So I went to a party a week ago with my neighbors and they brought some friends. One of the girls they brought was kinda interesting to me but I didn't realize until a little later into the party that this girl could be kinda cool. We definitely vibed at the party she was easy to talk to and to look at lol. We were holding hands and getting really close (we both had been drinking) Turns out shes a cancer just like me. I didn't get her number because before we started really talking at the party I was kinda making out with this other girl before her and she saw and she even tried to be my wingirl and one point, so I think she might think I'm a player, but im not lol and tbh I wish I would've just talked to her the whole time. But long story short: I ended up seeing her again got her number and we vibe on texting too, but the problem is only once this week we had a conversation throughout a whole day every other day we barely talk but she always always replys to me in the morning like 7 or 8 or 9 as soon as she wakes up and its like 3 very involved messages because we have like 3 topics that we are discussing lol, but then I wont hear from her until the next morning lol. So my question is do yall think shes into me and is just seeing how I am if I'm a player or something? Or is she just being nice and doesn't know how to tell me she isn't interested. Highly confused, I got her morning text but debating on whether I should text her and wait for another morning text or just don't reply and see what happens, Thanks for the help
take the lead and text her at another time throughout the day...open her up a bit, just be gentle and ask her stuff, flirt a bit. its too early to tell how interested she is at this point but its never too late to try and capture her heart.
i sometimes take very long to answer guys i’m interested in because i don’t want them to think i’m obsessive (am a pisces female). she might just be feeling you out to see if it’s worth putting her heart into. i would just chill and let things happen organically (and also i agree about the asking her out for drinks/food).
Think you have to clear the air with her first about what she saw you doing before you guys started talking at the party. I can guarantee you ANY woman, not just a Cancer will have that replaying in her mind, trying to figure out what kind of guy you are. Learn this right now and have it etched in your brain for years to come, women see EVERYTHING! She hung out with you playing your wingman at one point because she was trying to see what you're all about, and you dropped your guard. I definitely think she's interested in you, but you need to put her at ease and just show her you're not that frat boy she probably thinks you are.