CANCER GUYS: Do you like virgo women?

Hi,

New poster here. Was wondering if any of you were into or had any relationships with virgals? How did it go? I am currently interested in a cancer man but he is so confusing. If you do like us, what is it please? Do we sometimes come across as too cold for you? Too standoffish? Are we too abrasive? Why all of the push/pull?

Thanks in advance

VV

I'm a cancer girl... but seem to share a few cancer male traits. I suggest you read these forum regarding Cancer males... LOTS of sob stories.
PiscesAries is doing a wonderful job gelling with her Cancer boy. Read

If you choose to continue your pursuit of the Cancer male...
The push/pull is natural. Cancer's are confusing.

Virgos... from the one's I know... you all talk too much and need to analyze everything. Extremely logical. I find it annoying but it might be just the balance a cancer guy needs. Virgo's can be kinda cold and standoffish... but a Cancer loves the chase... so who knows.

You'll probably drive yourself nuts trying to logically analyze, organize and structure a relationship with someone who doesn't view life like that. I have one Virgo friend that I limit my time with. We see things differently... I'm fine with this but she is continually trying to 'show me her side of things'.
I see it, but she wants me to tell her she is right. Which is something I will not do, because her way is only correct for her and would never work for me.

Big Virgo fan here: Alexis Bledel, my Spanish teacher, various porn stars, etc...

I like the good-looking shy geeky type that doesn't care about what's cool or not. Very down to earth and serious, in a way. I think I attract them, but they can't seem to trust a lot. One was very angry at something and I never managed to get her to calm down so it didn't work out. I had never seen anyone open up to me so quickly before. It's hard to trust you because you seem to lie to yourself a lot and not be completely honest all the time. Self-delusional, but not like Pisces.

A big problem is that you talk too fucking much. Sometimes, inner talk is OK too. I actually like the provocative talk and semi-insults, I like to be poked like that. I have a Virgo moon, so I do it too, but the rambling and open worrying about stupid shit gets tiresome.

Lol cancer men loving virgo women seems to be the hot topic at the moment. From what I'm getting, cancer men LOVE virgo women, or at least a fair amount do. And virgettes love the crabs as well. I was seeing a cancer man very briefly, but we had a great connection regardless. I'd still give him another shot if he wanted it. Some of my closest guy friends are cancers, and funny enough, before we became friends, I fell for all of them romantically. I love cancer men, and hope someday to actually get my hands on one haha.

Dated 2 Virgals, started out fantastic; ended in shambles!

Posted by shellshocker
I'm a cancer girl... but seem to share a few cancer male traits. I suggest you read these forum regarding Cancer males... LOTS of sob stories.
PiscesAries is doing a wonderful job gelling with her Cancer boy. Read

If you choose to continue your pursuit of the Cancer male...
The push/pull is natural. Cancer's are confusing.

Virgos... from the one's I know... you all talk too much and need to analyze everything. Extremely logical. I find it annoying but it might be just the balance a cancer guy needs. Virgo's can be kinda cold and standoffish... but a Cancer loves the chase... so who knows.

You'll probably drive yourself nuts trying to logically analyze, organize and structure a relationship with someone who doesn't view life like that. I have one Virgo friend that I limit my time with. We see things differently... I'm fine with this but she is continually trying to 'show me her side of things'.
I see it, but she wants me to tell her she is right. Which is something I will not do, because her way is only correct for her and would never work for me.

Hi Shellshocker,

Thanks for your reply and LOL at us virgos talking too much...I guess you can blame it on Mercury! We are pretty cold and standoffish aren't we? Awww...don't take it to heart. It's just that like you cancers, we don't want to be hurt and we tend to have pretty low self-esteem in the romance department. God do we FEAR rejection. Not to mention that you cancers don't make it any easier for us with all of your indirect moves!

I think this cancer dude likes me but I'm not sure. I think I'm gonna just give up. I can't deal with the back and forth. Not to mention, he's a huge flirt and my gut keeps telling me that he's a player so I might as well move on from now. I've never had intense chemistry such as this with a guy from any other sun sign. This is actually my first experience with a cancer male and it's quite exciting but very, very tiresome! (see, we virgos get tired out by you cancers too!)

Posted by mr.crabby
Big Virgo fan here: Alexis Bledel, my Spanish teacher, various porn stars, etc...

I like the good-looking shy geeky type that doesn't care about what's cool or not. Very down to earth and serious, in a way. I think I attract them, but they can't seem to trust a lot. One was very angry at something and I never managed to get her to calm down so it didn't work out. I had never seen anyone open up to me so quickly before. It's hard to trust you because you seem to lie to yourself a lot and not be completely honest all the time. Self-delusional, but not like Pisces.

A big problem is that you talk too fucking much. Sometimes, inner talk is OK too. I actually like the provocative talk and semi-insults, I like to be poked like that. I have a Virgo moon, so I do it too, but the rambling and open worrying about stupid shit gets tiresome.

Hey there Mr. Crabby,

Ok, ok. I get the whole we virgos 'talk to much' thing. ;O) Like I told shellshocker, it's because of Mercury! Virgos are also the communicators of the zodiac. The great analyzers so please try and cut us some slack. LOL. Look, we talk too much and Ya'll cancers FEEL too much. So there. Now, we are even. ;o)

Thanks for responding but what more do you like about us other than the physical? Do you like our grounding effect? Our no-nonsense attitudes? What do you mean by seeming to lie to ourselves? Virgos delusional? Hmmmm...

Posted by Candeh15
Lol cancer men loving virgo women seems to be the hot topic at the moment. From what I'm getting, cancer men LOVE virgo women, or at least a fair amount do. And virgettes love the crabs as well. I was seeing a cancer man very briefly, but we had a great connection regardless. I'd still give him another shot if he wanted it. Some of my closest guy friends are cancers, and funny enough, before we became friends, I fell for all of them romantically. I love cancer men, and hope someday to actually get my hands on one haha.

Hey Candeh15,

Yes it does seem to be the 'hot' topic around here eh? Well, I don't know about you but these cancerian men seem too stressful for my fragile virgo nerves. LOL. I don't know if I can do it Candeh15! If I hang in there, my gut tells me the reward may be really great but, like I said, he's seems like a player and I'm not ready to take a chance with my heart right now.

Yes, the connection of the cancer man/virgo woman seems to be a very nice one. Hopefully you will have your shot with your cancer dude (or some cancer dude) sometime in the near future.

Posted by Smiles24
Dated 2 Virgals, started out fantastic; ended in shambles!

Hey Smiles24,

Now just how did they end in shambles?

Posted by VirgoVixxxen

Posted by Candeh15
Lol cancer men loving virgo women seems to be the hot topic at the moment. From what I'm getting, cancer men LOVE virgo women, or at least a fair amount do. And virgettes love the crabs as well. I was seeing a cancer man very briefly, but we had a great connection regardless. I'd still give him another shot if he wanted it. Some of my closest guy friends are cancers, and funny enough, before we became friends, I fell for all of them romantically. I love cancer men, and hope someday to actually get my hands on one haha.

Hey Candeh15,

Yes it does seem to be the 'hot' topic around here eh? Well, I don't know about you but these cancerian men seem too stressful for my fragile virgo nerves. LOL. I don't know if I can do it Candeh15! If I hang in there, my gut tells me the reward may be really great but, like I said, he's seems like a player and I'm not ready to take a chance with my heart right now.

Yes, the connection of the cancer man/virgo woman seems to be a very nice one. Hopefully you will have your shot with your cancer dude (or some cancer dude) sometime in the near future.

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Hahahaha, oh don't get me wrong. Cancers drive me crazy as well. Sometimes the back and forth is a little too much for my emotional state, but I love them regardless.

I totally understand what you mean! As much as I want to forget this guy...I can't! He's like totally addictive! Hmmm...I wonder if we are like an addiction to them? I have to pray about this!...pray for me...pretty please. I have got to get this guy out of my head!

Thanks for responding but what more do you like about us other than the physical? Do you like our grounding effect? Our no-nonsense attitudes? What do you mean by seeming to lie to ourselves? Virgos delusional? Hmmmm...

You seem to want to control the way others perceive you, so you lie to project an image of what you're not. You can also lie to get ahead in an opportunistic kind of way, very selfish. Can't stand criticism either.

What I like is the thinker, the person that cares about things enough to make them work. Not superficial. I don't know if it's just with Cancers, but the feeling I get is also total unbridled sex-toy for Crabby. I have the feeling you can let yourself go with a Cancer more than with others, so you do have to be careful about players, Crabs can be. Overall, a Virgo would be comfortable with me, I think, so it would be very pleasant company. You just seem to "get" us and not care about all the Crabby problems like others do. It's like you just brush it off and enjoy the tasty crab legs.

And read again, I mentioned a lot more than the physical!!

Posted by mr.crabby

Thanks for responding but what more do you like about us other than the physical? Do you like our grounding effect? Our no-nonsense attitudes? What do you mean by seeming to lie to ourselves? Virgos delusional? Hmmmm...

You seem to want to control the way others perceive you, so you lie to project an image of what you're not. You can also lie to get ahead in an opportunistic kind of way, very selfish. Can't stand criticism either.

What I like is the thinker, the person that cares about things enough to make them work. Not superficial. I don't know if it's just with Cancers, but the feeling I get is also total unbridled sex-toy for Crabby. I have the feeling you can let yourself go with a Cancer more than with others, so you do have to be careful about players, Crabs can be. Overall, a Virgo would be comfortable with me, I think, so it would be very pleasant company. You just seem to "get" us and not care about all the Crabby problems like others do. It's like you just brush it off and enjoy the tasty crab legs.

And read again, I mentioned a lot more than the physical!!

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I see and yes, I reread your initial post. I get what you mean about the lying to project an image but not all virgos are this way. However, the funny thing is that I feel like many cancer men do the same exact thing. You guys carry this arrogant air about you but us virgos can see that it's really just a front to mask your insecurities (and cancer men can be extremely insecure). I've heard many virgo women say that they feel completely comfortable to do just about anything in the sack with cancer men because you guys do give off a very comforting non-judgemental 'I'll take you as you are' vibe. I guess it's ok if you get the loyal cancer man but whoa to the woman who ends up with the player type...ouch! Also, in addition to the other two water signs of pisces and scorpio, I think virgo is the only other sign in the zodiac that can see straight through cancers. The good and the bad. Yes, our feelings may be wrapped tight but we use not only our analytical skills to figure you guys out, but also OUR intuition. Cancers can be confusing for virgos at first but eventually we figure you out, or 'get' you, as you've stated. Cancers invigorate virgos and I believe excites them in ways that the other signs can't. However, what we don't like and will not stand f

for is the manipulative, emotionally abusive, possessive, jealous, vindictive, domineering and bossy attitude of the cancers. Overall there is much compatibility between the cancer and the virgo as both signs tend to have pleanty in common but there are also alot of differences too, that can either make or break the relationship if there is not understanding, compromise and serious communication.

VVXXX

First real girlfriend in hs was a virgo..didn't realize I was in love with her til she moved away to another state. She initiated me in sensuality/sexuality. While I wasn't intellectually in love with her, at least I felt secure in our physical relationship...she was definitely the aggressor throughout the relationship. I've dated another older virgo. She tried to act standoffish and aloof..yet loved the attention I gave her. She moved away months ago, so now..randomly & several months in between, I'll receive a random text from her.

Aside from virgos I've been chasing one capricorn lady that works next door to me. Dunno what it is about earth signs but I'm definitely super attracted to them. Usually its their calm composure, down to earth sensibilities and sense of humor and depth of wisdom that attracts me. I sometimes wonder what attracts them to me. Either way, I'm almost sure I'll settle down with an earth sign. Its been my experience that I can gel super easily with water signs...but it usually doesn't amount to much more than friendship..albeit they're long lasting and meaningful friendships. Admiration and ease of communication & understanding isn't enough for a relationship for me...the earth signs just give me that sense or feeling of groundedness..stability and endurance. Although a relationship with the earth signs is sometimes challenging for me..I definitely think its a worthy challenge and the results I've had are usually worthwhile.

Forgot to mention, the job that I've been working at since senior year in hs is owned by a virgo guy. Super nitpicky, hard to keep satisfied, etc but, aside from the mechanics, I'm the only one who's been able to work alongside him for longer than a year.

Posted by marcus713
First real girlfriend in hs was a virgo..didn't realize I was in love with her til she moved away to another state. She initiated me in sensuality/sexuality. While I wasn't intellectually in love with her, at least I felt secure in our physical relationship...she was definitely the aggressor throughout the relationship. I've dated another older virgo. She tried to act standoffish and aloof..yet loved the attention I gave her. She moved away months ago, so now..randomly & several months in between, I'll receive a random text from her.

Aside from virgos I've been chasing one capricorn lady that works next door to me. Dunno what it is about earth signs but I'm definitely super attracted to them. Usually its their calm composure, down to earth sensibilities and sense of humor and depth of wisdom that attracts me. I sometimes wonder what attracts them to me. Either way, I'm almost sure I'll settle down with an earth sign. Its been my experience that I can gel super easily with water signs...but it usually doesn't amount to much more than friendship..albeit they're long lasting and meaningful friendships. Admiration and ease of communication & understanding isn't enough for a relationship for me...the earth signs just give me that sense or feeling of groundedness..stability and endurance. Although a relationship with the earth signs is sometimes challenging for me..I definitely think its a worthy challenge and the results I've had are usually worthwhile.

Forgot to mention, the job that I've been working at since senior year in hs is owned by a virgo guy. Super nitpicky, hard to keep satisfied, etc but, aside from the mechanics, I'm the only one who's been able to work alongside him for longer than a year.

Hi Marcus713,

On the flip side of what you're saying, I like the way that water signs invoke emotion in us earth signs. People don't think that we have emotions but we really do...honest. They are just brimming under the surface waiting for the right person to unleash them and I find that water
signs most assuredly fit that bill.

One very famous astrologer, Linda Goodman, actually talks about the fact that the cancer man in particular is able to cause the virgo woman "to bloom with her own special kind of sentiment which is pure and fine, like crystal, lacking the heavi

cancer men do something so weird to us virgo women and I don't always like it. The emotion you invoke in me makes me so uncomfortable yet it's so beautiful all at once...if that makes any sense.

Virgos and cancers can work extremely well together and I think it's because other than taurus and capricorn, cancers are the only other sign that truly understands our weird ways.