To those of you who dissapear.

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by ladylibra21 on Friday, February 12, 2016 and has 9 replies.

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@ladylibra21
11 Years1,000+ Posts

When you decided to come back have you had people ignore you right back? If so how did it make you feel? Did you chase or just move on?

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@Elle77
10 Years

I've done this to 3 different guys. A Leo, Aquarius and a Capricorn. None of them ignored me. The first two we started back into a relationship. Leo lasted a few years and the Aquarius one weekend lol The Cap and I are still close and talk everyday.

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@ladylibra21
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Arielle83
I don't know what you mean by come back.

I've hooked up with exes with no intention of a relationship. Big deal.

The question is if you were ignoring someone you were intimate with and you popped back up to see what they were doing and they ignored your attempt to contact them what would you do chase them or let it go?

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@VirgoQueen
10 Years

My cancer man went into his shell for 3 days last week hahaha ... I was mad and blocked both of his numbers .. I awoke to him popped up at my front door. And do you know what he told me ? Bae I always come back .. If a man really loves you , the ignoring thing should wake their ass up out of the crabbiness eventually lol I just made him miss me , and boom there he was back again until the next crab she'll cycle ­ 😉

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@workingirl
17 Years

Hypothetically, what would you feel towards someone who hurt you ten years ago, causing a breakup, but you learned that they still love you? An Aqua guy is trying to meet after ten years(!) with a Cancer friend of mine, maybe just to get her back as a friend. But it's weird isn't it? Ten years is a long time..

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@workingirl
17 Years

My friend is married to a guy with a kid, and they are really happy. ANd the husband is jealous lol.

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@rabidtalker
15 Years5,000+ Posts

I've rekindled friendships with women from relationships over 10 years past, but with no intention of continuing where we left off.

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@Crabra
10 Years1,000+ Posts

I don't really do that. In an extremely rare occurrence that I did, and my attempt to reach out wasn't returned, I would just move along.

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@ladylibra21
11 Years1,000+ Posts

He messaged me yesterday. He went to go visit his parents in Maine, but I could tell I had hurt his feelings. So I just let him know I missed him and his whole mood changed, but I am proceeding with caution because my stalking makes me think he may have a relationship even though he told me his last one ended in August. I don't care if we are serious or not but I wont be sleeping with someone else's man.