Cancer girl hurting me

Cancer girl hurting me

I have been dating this cancer girl who is 41 for 20 months, she is lovely in every way but sadly she’s been hurt, she’s not had many boyfriends but she’s been engaged twice, the first guy she was engaged to she was with for 11 years and he became violent, the last guy she was with she was engaged to also and was with him for four years, he cheated on her, the trouble I have is that we have parted ways a few times, mainly because she’s afraid I think, she’s said to me in the past this all seems too good to be true and stuff like that, but every time I do the leg work and win her back and it gets better and better, she met my parents a couple of weeks ago which was great, however I can’t help but tell her I love her and it freaks her out, she says it gives her pressure to feel the same way and catch up to me, I’ve tried raining it back but when I feel so amazing with her I can’t help it some times, now we have broken up again and she says she’s doing this to save me from future pain as she doesn’t think she can ever love again, she’s said I’m far too good for her and I’m amazing and I try to reassure her 🤷‍♂️ Help, I adore this woman and don’t want to lose her

That’s a bitter pill to swallow