cancer and libra- help

Well technically hes a virgo- libra because he was born exactly on that cusp of the last day lol head 9/22 at 11:59 pm and rest 9/23 at 12:00am lol but thats besides the point.... let me get into my story


I am much younger than him (10 yrs). At first the age was a very big thing to get used to but i have learned that love is unpredictable. So when we first met i was kinda iffy about him and i felt like everything was going so fast by the next week this Libra man was talking about marriage and children.. okay im a cancer so i can definitely identify with wanting that in the future but he was talking like it was gonna happen tomorrow. Anyway i got him to back off a bit about it since then.. It seemed like he fell in love with me so quickly and i've just recently begun to realize how much i care about him. The first month of the relationship was so hard for me and i went through this whole ordeal with my ex who had broken my heart 8 months previously and i had thought i still loved my ex(we were together 2yrs) and went so far and cheated on my new boyfriend with the old.. needless to say :dumb move. But i've realized it was a mistake and wont happen again so its kinda my own little secret from him. Lately as ive been falling in love with him more he's backing away and always scared i'll leave.. Is this a typical Libra trait? How can Cancers and Libra's make their differences work? (I am very emotional and enjoy talking things out and sharing how i feel... he is very understanding but lacks the ability to become vulnerable with me)

Libra men are pretty good guys. It seems like they detach themselves from the world, but they are very peaceful and like things to stay balanced out.