best way to apologise to a cancer man ?

Ok so I've injured a cancer man's heart who loved me with every ounce. (I withheld information and angry text basically tell him not to look for me and good Bye) tried to take it back ....and he has retrieved to shell blocked me out of social media except his phone.... so he still get my texts. I need to find a sure prove way to apologize and somehow make him reconsider his decision _??_

Posted by JJ141214
Ok so I've injured a cancer man's heart who loved me with every ounce. (I withheld information and angry text basically tell him not to look for me and good Bye) tried to take it back ....and he has retrieved to shell blocked me out of social media except his phone.... so he still get my texts. I need to find a sure prove way to apologize and somehow make him reconsider his decision _??_

Can't unring a bell. Give your sincerest apology once (otherwise it's not quite sincere) and let the man be. If you truly care for him, respect that he needs to choose how to move forward. Afterall, this isn't just about what you want.

In the meantime, learn how to check those emotions. Just because you're upset and want things your way (in reference to your other thread) doesn't give you the right to jerk people around. "Don't look for me, goodbye---no wait, I got over myself and now I've reconsidered". Well isn't he lucky?

The man was responding to the dishonesty he was probably sensing from you and in true Scorp fashion you decided to take it up a notch instead of addressing it. Work on that. Not for the purpose of this relationship, simply because that's what mature people do. If you get a second chance, you probably won't get a third.

Posted by Rachelannthepisces

Posted by JJ141214
Ok so I've injured a cancer man's heart who loved me with every ounce. (I withheld information and angry text basically tell him not to look for me and good Bye) tried to take it back ....and he has retrieved to shell blocked me out of social media except his phone.... so he still get my texts. I need to find a sure prove way to apologize and somehow make him reconsider his decision _??_

I feel for you because I am currently going through the same thing. I tried everything. Apologizing, getting angry, getting sad, being upbeat; he will not answer. He has deleted me on Facebook and I now am pretty sure he has blocked my number. It has been devastating to me. I wish I would have listensed to everyone telling me to not talk to him and to let him be. He has not answered me in 3 and a half months. I think he'll come back...but I think it'll be in time. Expect a longggg wait to get your Cancer back.

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Girls after my experience, Ive read so much, I've been doing a lot of research on many things in order to cope with my pain, and move on easily and faster, I don't know if any of you believe in LOA or not which is not the point here, I found this article, which I loved because is about loving yourself first and foremost and everything else will come as addition to that, is long it worth reading it all

http://www.powerfulintentions.org/forum/topics/yess-you-can-attract-your-ex

Give it time, time reveals and if he truly cares he'd be back.

@finbuff a...you got my attention :"there's certain things we just can't avoid or ignore. " please tell me what those thing are— ...and being a Scorpio girl ..i am very dynamics ..."i would do anything for love" like the song Lo;.... sparks is an understatement ...He told me he wanted to have a baby with me and marry me ..... our love was out of this world .....friends for over a year ...both musicians so we have so much in common.....

You are best to leave him alone pestering him will just p*ss him off even more if he likes you he will come back. This is a good lesson think before you act what is with your Scorpios acting out of rage it turns into a tree trunking mess?

Posted by JJ141214
@finbuff a...you got my attention :"there's certain things we just can't avoid or ignore. " please tell me what those thing are— ...

you should send him a pic of your cooch

Omg ....He just text me.....can't believe it.... he basically saying he doesn't appreciate when someone he said he loves lies to him and in the process of digesting that I send him a horrible message .......then I responded with a simple acknowledgement of what I did and an I'm sorry....
He said " its ok , I have forgotten about it , just thought I should give you some space".... ok this is good right—?

Its just the beginning that space he is asking it will take time.... just FYI

What do you mean by that fullwaterpiesces—??_??_

Well the first thing is he has spoken to you!! great progress, means he care and likes you!!! but if he ask for space he is not done processing his feelings or whatever he has to process

Funny he didn't directly ask me form his space but rather said he will give let me have my space ...LOL I never asked for space! Must be that sideways thing cancers do .... thanks btw

They project everything they are feeling onto you because they have trouble dealing with and accepting their wheel of emotions. So when he says he's giving you space, that space is really for him.

Now get ready.....ask yourself if you are TRULY willing to commit and REALLY want him. Because this is not the last time you will go through this. Maybe not to this extreme...if he's contacted you, he does love you and is giving you a 2nd/last chance. But they naturally go through that wheel of emotions and if you are not strong enough to deal with it (short of them taking it out on you, which is never OK), you will go crazy. Make sure you are honest with him and honest with yourself before taking the next step.

UPDATE: He text me today that he was really skinned( as musicians we usually are skinned) but I could come up with the resources we could me up ..long pause and then he texted back saying he was rehearsal in London but if we can spend the whole day and night together tomorrow .... I said "yeah!!!"so we see each other tomorrow ..... and now is this a good thing or is he setting me up to tell me off.... hopefully I can use my scorpion bedroom eyes to seduce him away from scolding me for being naughty _—_—_—