Cancer/Cancer Relationships.....

Has anyone ever been in a relationship with another cancer? I seem to cross paths with other cancers a lot and I always get hurt. Last time being the worst. I'm coming up with the assumption that all Cancer men are cheaters... They all seem to want their cake and eat it too and that because they are so nice, caring, and giving, you should just put up with all of their crap.

Well personally I never dated another cancer but I have had male friends that are cancers and they are such dogs I would never think of them seriously enough for a relationship! Your right they are giving and caring but trustworthy NOT!

How can that be when we woman are so loyal? Do we have different beliefs on loyalty. I know when I was younger and in relationships and wasn't happy I cheated and got sneaky. As I got older I realize that if your not happy and it comes down to you having to cheat then there are problems to be worked out and if we can't work them out it's time to just move on. When I'm in love and decide I'm going to be with a person I'm as loyal as can be and don't even look at another guy.

I guess honeygirl this question is one for the cancer male because I am on your side wholeheartedly with the cheating and not happy thing because u know like i know us women can be just as sneaky as men

Well let's see if someone is man enough to own up to this.... I don't really think I'm sneaky lol... Though I am dating two guys right now and one of them is a Taurus and acts really jealous about the other guy... So I have to be sneaky... We are supposed to be just dating but, seems he has a bit of a jealous streak and feels he has to compete... The other guy is a Scorpio who'm I like highly so I guess he has a reason to feel like he has to compete... But don't we all feel this way when were just dating...

Sorry to burst your bubble here ladies, but we're not all cheating dogs. Personally, I have never cheated and have never wanted to cheat, so you can't paint us all with the same brush. I have been cheated on though..... Sucks, doesn't it?

cancer girl here, and i have a cancer friend who would rather burn alive than cheating-
Cancer women, always get cheated on...it sucks...i know

Message posted by: Celes37 on 4/19/2006 6:44:49 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.80 | Report message
cancer girl here, and i have a cancer friend who would rather burn alive than cheating-
Cancer women, always get cheated on...it sucks...i know
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Must be because we are too nice... and tend to get taken advantage of... Sometimes I hate being a cancer I hate being this sensitive...

I found an interesting read today.... About Cancer Males...

In their personal relationships they are mentally a mixture of toughness and softness, often emotional and romantic to the point of sentimentality in their fantasies; but in real life and in marriage, their loving is not so sentimental but tenaciously loyal. Even if they have affairs (and they may do so, for the male in particular is open to sensual stimulation), their first loyalty remains to spouse and family, of whom they regard themselves as the protector.

This is explains everything.... Different views on what loyalty is...

I got it from this website.. http://www.astrology-online.com/cancer.htm

not to mension that male cancers are more like girls anyway.

YES, honeygirl I totally understand everything you are saying -- READ MY CURRENT POST, I believe most cancer men (well most men) have a Type A and a Type B one ... it just sucks when you realize it. Don't worry, capricorn women cannot keep a cancer man's loyalty either, but at least my cancer admitted that he was a dog but he wanted to make a change for the better ... YEAH RIGHT!. However, I don't believe that all of them are like, we just need to run from those that are. Yes, I've been cheated on, that's why I will not put up with his disception because I don't want to get hurt again by a man ...

But let's also remember that this sensitivity is what makes us so receptive of the world around us, and allows to excel greatly in the fields where creativity and intuition are needed the most. I love being a lunatic!

But yes, in relationships, it is always like a rollercoaster, and as hard as it is, we just gotta ride it, and hold on tight!

I could have kept his so called loyalty... To him loyalty ment something different then just cheating... To him loyalty meant just always being by his side 100% no matter what... And if he did sleep around not to feel threatend that he would leave me for another woman... That was what his idea of loyalty was... It's one thing to cheat.. But, when your trying to sleep with my best friend, your best friends girl, and you get your son's mother pregnant again... Houston we have a problem...

i am a cancer female, and have dated a cancer male (10 yrs ago) for about 2 years. it didn't seem to work out well though...we are still very good friends...but i think that is what we are best at...being good friends!

Exactly were you just dating because I dated one before and we were friends for a good year and half before we started seeing eachother intamately and then I found out he was back with his girl friend but him and I are still friends till this day... I have another cancer guy friend as well...

i was friends with him first for a few months, but then we dated exclusively for 2 years after that. i also very casually dated another cancer (who actually has the same birthday as me!) for about 7 months.