Posted by xXxAliciaXxXBefore doing so, I'd like to understand the trigger that keeps him acting like that.Posted by TaurusDivineUgh. I HATE guys who do that. After the second time I would have stopped talking to him completely and deleted his number.
Out of history. We used to have great conversations. Now Cancer guy keeps texting me first. And when I answer and ask him about his day, he checks up my txt(s) and no response. Then in a couple of days he again texts me and asks me stuff and then again is unresponsive to my questions about his life despite he's online.click to expand
Posted by Arielle83Why does he keep asking me about my day? He knows I don't like it either.
Interested, but not that interested.
I hate being asked about my day. We don't really like to talk about ourselves. Talk about some world issue or something.
Posted by thinktoomuchHe didn't use to be like that. He always responded, apologised if he was busy to respond beforehand. And suddenly this!Posted by TaurusDivineSome people just use social media like that. Don´t overthink it.Posted by Arielle83Why does he keep asking me about my day? He knows I don't like it either.
Interested, but not that interested.
I hate being asked about my day. We don't really like to talk about ourselves. Talk about some world issue or something.
Besides a couple of days I asked for his opinion but he again ignored the answer. He read the message but no response.click to expand
Posted by KoniuchaHe went berserk! He even accused me I do not know in what... And now silent treatment. That's it.
Tell him an alien came and imprisoned you.
Posted by KoniuchaWe have always congratulated each other on everything. If I don't, I feel i will never talk to himPosted by TaurusDivineCongratulate for what?
Should I congratulate such a guy on Easter? Would you?click to expand
Posted by FloI'm not a Catholic. He is. He might congratulate me if I were.
I would had pushed him aside.. Lol
I'm telling you, it wouldn't work for me.
Posted by cheekyfaerieYesterday I sent him a long message explaining why I had been irritated the day before and what kind of treatment (generally) I expect in my life. He read and didn't anser. Now I feel he won't answer and won't initiate any further talk. It's dead already.
I think if you continue to answer him, it needs to be with absolutely no expectation. He's keeping you in arm's reach, but also at arm's reach. You're a fall back. Knowing this, you can either keep him as your fall back or move on. I mean, answering back is friendly, but ultimately it's not your friendship he wants.
Posted by KoniuchaThank you for your answers. I still hesitate. But I feel my comngratulating might be viewed as weakness and giving in ( and I don't wnt to lower those standards i've already communicated to him)Posted by TaurusDivineThen I wouldn't for sure.Posted by cheekyfaerieYesterday I sent him a long message explaining why I had been irritated the day before and what kind of treatment (generally) I expect in my life. He read and didn't anser. Now I feel he won't answer and won't initiate any further talk. It's dead already.
I think if you continue to answer him, it needs to be with absolutely no expectation. He's keeping you in arm's reach, but also at arm's reach. You're a fall back. Knowing this, you can either keep him as your fall back or move on. I mean, answering back is friendly, but ultimately it's not your friendship he wants.click to expand
Posted by cheekyfaerieYes, He'll probably drop a casual line in several months. It already happened. I once told him I didn't understand all those flirty casual messages without wish to get things forward. And he answered 2 months right away asking me out.Posted by TaurusDivineQuite possibly. But I had a Cancer guy do this to me. Hell, two years later and I'll still get a random FB message out of the blue. There was a time I was semi interested, but once I realized what he was doing, I'd just answer back out of politeness. Consider him an absent minded pen pal. If my experience is anything to go by, you probably haven't heard the last of him.Posted by cheekyfaerieYesterday I sent him a long message explaining why I had been irritated the day before and what kind of treatment (generally) I expect in my life. He read and didn't anser. Now I feel he won't answer and won't initiate any further talk. It's dead already.
I think if you continue to answer him, it needs to be with absolutely no expectation. He's keeping you in arm's reach, but also at arm's reach. You're a fall back. Knowing this, you can either keep him as your fall back or move on. I mean, answering back is friendly, but ultimately it's not your friendship he wants.click to expand
Posted by KoniuchaYes, I totally agree with you and that I need to get over him. and it's already hardPosted by TaurusDivineThe only thing I liked that scorpiofish guy would say is that it's like you are at a tennis match, or something.Posted by KoniuchaThank you for your answers. I still hesitate. But I feel my comngratulating might be viewed as weakness and giving in ( and I don't wnt to lower those standards i've already communicated to him)Posted by TaurusDivineThen I wouldn't for sure.Posted by cheekyfaerieYesterday I sent him a long message explaining why I had been irritated the day before and what kind of treatment (generally) I expect in my life. He read and didn't anser. Now I feel he won't answer and won't initiate any further talk. It's dead already.
I think if you continue to answer him, it needs to be with absolutely no expectation. He's keeping you in arm's reach, but also at arm's reach. You're a fall back. Knowing this, you can either keep him as your fall back or move on. I mean, answering back is friendly, but ultimately it's not your friendship he wants.
You can't play if your partner does not send the ball back.
I butchered that, but you get the point. This guys is blatantly ignoring you and he needs to go far away.click to expand
Posted by OhdearT.H.I.S
I met an Aries guy who was just the same. It's mind games, they like to feel in control. he texts just to make sure you're still interested, when you reply he knows he still has you on a piece of string. It's an ego boost for immature and insecure guys. I think it just displays lack of personality on their part.
Posted by KoniuchaSo it's true scorps are obsessive) What are you obsessive about?Posted by TaurusDivineOh trust me, I get it. Obsessive Scorp over here!Posted by KoniuchaYes, I totally agree with you and that I need to get over him. and it's already hardPosted by TaurusDivineThe only thing I liked that scorpiofish guy would say is that it's like you are at a tennis match, or something.Posted by KoniuchaThank you for your answers. I still hesitate. But I feel my comngratulating might be viewed as weakness and giving in ( and I don't wnt to lower those standards i've already communicated to him)Posted by TaurusDivineThen I wouldn't for sure.Posted by cheekyfaerieYesterday I sent him a long message explaining why I had been irritated the day before and what kind of treatment (generally) I expect in my life. He read and didn't anser. Now I feel he won't answer and won't initiate any further talk. It's dead already.
I think if you continue to answer him, it needs to be with absolutely no expectation. He's keeping you in arm's reach, but also at arm's reach. You're a fall back. Knowing this, you can either keep him as your fall back or move on. I mean, answering back is friendly, but ultimately it's not your friendship he wants.
You can't play if your partner does not send the ball back.
I butchered that, but you get the point. This guys is blatantly ignoring you and he needs to go far away.click to expand
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