cancer and feelings

hi all im looking for advice from cancer males or females i met this wonderful guy and he is very sweet and pays alot of attention me he live in another state we meet online but havent met in person yet... i am a scorpio and sometimes i think i am too deep for him hes 23years old and im 34 i know that he likes me because he shows it and he tells me but my question is do most cancer guys when they start to really open up and feel deeply first go into their shell the reason i am asking is because he will call me everyday for a week and be so sweet and nice and sharing feelings then the next week his mood has change then i dont hear from him for a few days.. im trying to hang in there because the last time we talked he was saying that he wants to meet me but he like to take his time which i understand but it it typical for guys to go away and ponder things when they are unsure of what to do? and should i just wait and see what happens or should i keep letting him know that when he comes back i am here? please help i also know that its a big age difference and i dont want to hurt him and i know he dosnt want to hurt me is that what he could be pondering? any comments would be great i really need them also he very mature for his age..

Hi - I am a cancer female. Just by reading your letter, my first instinct is, is he having a lot of problems in his life right now? How long have you been talking? It could be that he is very appreciative of your friendship/support. Once you are a friend to a Cancer person, supportive that is, they really hook on to you - no matter how old you are. He is young, and I would think there is a possibility, if you have been talking for a while and you haven't met, that maybe it has crossed his mind with the age difference and may not want to take it a step further. Although, cancer people in my opinion do tend to go for older people, in your case mother figure.

I think you are right to just let it go with the flow, no pressure, and concentrate on the positive relationship you have right now.

Let go and let God take care of what's in store for the future. Good Luck 🙂

Me

thanks for your reply anyway we have been talking for 3 months on a daily bases and now it seems thathe is scared because things are heating up as far as my age i know that is not a problem for him because hes been dating older woman al along but i dont think that he expected to have deep feelings for a woman who he met online... he would call me long distance everyday and talk for hours and if he was not calling we were online everyday but now for the last few days i havent heard from him.... but the last time we talked this looked good i dont know what to think so ill just follow ur advice and just play wait and see and hope that he comes around. i know that guys tend to pull away when they feel we are getting to close and he has dont this before but he stayed away for three weeks then when he came back i asked him why and all he could tell me is that he was confused?? what is that? then he told me thathe dont want to lose what we have together.. if that is true why would he just go away without anything being wrong bettween us do all cancers have this trait? and will he come back?

Hi - It's ME again,

You have to remember he's 23, good lord, not meaning anything personal, but online relationships, I think, are just that, although we have heard many happy stories in this regard, I believe they are few and far between.

If that is the only explanation he gave you - after 3 weeks - believe him - he is confused.

Again let it go, and don't depend on him so much relationship wise. You sound like a sweet person, YOUNG also, why don't you try and find someone closer to your age at a club, gym, grocery store?? Reality check (again not being crude) but please don't hang on to something in cyberspace!!

Be good and again good luck!!

ME

thanks again me for ur reply and u are right i should not put too much time into a online friendship. and i am still very much a young woman whos is 34 and looks 19 or 20 the problem is that when i go out and i meeet guys they are always young because i have the face and body of a younger woman but ill keep trying and no you wernt being mean i like when people are direct and to the point because sometime we need to hear things we really dont want to hear in order to make a choice so once again thnak you and may god bless u