Very rocky relationship between a Camcer man and a Virgo woman. Why does he keep coming back? Is it just for the sex? Is it because he hasn't found anyone to replace me yet? Very exhausting... I feel he is just leading me on for convenience.
Cancer and Virgo
If you feel exhausted from his actions shouldn't that be enough? His intentions don't really matter in the grand scheme. He comes back to you because you allow it.
"Cancer and Virgo are a match made in relationship heaven" - the biggest lie in advertising since McDonald's started putting 'fancy' on their ketchup packets.
Posted by mattsmumWell why don't you cut him out of your life then? It seems like you are letting him take advantage of you... Set yourself free and focus/look for better things.
Very exhausting...
How is it rocky? what keeps on happening? And why is it you still want him?
Rocky in terms of constant pulling away, doesn't text or call until I initiate it, when he comes back he acts like nothing is up, when I tell him that feel hurt and confused with his pulling away, he'd get sensitive about it and tells me I complain too much. He gets hurt and pulls away. I have feelings too but he is too focused on himself, his world. Today I ended it. It's just too much confusion on my part. 3 1/2 years of nothing. I should have ended it after the first year when he started this pulling away act. Yet he still says he cares for me.
I'm blind. There are no real details
Posted by SagiScorpIf she made up her mind & left then what's the point of writing now.Posted by CalmCrab22Seems like OP wants more attention. He isn't giving it so she left.
I'm blind. There are no real details
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Posted by SagiScorpcan we tell her if we don't know the foundation of their relationship?Posted by CalmCrab22She's trying to find insight into why a Cancer man would behave this wayPosted by SagiScorpIf she made up her mind & left then what's the point of writing now.Posted by CalmCrab22Seems like OP wants more attention. He isn't giving it so she left.
I'm blind. There are no real details
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Based on this alone. Your a POA ?
@sagiscorp ^ the OP is a POA not you
Why are y'all attacking her.
She's asking a simple question.
Whenever a Virgo f asks for advice, there is never any type of advice. Just conversations about how dumb the question is. There is never a solution to the problem.
Read other boards w females asking similar questions.
Here:
Hey girl I'm not sure of your exact situation w this guy but I actually haven't heard of many cancer m/ Virgo F relationships working out. He may be just using you, but you know him best, well at least better than all of us. So in the end, it will be your decision(:
She's asking a simple question.
Whenever a Virgo f asks for advice, there is never any type of advice. Just conversations about how dumb the question is. There is never a solution to the problem.
Read other boards w females asking similar questions.
Here:
Hey girl I'm not sure of your exact situation w this guy but I actually haven't heard of many cancer m/ Virgo F relationships working out. He may be just using you, but you know him best, well at least better than all of us. So in the end, it will be your decision(:
Posted by mattsmumThis is normal behaviour LOL
Rocky in terms of constant pulling away, doesn't text or call until I initiate it, when he comes back he acts like nothing is up, when I tell him that feel hurt and confused with his pulling away, he'd get sensitive about it and tells me I complain too much. He gets hurt and pulls away. I have feelings too but he is too focused on himself, his world. Today I ended it. It's just too much confusion on my part. 3 1/2 years of nothing. I should have ended it after the first year when he started this pulling away act. Yet he still says he cares for me.
Omfg
The poor dude is like wtf just happened
I'm sure this is a normal behavior for Cancer men because I've read the Cancer forum and the people who share their dilemma about them have almost always the same problem, makes me wonder if all of us are dating the same Cancer man. But we have feelings too. We get hurt too and Cnacer men be like "huh? Really" then retreats back to his shell and leaves you feeling like it's your fault for hurting and now it's got to be your fault he retreated back to his shell.
Posted by mattsmum
Why does he keep coming back? Is it just for the sex?
Yes.
Posted by mattsmum
Is it because he hasn't found anyone to replace me yet?
A FWB to replace you? No he has not found anyone dedicated and committed to a FWB as you are. Three years is a long time.
Posted by mattsmum
Very exhausting... I feel he is just leading me on for convenience.click to expand
If you truly feel this way...the mixed signals...then tell us the REAL story. Why hasn't there been any foundation established with the both of you?
As for this pairing...
It's a great combination if the the adults are behaving like adults with communication, faith, trust and honesty.
The two signs want the same things.
I know Virgo woman who is having an affair with a married Cancer man who is married to another Virgo female.
He is using the both of these women financially.
But I also know a Cancer man who would never think of using or cheating on his woman...EVER!
He's quite the moralist if you ask me.
Emotional maturity is very important.
Yes, even for a water sign.
....and an earth sign.
It's a great combination if the the adults are behaving like adults with communication, faith, trust and honesty.
The two signs want the same things.
I know Virgo woman who is having an affair with a married Cancer man who is married to another Virgo female.
He is using the both of these women financially.
But I also know a Cancer man who would never think of using or cheating on his woman...EVER!
He's quite the moralist if you ask me.
Emotional maturity is very important.
Yes, even for a water sign.
....and an earth sign.
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