Cancer Girl + Cancer Girl

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by allyouneedisloveandwine on Wednesday, August 30, 2017 and has 5 replies.

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@allyouneedisloveandwine
9 Years

I met this girl travelling and really felt we had a connection. I think she's just unsure about her sexuality, but I have a strong feeling that she's interested. She said long distance is a problem though. But on my side I said I want to get to know her more first, so we agreed to stay friends. When we text its really fun. We update each other what we're doing, where we are, exchanging personal info, etc. And she seems very caring. However, although I really like her, texting is becoming very impersonal for me and I feel it is becoming the same for her.. So our texting started to become shorter and quicker. I'm visiting in February though.. Which is still a long time from now, sadly. Should I still message from time to time? Or just leave it like this? I can't stop thinking about her and I have a strong feeling things with her will be great if we do have the chance to be together. Any suggestions how I can go about making her like me more whilst apart? Thinking of sending her a book that she might like--something we briefly spoke about but I feel she's very into.

Are cancers girls a good match? I did the complete birth compatibility test and the results were good. But has any Cancer experienced a relationship with another cancer?

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@eglantine
13 Years

I was/have been in text contact with a Cancer guy I met in spring (long distance connection). First we agreed to meet in autumn, but then it happened already in July. By now our relationship is pretty much dead, but for other reasons (he is in a relationship). We communicated mainly via text messages and sometimes email. It was very impersonal and its a wonder we made it so far. I think he wasnt so invested as I, reason probably his primary relship.

But if both parties are equally interested to keep the communication alive, you should contact each other pretty often and agree to CALL (we never called). And try to meet in person as soon as possible. Otherwise you wont make it, sorry.

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@Raptor
9 Years

Seems like mine tho! I m a cancer girl with two experience with cancers; first cancer girl, we partly LDR (we meet once a week/two) we can survived for 6yrs and half. The 2nd one is for only 2mnths before she got crabby and become narcissist all over but the chemistry is out of the planet for few first dates. I don't understand the 2nd one but the first also got some weird personality but i can still managed them, but the narcissist thing is seriously scaryyyy

I don't want to get involve anymore with this narcissist and if you ve found one, don't ever think anymore, just run! ? I couldnt agree more, cancer girls are tend to have narcissist personality but it s not all of them since i am not one and am evolving myself to be better than before

If you want to have a relationship with cancer girl, don't be a cancer, be Leo or Taurus so you can survive because cancers relationship needs the dominant one, if there s no dominacy, you can just say goodbye i guess

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@allyouneedisloveandwine
9 Years

Posted by Raptor
Seems like mine tho! I m a cancer girl with two experience with cancers; first cancer girl, we partly LDR (we meet once a week/two) we can survived for 6yrs and half. The 2nd one is for only 2mnths before she got crabby and become narcissist all over but the chemistry is out of the planet for few first dates. I don't understand the 2nd one but the first also got some weird personality but i can still managed them, but the narcissist thing is seriously scaryyyy

I don't want to get involve anymore with this narcissist and if you ve found one, don't ever think anymore, just run! ? I couldnt agree more, cancer girls are tend to have narcissist personality but it s not all of them since i am not one and am evolving myself to be better than before

If you want to have a relationship with cancer girl, don't be a cancer, be Leo or Taurus so you can survive because cancers relationship needs the dominant one, if there s no dominacy, you can just say goodbye i guess

I've lost hope I think. She's not as receptive as before. Feeling sad we're so far apart.. And I feel that she's not ready to accept her sexuality yet which is another problem. Thanks for this info 🙂

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@AquaScorpio9
9 Years

Aww, I think two Cancers togther would be adorable! Don't stop communicating with each other before February. If texting is getting impersonal, why not ask to add her on a social media platform i.e. Facebook (you can learn more about what she's like) or Skype? That way you guys can still talk but it's taken to a whole new level cause you can video call each other.

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@nats
16 Years500+ Posts

You guys need to meet up ASAP. Definitely start calling. I always find speaking to someone on the phone seems a little more intimate and brings you closer than just typing into a screen.

Hearing their tone of voice etc