or Venus in Taurus or
Okay I am asking you since I have Cancer moon man problem.
I was on and off with this this guy. Before this argument, about two weeks ago, he never blocked me. But it seems that he has blocked me on his phone and WhatsApp now.
I felt used because he doesn't care about my emotional or hell...even sexual needs so after about 3 years of back and forth I finally snapped. He was very selfish, sexually. But I persisted hoping he would change one day. He never did so I snapped over text. He also asked me if I had ever had an orgasm in person during our last meeting, I told him no because I didn't want to hurt his feelings but when I snapped at him over text message the day after, I told him yes many times, but with my ex. Did this hurt him enough to block me? I mean, since he doesn't care at all about my sexual needs, why would this hurt him and why would he ask me such a question when the answer is obvious?? Although I apologized for mentioning the fact that my ex made me orgasm, but no point since I seem blocked on his phone and WhatsApp.
Will he forgive me? I love him but I am not sure I want him back since I seem to resent his presence in my life. I always feel used by him. I just want to move on but I can't knowing I must have hurt him enough for him to block me. He is also 18 years older than me. I don't know if that matters.
His birthday is coming up on Jan 31st. Should I send him a birthday card or something saying sorry? No matter what he did to me, I care about him and even though I no longer see a future with him, I don't want to live on knowing I hurt him enough for him to block me.
I feel very restless. Any advice please?
He is an Aquarius sun, cancer moon, saggitarius rising with venus in pisces. I am a Virgo sun, leo moon and libra rising.
I was on and off with this this guy. Before this argument, about two weeks ago, he never blocked me. But it seems that he has blocked me on his phone and WhatsApp now.
I felt used because he doesn't care about my emotional or hell...even sexual needs so after about 3 years of back and forth I finally snapped. He was very selfish, sexually. But I persisted hoping he would change one day. He never did so I snapped over text. He also asked me if I had ever had an orgasm in person during our last meeting, I told him no because I didn't want to hurt his feelings but when I snapped at him over text message the day after, I told him yes many times, but with my ex. Did this hurt him enough to block me? I mean, since he doesn't care at all about my sexual needs, why would this hurt him and why would he ask me such a question when the answer is obvious?? Although I apologized for mentioning the fact that my ex made me orgasm, but no point since I seem blocked on his phone and WhatsApp.
Will he forgive me? I love him but I am not sure I want him back since I seem to resent his presence in my life. I always feel used by him. I just want to move on but I can't knowing I must have hurt him enough for him to block me. He is also 18 years older than me. I don't know if that matters.
His birthday is coming up on Jan 31st. Should I send him a birthday card or something saying sorry? No matter what he did to me, I care about him and even though I no longer see a future with him, I don't want to live on knowing I hurt him enough for him to block me.
I feel very restless. Any advice please?
He is an Aquarius sun, cancer moon, saggitarius rising with venus in pisces. I am a Virgo sun, leo moon and libra rising.
If i have hurt a Cancer guy deeply. He said no longer have feelings for me. But still hurt from what I have done. Is there anything I can do? I also do not want him to feel I am bribing him to take me back. I felt like I really want him not to feel hurt. I mean is hard to hear from someone that they are hurt from you right? Makes me feel bad as well. I have Pisces moon I think is cos I have the tendency to do such things.
Please help me. I told my Cancer I'm starting to get feelings for him and that we probably shouldn't hangout for a while out of respect for our friendship and respect for my feelings because it doesn't seem like he's interested and he told me that he tries to stay open-minded and he fears commitment a bit because of where he's at in his life so he can't make me any promises, and if it happens to let it happen "organically". He pursued me a little (very little) at first but not that I told him my feelings he doesn't contact me at all (except to say Happy Birthday @ 10:30 at night) ... If we hangout it's because I contacted him. He's reliable when we do make plans and never bails. There are more details about the whole situation on a forum I created but I need to know - should I leave it alone or still try to be his friend and act like nothing happened to try to let things take it's course. This is going to mean I'd be contacting him though of course. I don't know if this is a good idea to continue pursuing him after he already knows how I feel. I understand that I can't have sex with him - I just need to know if he's just not that into me and it's time for me to give up.
Posted by sagxproblemsIf it were me in the situation, I wouldn't know how to react. You told him that you shouldn't hang around anymore out "respect" for the friendship. But the thing is, one feelings are caught, you can't just go back to "friends". This is why I always say that men and women can't really be "friends". And I have yet to be disproved on this subject.
Please help me. I told my Cancer I'm starting to get feelings for him and that we probably shouldn't hangout for a while out of respect for our friendship and respect for my feelings because it doesn't seem like he's interested and he told me that he tries to stay open-minded and he fears commitment a bit because of where he's at in his life so he can't make me any promises, and if it happens to let it happen "organically". He pursued me a little (very little) at first but not that I told him my feelings he doesn't contact me at all (except to say Happy Birthday @ 10:30 at night) ... If we hangout it's because I contacted him. He's reliable when we do make plans and never bails. There are more details about the whole situation on a forum I created but I need to know - should I leave it alone or still try to be his friend and act like nothing happened to try to let things take it's course. This is going to mean I'd be contacting him though of course. I don't know if this is a good idea to continue pursuing him after he already knows how I feel. I understand that I can't have sex with him - I just need to know if he's just not that into me and it's time for me to give up.
So now, he's not going to contact you much because it's just going to be awkward as fuck. What did you expect? You can't bring up "feelings" in the friendship and expect to stay the same. Either full on date or just agree to not see much of each other anymore.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I can only speak for myself. But I hardly ever make the first move unless I'm VERY confident that a person is feeling me.Posted by TeddyBearMDIn a chart if you were looking at Astrology which placements do you like better friendship wise or long term? How soon do you let someone know your are interested in them? Do you Cancers have a time line?
I'm honored.
Aqua moon, mars, mercury or Venus in Taurus or
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I don't look at placements much. The best matches I had were NOT earth or water signs. Usually air signs to be quite honest. Therefor, I simply can't take it that seriously. And I honestly didn't go through the trouble of looking up my partners placements so I don't know which are the best. All I can speak for is sun signs and so far the best relationships I have had are with Gemini's, Aquas, Scorps, and Virgo. Not usually intimate ones, but still.
Libras... those whores are always attracted to me for some reason. So are Sags. I don't know why, they always come out of the woodworks. 9 times out of 10, if I'm attracted to a girl and she likes me back, it's a Libra. I can't stand them though. Libras and Sags seem to like "everybody". The last Libra girl had tons of "male friends". And I totally was not cool with it (and she knew this). And just like I suspected, her male "friends" were all trying to get down her pants at the end of the day. I think she just liked the attention and wanted to some "emergency dick" in case things didn't work out.
Posted by TeddyBearMDTeddyBearMD - It's so funny that you said that because that's exactly how he reacted. He said he's trying to figure out what it is that I want. I think I just really wanted to know if he felt the same for me, which I NEVER found out. I guess we need to talk, I just don't know what to say. Do I bluntly say I want to date himPosted by sagxproblemsIf it were me in the situation, I wouldn't know how to react. You told him that you shouldn't hang around anymore out "respect" for the friendship. But the thing is, one feelings are caught, you can't just go back to "friends". This is why I always say that men and women can't really be "friends". And I have yet to be disproved on this subject.
Please help me. I told my Cancer I'm starting to get feelings for him and that we probably shouldn't hangout for a while out of respect for our friendship and respect for my feelings because it doesn't seem like he's interested and he told me that he tries to stay open-minded and he fears commitment a bit because of where he's at in his life so he can't make me any promises, and if it happens to let it happen "organically". He pursued me a little (very little) at first but not that I told him my feelings he doesn't contact me at all (except to say Happy Birthday @ 10:30 at night) ... If we hangout it's because I contacted him. He's reliable when we do make plans and never bails. There are more details about the whole situation on a forum I created but I need to know - should I leave it alone or still try to be his friend and act like nothing happened to try to let things take it's course. This is going to mean I'd be contacting him though of course. I don't know if this is a good idea to continue pursuing him after he already knows how I feel. I understand that I can't have sex with him - I just need to know if he's just not that into me and it's time for me to give up.
So now, he's not going to contact you much because it's just going to be awkward as fuck. What did you expect? You can't bring up "feelings" in the friendship and expect to stay the same. Either full on date or just agree to not see much of each other anymore.click to expand
Posted by sagxproblemsAny suggestions on what I should say - how I should approach this situation now?Posted by TeddyBearMDTeddyBearMD - It's so funny that you said that because that's exactly how he reacted. He said he's trying to figure out what it is that I want. I think I just really wanted to know if he felt the same for me, which I NEVER found out. I guess we need to talk, I just don't know what to say. Do I bluntly say I want to date himPosted by sagxproblemsIf it were me in the situation, I wouldn't know how to react. You told him that you shouldn't hang around anymore out "respect" for the friendship. But the thing is, one feelings are caught, you can't just go back to "friends". This is why I always say that men and women can't really be "friends". And I have yet to be disproved on this subject.
Please help me. I told my Cancer I'm starting to get feelings for him and that we probably shouldn't hangout for a while out of respect for our friendship and respect for my feelings because it doesn't seem like he's interested and he told me that he tries to stay open-minded and he fears commitment a bit because of where he's at in his life so he can't make me any promises, and if it happens to let it happen "organically". He pursued me a little (very little) at first but not that I told him my feelings he doesn't contact me at all (except to say Happy Birthday @ 10:30 at night) ... If we hangout it's because I contacted him. He's reliable when we do make plans and never bails. There are more details about the whole situation on a forum I created but I need to know - should I leave it alone or still try to be his friend and act like nothing happened to try to let things take it's course. This is going to mean I'd be contacting him though of course. I don't know if this is a good idea to continue pursuing him after he already knows how I feel. I understand that I can't have sex with him - I just need to know if he's just not that into me and it's time for me to give up.
So now, he's not going to contact you much because it's just going to be awkward as fuck. What did you expect? You can't bring up "feelings" in the friendship and expect to stay the same. Either full on date or just agree to not see much of each other anymore.click to expand
I read some of your stuff about Cancers going through periods of confusion. My Cancer is telling me he has feelings for me still but isn't sure if he wants to be with me due to his own insecurities. How do I go about this?
Posted by queenxleoYou're going to have to treat him like a female and wipe away any insecurities that he may have in the relationship. He's probably worried about his worthiness, you being faithful, etc.. etc...
I read some of your stuff about Cancers going through periods of confusion. My Cancer is telling me he has feelings for me still but isn't sure if he wants to be with me due to his own insecurities. How do I go about this?
Posted by sagxproblemsHe's going to want a straightforward answer on where you guys stand. It's annoying to me personally to be in "gray" areas. Being left in limbo can be a huge turnoff for a lot of people.Posted by sagxproblemsAny suggestions on what I should say - how I should approach this situation now?Posted by TeddyBearMDTeddyBearMD - It's so funny that you said that because that's exactly how he reacted. He said he's trying to figure out what it is that I want. I think I just really wanted to know if he felt the same for me, which I NEVER found out. I guess we need to talk, I just don't know what to say. Do I bluntly say I want to date himPosted by sagxproblems
Please help me. I told my Cancer I'm starting to get feelings for him and that we probably shouldn't hangout for a while out of respect for our friendship and respect for my feelings because it doesn't seem like he's interested and he told me that he tries to stay open-minded and he fears commitment a bit because of where he's at in his life so he can't make me any promises, and if it happens to let it happen "organically". He pursued me a little (very little) at first but not that I told him my feelings he doesn't contact me at all (except to say Happy Birthday @ 10:30 at night) ... If we hangout it's because I contacted him. He's reliable when we do make plans and never bails. There are more details about the whole situation on a forum I created but I need to know - should I leave it alone or still try to be his friend and act like nothing happened to try to let things take it's course. This is going to mean I'd be contacting him though of course. I don't know if this is a good idea to continue pursuing him after he already knows how I feel. I understand that I can't have sex with him - I just need to know if he's just not that into me and it's time for me to give up.
If it were me in the situation, I wouldn't know how to react. You told him that you shouldn't hang around anymore out "respect" for the friendship. But the thing is, one feelings are caught, you can't just go back to "friends". This is why I always say that men and women can't really be "friends". And I have yet to be disproved on this subject.
So now, he's not going to contact you much because it's just going to be awkward as fuck. What did you expect? You can't bring up "feelings" in the friendship and expect to stay the same. Either full on date or just agree to not see much of each other anymore.
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Posted by AneemAI don't know, depends on your sign.
Cancer males, how good are we gonna get wit each other in bed? 😏
Virgo, Aquas... sex is amazing with them.
Libras are lazy a fuck in bed. I hear Scorpio's are amazing, but I've never had the experience yet.
Posted by AneemAI've definitely never had any complaints. Even when the girl was mad at me about something else... which says a lot 🙂Posted by TeddyBearMDMine is a scorp, that's why I was hitting on you 😉Posted by AneemAI don't know, depends on your sign.
Cancer males, how good are we gonna get wit each other in bed? 😏
Virgo, Aquas... sex is amazing with them.
Libras are lazy a fuck in bed. I hear Scorpio's are amazing, but I've never had the experience yet.
I mean lately I've been listening to Joe Thomas (cancer male R n B singer) and he talks a lot sex related and I imagine the way he 'makes love' is heaven!
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Some people just like genital to genital contact and that's enough for them. I like it to be passionate.
Posted by TeddyBearMDIf he's pushing me away though, do I try harder or give him his space? I'm actually v scared to lose him, hes the first person made really made the effort with me and actually showed me he cared you knowPosted by queenxleoYou're going to have to treat him like a female and wipe away any insecurities that he may have in the relationship. He's probably worried about his worthiness, you being faithful, etc.. etc...
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