break up to make up

I am a Taurus and he is cancer... every other day he is breaking up with me and a few days he wants to get back together... sometimes he breaks up with me and tells me he wants me and loves me not even an hour later... each time he dumps me the crap sounds so real as if its really over. he is bipolar. I don't even have to do nothing wrong and he will still say he is leaving me and doesn't want to be a family anymore. What in the hell is wrong with this cancer guy... he has my brain and heart all over the place... please no rude responses or I will simply block you

What does your aunt think about the situation?
The aunt who threatened to call the cops and report the car stolen...

yes I am 5 months 3 weeks pregnant now and he keeps doing this... sometimes I wonder if it has anything to do with his past relationship because he thought him and his ex had a son together until last October he found out the baby was never his and he had been very attached and depressed about this. I found I was pregnant the next day as well. he has been being bipolar with me almost since then... saying he wants to be alone and then saying please don't leave him

I'm not surprised, he's cancer.

Ask the OP why she deleted the other threads. There is a lot of info there.

yes this is really bad timing I agree but its nothing we can do about that. I always assure him that I love him and want to be a family over and over and over and over and that only changes things for that moment. Then he hits me with he doesn't want to be a family anymore and that we should just be friends... I talk everything out with him but what else can I talk about if he keeps dumping me. like last night he said these things to me and I said I don't want to raise my daughter alone and that I faught hard and went through a lot to keep our family together. his response was he just doesn't care anymore and doesn't want to do this like he thought and that I should have had an abortion,. I said why would I do that if you been telling me we are a family and besides its too late im five months and response with no its not too late other people still can do abortions at five months.... I said are you 100 percent sure this is what you want and he said yes. I said okay and hung up the phone. 30 minutes later he texts me and says I want you im sorry but.... and then nothing else .... this is driving me crazy I don't know whats going on anymore

Is this the same one where she's stuck in his state, they haven't even been together for a year, yet, and he got upset when he found out she was pregnant, but she moved in with him?

Yup. And the one whose aunt threatened to call the cops and report a stolen car if the guy didn't come back with the food the OP wanted.
She deleted the other two threads, will probaably delete this one, and then start another.

Posted by thinktoomuch
And I will forever be against all these "diagnosis": oh, he´s bipolar! No, he´s just not doing what you want him to.
Oh, he´s a narcissist! No, he´s just not into you and does not live his life to make you happy with attention.
Oh, he´s a commitmentphobe! No, he´s - again - just not into comitting to you.

Using a serious diagnosis to describe someone, who´s just not all about making you happy, is the definition of immaturity. But you defend it all you want, I guess that makes you equally immature and not really worth debating with. Cheers.

Give her a break she is pregnant hormones etc.


Maybe you both need some couples therapy. He sounds immature etc. needs to step up .

So do pregnancy hoones cause one to consciously delete threads and post again on the same topic from a different angle when the facts become inconvenient?
Sorry, no pass on that one.

Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
So do pregnancy hoones cause one to consciously delete threads and post again on the same topic from a different angle when the facts become inconvenient?
Sorry, no pass on that one.

Well I can't comment on that so I will let it pass.

Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
So do pregnancy hoones cause one to consciously delete threads and post again on the same topic from a different angle when the facts become inconvenient?
Sorry, no pass on that one.

Yes. They do. Why don't you Google what women go through when they're pregnant, asswipe. No body is saying she's innocent. That doesn't change the fact that this piece of shit is doing things that stress her out WHIKE SHE IS PREGNANT. The stress he's bringing into her life could kill the baby.

Not saying she should get a pass for shitty behavior, but it should be understood that her shitty behavior could be caused by the changes her body is going through. If he doesn't want the baby or isn't interested in being bothered with her he should just leave or clearly communicate how he feels like an adult. Instead he is manipulating her and stressing her out during a time where she is extremely emotionally and physically vulnerable.

This is not the time to be playing games. For him to be doing this to her at this time is disgusting and selfish. The crap he's going through is probably peanuts in comparison to what she's going through. He's only doing this because he knows she's going to keep the baby and he is the father, so she is forced to deal with him. Neither one of them deserves a free pass period. But he's dead wrong to doing this shit to a pregnant woman.

Omg for real, what do you want?

See I am single for this reason you can't trust people anymore. The both of you should of protected yourself with protection and you could run far as funk but nope.

A guy whispering that shit and then all of sudden he doesn't want kids or you? What type of Bullshit are ypu guys talking about realistically. Drop him, and raise this baby yourself.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
A guy whispering that shit and then all of sudden he doesn't want kids or you? What type of Bullshit are ypu guys talking about realistically. Drop him, and raise this baby yourself.

Yeah. He's trash. Idc what's going on, his feelings are NOT more important than hers and they both should be expected to act like adults.

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Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
So do pregnancy hoones cause one to consciously delete threads and post again on the same topic from a different angle when the facts become inconvenient?
Sorry, no pass on that one.

Yes. They do. Why don't you Google what women go through when they're pregnant, asswipe. No body is saying she's innocent. That doesn't change the fact that this piece of shit is doing things that stress her out WHIKE SHE IS PREGNANT. The stress he's bringing into her life could kill the baby.

Not saying she should get a pass for shitty behavior, but it should be understood that her shitty behavior could be caused by the changes her body is going through. If he doesn't want the baby or isn't interested in being bothered with her he should just leave or clearly communicate how he feels like an adult. Instead he is manipulating her and stressing her out during a time where she is extremely emotionally and physically vulnerable.

This is not the time to be playing games. For him to be doing this to her at this time is disgusting and selfish. The crap he's going through is probably peanuts in comparison to what she's going through. He's only doing this because he knows she's going to keep the baby and he is the father, so she is forced to deal with him. Neither one of them deserves a free pass period. But he's dead wrong to doing this shit to a pregnant woman.

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Ah yes. It's all HIS fault.
If I recall, on one of those deleted threads you stated "he made you pregnant". I don't recall the OP ever stating she was raped or was visited by an angel on the guy's behalf.
Quite frankly, your credibility is in questtion..
Oh, and in English, following a statement with "but" negates the words before it. Yes, you are giving her a pass, but not because of pregnancy hormones, but out of your own misguided view of men in general. I ve seen your comments elsewhere.

But you know what he probably told you along time ago, just be friends, or not ready, or just got out of a relationship then and still not ready, but we clung to people who have been hurt, being there as friends then also some attraction comes to play, you hear and see red flags , but decided to stick around, probably cause the words were right, attraction is still there, lies and manipulation hit surfaces, still 8gnore it.

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
A guy whispering that shit and then all of sudden he doesn't want kids or you? What type of Bullshit are ypu guys talking about realistically. Drop him, and raise this baby yourself.

Yeah. He's trash. Idc what's going on, his feelings are NOT more important than hers and they both should be expected to act like adults.

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Infact right now hers are more important ....she is carrying his child. He should be aware of that.

Maybe leaving him is not realistic. Maybe she is just venting here i don't know.

You need a solid kind man in your life. Tell him that ...but looks like he will have to do!

Grrr

Posted by CancerOnTheCusp

Posted by Magenta_Azure

Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
So do pregnancy hoones cause one to consciously delete threads and post again on the same topic from a different angle when the facts become inconvenient?
Sorry, no pass on that one.

Yes. They do. Why don't you Google what women go through when they're pregnant, asswipe. No body is saying she's innocent. That doesn't change the fact that this piece of shit is doing things that stress her out WHIKE SHE IS PREGNANT. The stress he's bringing into her life could kill the baby.

Not saying she should get a pass for shitty behavior, but it should be understood that her shitty behavior could be caused by the changes her body is going through. If he doesn't want the baby or isn't interested in being bothered with her he should just leave or clearly communicate how he feels like an adult. Instead he is manipulating her and stressing her out during a time where she is extremely emotionally and physically vulnerable.

This is not the time to be playing games. For him to be doing this to her at this time is disgusting and selfish. The crap he's going through is probably peanuts in comparison to what she's going through. He's only doing this because he knows she's going to keep the baby and he is the father, so she is forced to deal with him. Neither one of them deserves a free pass period. But he's dead wrong to doing this shit to a pregnant woman.

Ah yes. It's all HIS fault.
If I recall, on one of those deleted threads you stated "he made you pregnant". I don't recall the OP ever stating she was raped or was visited by an angel on the guy's behalf.
Quite frankly, your credibility is in questtion..
Oh, and in English, following a statement with "but" negates the words before it. Yes, you are giving her a pass, but not because of pregnancy hormones, but out of your own misguided view of men in general. I ve seen your comments elsewhere.

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Child, bye.


Get out of your feelings, boo. This has nothing to do with my view of men, whiney ass.

Realistically raise the kid the best you can or give it up for adoption. Or maybe he gets some visitations rights with child support..

moon artist you don't have your story all the way correct sorry

again yes he said this months ago but then hours later begged me not to leave him... is anyone hearing that part because a lot of you are making it seem like he told me this and I kept chasing after him... that's not the case... if someone tells me its over even if im hurt I don't chase them if they say they don't want me but if they apologize and say they scared or didn't mean it then I will act accordingly

Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
So do pregnancy hoones cause one to consciously delete threads and post again on the same topic from a different angle when the facts become inconvenient?
Sorry, no pass on that one.

Sorry to say, but when I read the OP´s first post about this all (moving in in two months, leo ex girlfriend) I asked her, if its real? It sounds like a made up story

then she posted about the food and aunt..... and apparently deleted It?

just how crazy can you get, when you are pregnant? not that crazy?

Also, she asked if she should have an abortion..... at 5 months!!! what she is thinking?

OP, I am sorry to say, but you are unstable and immature and maybe also crazy, no wonder you are with this man....... but we have only your word for all this drama, and dealing with you is not easy, as we can all see from your (now deleted) posts

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Posted by TaurusMarine
I'm not surprised, he's cancer.

is that you in the picture, i love it, so classy

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Thank you!

yes he has cheated before in our relationship as well and is it a crime to have more than one post about the same relationship. I can see if I keep posting but about different guys smfh

Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Yup. And the one whose aunt threatened to call the cops and report a stolen car if the guy didn't come back with the food the OP wanted.
She deleted the other two threads, will probaably delete this one, and then start another.

Oh, I missed the drama about the aunt. Sounds like OP AND the cancer are equally nuts. No wonder they're both together still.