@victoriagemini
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Interpreting His Actions Based on Astrology
His behavior may indicate Cancer traits like emotional sensitivity and indirect communication. Liking your photos could suggest lingering interest or a desire for connection. Whether to text depends on your feelings and what you want. Astrology can offer insights into his motives but consider your own boundaries and clarity before reaching out.
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Anyone?
Let him "like" your stuff or whatever and just go on with your life
Let him "like" your stuff or whatever and just go on with your life
What does it mean thou? I like him and wish he would talk with me
If he's playing a game in trying to get you to text him, forget him....who's got time for that bullshit.
Otherwise, he's not texting you because he doesn't want to.
Either way, go on with your life and quit worrying about his on-line activities.
Posted by truecap
If he's playing a game in trying to get you to text him, forget him....who's got time for that bullshit.Otherwise, he's not texting you because he doesn't want to.
Either way, go on with your life and quit worrying about his on-line activities.
Fuck maybe he is playing me....yeah if he really wanted to say hi he should initiate
Posted by Ktayl117
Then for fucking sakes text him and stop asking everyone else what to do, obviously you want too. You're consumed with him.
Hell yes I want him and I'm asking professionals. I never dealt with crab men
Posted by truecap
If he's playing a game in trying to get you to text him, forget him....who's got time for that bullshit.Otherwise, he's not texting you because he doesn't want to.
Either way, go on with your life and quit worrying about his on-line activities.
Fuck maybe he is playing me....yeah if he really wanted to say hi he should initiate
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Cancers can be like that.
Let him "like" your stuff or whatever and just go on with your life
What does it mean thou? I like him and wish he would talk with me
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HE'S FUCKING WITH YOU.
Totally serious.
Let him "like" your stuff or whatever and just go on with your life
What does it mean thou? I like him and wish he would talk with me
HE'S FUCKING WITH YOU.
Totally serious.
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why DA fuq thou? Damn
Posted by FutureSeeker
From what I understand, if a cancer man is interested- he would want to be around you. Liking your pics is the same way he would treat a buddy. You deserve someone who wants you, not who you have to wait for.
Move on, he isn't your match.
He used to text me all the time...now after we had foreplay nothing but this. We live like 2 he's from each other thou
Posted by truecap
If he's playing a game in trying to get you to text him, forget him....who's got time for that bullshit.Otherwise, he's not texting you because he doesn't want to.
Either way, go on with your life and quit worrying about his on-line activities.
Fuck maybe he is playing me....yeah if he really wanted to say hi he should initiate
Cancers can be like that.
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He used to text me all the time...sucks now
Don't get too excited about this. Do you realize how much effort it take to like a post/photo? Not much.
For all you know he's liking 10 other chicks photos at the same time as he's liking yours.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Don't get too excited about this. Do you realize how much effort it take to like a post/photo? Not much.For all you know he's liking 10 other chicks photos at the same time as he's liking yours.
I'm not exciting its just we dated been intimate and he used to iniate texting all the time and a call now nothing in a month only liking photos. Wtf?
Let him "like" your stuff or whatever and just go on with your life
What does it mean thou? I like him and wish he would talk with me
HE'S FUCKING WITH YOU.
Totally serious.
why DA fuq thou? Damn
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I don't know but damaged crabs act like
damaged crabs.
Did you hurt his feelings?
Let him "like" your stuff or whatever and just go on with your life
What does it mean thou
? I like him and wish he would talk with meHE'S FUCKING WITH YOU.
Totally serious.
why DA fuq thou? Damn
I don't know but damaged crabs act like
damaged crabs.
Did you hurt his feelings?
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Well he wanted sex but only got foreplay sex so maybe hes kinds hurt about that? But we did talk about it and he said its fine. Hmm maybe he doesn't know how to initiate convo with me because of this?
Posted by SensitiveBlues
crabs want to be nice and we sometimes attempt to make others happy by doing things to support their egodoesn't mean we like them...
My ego? I dont get it
Posted by SensitiveBlues
crabs want to be nice and we sometimes attempt to make others happy by doing things to support their egodoesn't mean we like them...
My ego? I dont get it
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Ugh she is just projecting.
Go away you psycho damaged tart.
Posted by kissmygrits
Go away you psycho damaged tart.
Wow what an intelligent specimen you are..you can't be a crab so I say you go away douche
You're the one asking why a guy who's dick you sucked is liking your instagram pics. Very classy and intellectually driven. Not.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Don't get too excited about this. Do you realize how much effort it take to like a post/photo? Not much.For all you know he's liking 10 other chicks photos at the same time as he's liking yours.
I'm not exciting its just we dated been intimate and he used to iniate texting all the time and a call now nothing in a month only liking photos. Wtf?
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Why has he stopped contacting you? There are many possibilities.
Perhaps he isn't in a financial place where he feels he can date (security is important to the crab). Or maybe the sex wasn't all that. Or maybe he's moved on to someone else.
He may just be keeping you on the line with those likes in the hopes of a booty call later.
Only he knows his intentions. The reason I said don't get excited is because I don't think you should read into his behavior. He will eventually reveal his intentions.
Until then you need to stop letting him take up residence in your thoughts. Keep doing you. Meet other people. Or, if you want, reach out to him to see what's up...
Posted by SensitiveBlues
crabs want to be nice and we sometimes attempt to make others happy by doing things to support their egodoesn't mean we like them...
Right and sometimes we forget or we don't recognize the username because it was probably changed a few times. ‚
Posted by kissmygrits
You're the one asking why a guy who's dick you sucked is liking your instagram pics. Very classy and intellectually driven. Not.
Actually no I didnt
Posted by LadyNeptune
Don't get too excited about this. Do you realize how much effort it take to like a post/photo? Not much.For all you know he's liking 10 other chicks photos at the same time as he's liking yours.
I'm not exciting its just we dated been intimate and he used to iniate texting all the time and a call now nothing in a month only liking photos. Wtf?
Why has he stopped contacting you? There are many possibilities.
Perhaps he isn't in a financial place where he feels he can date (security is important to the crab). Or maybe the sex wasn't all that. Or maybe he's moved on to someone else.
He may just be keeping you on the line with those likes in the hopes of a booty call later.
Only he knows his intentions. The reason I said don't get excited is because
I don't think you should read into his behavior. He will eventually reveal his intentions.Until then you need to stop letting him take up residence in your thoughts. Keep doing you. Meet other people. Or, if you want, reach out to him to see what's up...
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Hmmm so then why not ignore me totally and disappear and delete me? He wants me to think of him
Posted by LadyNeptune
Don't get too excited about this. Do you realize how much effort it take to like a post/photo? Not much.For all you know he's liking 10 other chicks photos at the same time as he's liking yours.
I'm not exciting its just we dated been intimate and he used to iniate texting all the time and a call now nothing in a month only liking photos. Wtf?
Why has he stopped contacting you? There are many possibilities.
Perhaps he isn't in a financial place where he feels he can date (security is important to the crab). Or maybe the sex wasn't all that. Or maybe he's moved on to someone else.
He may just be keeping you on the line with those likes in the hopes of a booty call later.
Only he knows his intentions. The reason I said don't get excited is because
I don't think you should read into his behavior. He will eventually reveal his intentions.Until then you need to stop letting him take up residence in your thoughts. Keep doing you. Meet other people. Or, if you want, reach out to him to see what's up...
Hmmm so then why not ignore me totally and disappear and delete me? He wants me to think of him
Posted by LadyNeptune
He may just be keeping you on the line with those likes in the hopes of a booty call later.Only he knows his intentions.
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Posted by SensitiveBlues
crabs want to be nice and we sometimes attempt to make others happy by doing things to support their egodoesn't mean we like them...
My ego? I dont get it
Ugh she is just projecting.
no im not. stop speaking for crabs
go away, get off our nuts
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See?
Posted by SensitiveBlues
. To the OP its past time you made a CRAZY out of your comfort zone MOVEyou need to be bold and ask him out for coffee/tea or even better a walk around some water area (we love water, its soothing)
just be like i really want to see you.
then when you get him somewhere for tea/coffee
ask him bluntly whats up ..do you like me? Can you see us dating? Are you interested in me? In what way?
Id like to get to know you better. etc etc
but be wary what you ask for.
Gems aren't too happy long term with CRABS.
Thanks for the advice...yeah maybe he wants to feel desired by me
Posted by victoriagemini
Well he wanted sex but only got foreplay sex so maybe hes kinds hurt about that? But we did talk about it and he said its fine. Hmm maybe he doesn't know how to initiate convo with me because of this?
Just got caught up on this thread and read the above. I'd like to revoke my earlier statement.
He won't directly contact you as you have bruised his ego. He's coming at you sideways with those pic likes but don't expect a call or text anytime soon.
You rejected him and cancers can't stand rejection.
Your a TEASE, letting him touch your body and getting his dick hard and then shutting your legs. If you had no intention of having sex with him than you never should have gotten naked.
At the worst he will take it as a personal rejection. That his dick isn't big enough, his body isn't hot enough, his game isn't good enough for you. And at the very least you left the impression that your indecisive. Why would he want to be with someone who doesn't know what they want?
Posted by victoriagemini
Well he wanted sex but only got foreplay sex so maybe hes kinds hurt about that? But we did talk about it and he said its fine. Hmm maybe he doesn't know how to initiate convo with me because of this?Just got caught up on this thread and read the above. I'd like to revoke my earlier statement.
He won't directly contact you as you have bruised his ego. He's coming at you sideways with those pic likes but don't expect a call or text
anytime soon.You rejected him and cancers can't stand rejection.
Your a TEASE, letting him touch your body and getting his dick hard and then shutting your legs. If you had no intention of having sex with him than you never should have gotten naked.
At the worst he will take it as a personal rejection. That his dick isn't big enough, his body isn't hot enough, his game isn't good enough for you. And at the very
least you left the impression that your indecisive. Why would he want to be with someone who doesn't know what they want?click to expand
But he comments on my stuff too? He can't be that hurt. told him its too early.
Posted by victoriagemini
Well he wanted sex but only got foreplay sex so maybe hes kinds hurt about that? But we did talk about it and he said its fine. Hmm maybe he doesn't know how to initiate convo with me because of this?Just got caught up on this thread and read the above. I'd like to revoke my earlier statement.
He won't directly contact you as you have bruised his ego. He's coming at you sideways with those pic likes but don't expect a call or text anytime soon.
You rejected him and cancers can't stand rejection.
Your a TEASE, letting him touch your body and getting his dick hard and then shutting your legs. If you had no intention of having sex with him than you never should have gotten naked.
At the worst he will take it as a personal rejection. That his dick isn't big enough, his body isn't hot enough, his game isn't good enough for you. And at the very least you left the impression that your indecisive. Why would he want to be with someone who doesn't know what they want?
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So should i text him— Say hi
Cancers are good at showing the world what they want to see. Believe me, he's hurt by your rejection.
If you want him then you need to make the next move. Tell him you can't stop thinking about him. Ask him out to a specific place at a set time. Make it hard for him to scuttle away.
@SensitiveBlues is right. Now is the time for a big move on your part.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Cancers are good at showing the world what they want to see. Believe me, he's hurt by your rejection.If you want him then you need to make the next move. Tell him you can't stop thinking about him. Ask him out to a specific place at a set time. Make it hard for him to scuttle away.
@SensitiveBlues is right. Now is the time for a big move on your part.
Here's the thing I texted him like a month ago and he ignored my text for a whole week telling me some excuse. So now he's so active on my Instagram and I want to talk with him but I'm scared he's going to ignore the text
Posted by LadyNeptune
Cancers are good at showing the world what they want to see. Believe me, he's hurt by your rejection.If you want him then you need to make the next move. Tell him you can't stop thinking about him. Ask him out to a specific place at a set time. Make it hard for him to scuttle away.
@SensitiveBlues is right. Now is the time for a big move on your part.
OK I will text him to say hi and see of he responds...if he doesn't then at least I know he's just playing
Posted by Pureserenity
Then you can make a clear decision. Did he respond?
I just texted him 2 mins ago so far nothing
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He did reply
Posted by victoriagemini
Well he wanted sex but only got foreplay sex so maybe hes kinds hurt about that? But we did talk about it and he said its fine. Hmm maybe he doesn't know how to initiate convo with me because of this?Just got caught up on this thread and read the above. I'd like to revoke my earlier statement.
He won't directly contact you as you have bruised his ego. He's coming at you sideways with those pic likes but don't expect a call or text anytime soon.
You rejected him and cancers can't stand rejection.
Your a TEASE, letting him touch your body and getting his dick hard and then shutting your legs. If you had no intention of having sex with him than you never should have gotten naked.
At the worst he will take it as a personal rejection. That his dick isn't big enough, his body isn't hot enough, his game isn't good enough for you. And at the very least you left the impression that your indecisive. Why would he want to be with someone who doesn't know what they want?
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I said the same thing on one of her other posts. It's immature. Playing with adult men like that.
Posted by SensitiveBlues
crabs want to be nice and we sometimes attempt to make others happy by doing things to support their egodoesn't mean we like them...
My ego? I dont get it
Ugh she is just projecting.
no im not. stop speaking for crabs
go away, get off our nuts
See?
see what, you're corny
if crabs disagree with my statement they can.
but yes we're overly nice...we like to appease others egos
we will like pics even when we think nothing of you
because we know you need it.
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A crab male friend of mine says flattery goes a long way.
He's always saying things to people he doesn't really mean, he laughs about it to me afterwards. Lol
Me3
"No, the pants don't make you look fat"
*vanishes*
(Read between the lines on that comment, people. There's a LOT of context in that 8 word response.....)
Posted by SensitiveBlues
crabs want to be nice and we sometimes attempt to make others happy by doing things to support their egodoesn't mean we like them...
My ego? I dont get it
Ugh she is just projecting.
no im not. stop speaking for crabs
go away, get off our nuts
See?
see what, you're corny
if crabs disagree with my statement they can.
but yes we're overly nice...we like to appease others egos
we will like pics even when we think nothing of you
because we know you need it.
A crab male friend of mine says flattery goes a long way.
He's always saying things to people he doesn't really mean, he laughs about it to me afterwards. Lol
Me2
"Your hair is lovely"
*vanishes*
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Lol. I can always tell when he's full of shit too. When he's saying these things to people, I just stare at him like "really"?... and he has to turn away to keep from laughing.
Posted by SensitiveBlues
crabs want to be nice and we sometimes attempt to make others happy by doing things to support their egodoesn't mean we like them...
My ego? I dont get it
Ugh she is just projecting.
no im not. stop speaking for crabs
go away, get off our nuts
See?
see what, you're corny
if crabs disagree with my statement they can.
but yes we're overly nice...we like to appease others egos
we will like pics even when we think nothing of you
because we know you need it.
A crab male friend of mine says flattery goes a long way.
He's always saying things to people he doesn't really mean, he laughs about it to me afterwards. Lol
Me2
"Your hair is lovely"
*vanishes*
Lol. I can always tell when he's full of shit too. When he's saying these things to people, I just stare at him like "really"?... and he has to turn away to keep from laughing.
Most things I say is cheeky bs. I can't believe half the time when ppl take me serious. I'm only serious when I'm irritated. It's obvious.
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Ya, the people he talks to, take him so seriously too, especially the women. It's funny.
Well all of you are wrong.....he replied and asked why it took so long for me to text him. He wants to meet up.
Well, best of luck to you, sincerely.
Hopefully this thread is the "last question".
Posted by victoriagemini
Well all of you are wrong.....he replied and asked why it took so long for me to text him. He wants to meet up.
Actually... some of us were on point. Without our advice you'd still be counting his likes.
Your welcome.
@victoriagemini - tried to PM you but it's disabled!
Good luck and have fun. Hope it works out.
Posted by victoriagemini
Well all of you are wrong.....he replied and asked why it took so long for me to text him. He wants to meet up.
Of course he wants to meet up.
And will do so until you finish what you started lol...like getting half naked and saying no sex...he knows you're gonna finish what you started now.
Dear, you're just a conquest.
You proved to be a cock tease and he took off.
Now he's the one in control and is going to try again. You're getting played, lolz.
Posted by Arielle83
Wait around ladies yourfavoritedxpuse/scorpiofish will be back to white knight you and hate you and degrade you when you don't agree with him.
Until then he'll be lurking with his sockpuppets.......
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OK I'm bringing this up again but I'm going crazy. Do I text him or not? He hasn't been texting me for over a month but he follows me on insta and keeps on liking EVERY freaking photo I put out of myself. Is this a sideway Cancer move? Is he trying to get me to text him? Or its meaningless? But we have been intimate once.
I know this sounds like a high school problem but I still need insight. Thanks