Cancer Man Confusion

Let me get straight to the questions, then explain. Do Cancer men show off their significant others? We haven’t exactly defined the relationship yet but we have been on about 5 dates now. On the end of the last one he said how you he would like to take me out Atleast once of month and hugged me and kissed my cheek. (He’s extremely shy so this pet was actually kinda shocking). But it bothers me how he never talks about me to anyone?? Is that a red flag?? He’s not a mommas boy, she isn’t really in his life, but he did want me to meet his legal guardians so I’m confused honestly

*I just started dating this dude, and I want him to make me a priority now.*

Let me share my experience with you: This Cancer guy has been hanging around me for a year and a half. Clearly he is into me, but he is too shy to make a move.

Finally I suggest watching a movie at his apartment. He agrees. We are sitting on the couch. Our bodies are touching. He is just staring at the tv. I ask if I can put my legs on his lap and he puts his hands over my legs. He still doesn't try to make a move. Then finally I stare at him until he looks at me and I kiss him.

Cancer men are slowwwww. They are scared about being rejected.

Right now we've been sleeping together for almost three months, almost every weekend, he sleeps at my apartment and has a toothbrush here, he has told me he doesn't want to see anyone else, he texts me at the end of every day to ask how my day was, but when I asked him what we were doing, like what are we?, he said "you are my special friend." LOL!

I know he probably hasn't told anyone about me but I also have a pretty good feeling he's in love with me. I can tell by how he acts and how he looks at me. He just isn't ready to commit in words.

If you don't like how he's handling your situation, you have to tell him and move on. I'm okay with waiting though, but it's because I feel okay with it and like he's worth the wait.

Posted by nikkistar
*I just started dating this dude, and I want him to make me a priority now.*

cancers like to see if u have similarities and someone who can fix a home (ergo, tidy, cook, the works).

he also needs to find comfort in you while taking things slllooooowww. if he feels rushed, he will retreat.. so patience my dear.

Posted by Sunnyleo817
But it bothers me how he never talks about me to anyone?? Is that a red flag?? He’s not a mommas boy, she isn’t really in his life, but he did want me to meet his legal guardians so I’m confused honestly

To be fair you don't know if he talks about you to anyone.

Also super cringe level at wanting to meet his parents aka legal guardians after 5 dates. Yikes!

you guys havnt defined the relationship yet so of course he wouldnt flaunt you... just yet. they have their guards up so be patient and understand this.

if he wants you to meet his folks, then thats good.

Nope , no one knows about you

And on top of that he himself is still not 100% about you though he likes you

Why does it matter ? You’ll ruined the relationship if you keep going down this path of wanting it to be something with the cancer

Let them choose you so you never have to wonder in the future if it was you who made the relationship happened or him because he wanted it

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Posted by nikkistar
*I just started dating this dude, and I want him to make me a priority now.*

cancers like to see if u have similarities and someone who can fix a home (ergo, tidy, cook, the works).

he also needs to find comfort in you while taking things slllooooowww. if he feels rushed, he will retreat.. so patience my dear.

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I hope you don't think to give me advice on them. Lol

If I've learned nothing else from this board and from the Cancer man I'm involved with, it's that they take things extremely extremely slowly. A cancer who rushes into a relationship is super rare (I had one before, and he wanted to claim me right away. That's the exception though).

I'm a Taurus, and I'm impatiently waiting after 9iah months. We're exclusive, but we're taking baby steps. He asked me today, "But what if it takes years? I'm not weighing you against anyone else. Just have to get myself together first".

Give it time. Like, lots of time (if he's worth it). I keep hearing they're worth the wait. Good luck!

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Posted by Sunnyleo817
But it bothers me how he never talks about me to anyone?? Is that a red flag?? He’s not a mommas boy, she isn’t really in his life, but he did want me to meet his legal guardians so I’m confused honestly

To be fair you don't know if he talks about you to anyone.

Also super cringe level at wanting to meet his parents aka legal guardians after 5 dates. Yikes!

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Oh I AGREE. I didn’t go to meet them because that’s way too soon in my opinion

Posted by nikkistar
*I just started dating this dude, and I want him to make me a priority now.*

Yeah I’m being a bit unreasonable . I guess I should add that it has been a WHILE. But nice point lol

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Posted by nikkistar
*I just started dating this dude, and I want him to make me a priority now.*

Yeah I’m being a bit unreasonable . I guess I should add that it has been a WHILE. But nice point lol

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5 dates is not awhile.

Posted by HoneyXx
cancers will wife you in ONE day.





if they want you, they want you.

the cancer dude that's had the longest running crush on me has told me that he knew he loved me the day he met me... it's going on 11 years this june and he's still trying. 😒

Ahhh he’s still trying after you rejected—

I've been with my cancer man for over a year and I know he does talk about me to coworkers if it somehow pops up in conversation but he doesn't really tell me if I've been talked about unless I ask subtly, something along the lines of "oh I sent that photo, did they ask who that was in the photo?" and then he may bring it up that I was talked about. He never posts photos of us/me and never really mentions me on social media, it's usually me posting things of us like if we're out on dinner or something. He's more private and low key with his personal stuff, yet doesn't mind me tagging/posting photos of him (with his approval on the picture, which is fair enough). I find he is more open and relaxed with me when he's around certain friends. He's more open to holding me and giving me kisses when he's around his best best friends, but some groups of friends he won't sit as close or be as touchy. But I don't mind because we have the best time when we're alone together 🙂

Posted by HoneyXx
cancers will wife you in ONE day.





if they want you, they want you.

the cancer dude that's had the longest running crush on me has told me that he knew he loved me the day he met me... it's going on 11 years this june and he's still trying. 😒

Oh GAWD.... I am guilty.

This is who I am—

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Posted by Sunnyleo817
But it bothers me how he never talks about me to anyone?? Is that a red flag?? He’s not a mommas boy, she isn’t really in his life, but he did want me to meet his legal guardians so I’m confused honestly

To be fair you don't know if he talks about you to anyone.

Also super cringe level at wanting to meet his parents aka legal guardians after 5 dates. Yikes!

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This double virgo talked of meeting my parents after 2 dates....lmao. I was creeped out

Posted by HoneyXx
cancers will wife you in ONE day.





if they want you, they want you.

the cancer dude that's had the longest running crush on me has told me that he knew he loved me the day he met me... it's going on 11 years this june and he's still trying. 😒

Damn some Cancers have the longest crushes

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Posted by Arielle83
Cancer doesn't talk unless we are sure.

5 dates is nothing.

cancers are easy af... you only think you're a challenge...

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LOL. You obviously know nothing about cancers.

A man that chases a woman for 11 years definitely needs therapy, no matter what his sun sign is. This only proves that you attract disturbed persons. Hmm, I wonder why...

Posted by HoneyXx
cancers will wife you in ONE day.





if they want you, they want you.

the cancer dude that's had the longest running crush on me has told me that he knew he loved me the day he met me... it's going on 11 years this june and he's still trying. 😒

I thought it was funny what you said, but then I got to reading your responses in response to people.. And all that shit you saying is just why I can't fuck with women.. Because y'all like male orbiters but too bitchy too admit that. It gives y'all an ego high. Validation.

This is my second time you talked about this Cancer dude all on your heels for the past 11 years. This is the second time I'm hearing this tired ass story on these threads, probably the third.. But it didn't register in me that you were the same chick talking about the same guy until now.

Stop trynna flex on Cancer dudes just because ONE is "stalking" your ass. You'd be saying the SAME shit if he was a mothafuckin Ophiuchus. Stop it.

Us Cancers are obessive, first off. So he's simply just obsessing over what COULD BE, not necessarily YOU.. I guarantee he's just obsessed with the thought of getting his balls drained by you. I know this cuz I'm guilty of that.. And every time I got the girl, my interest just DROPPED shortly after.

IT'S THE CHASE and we love to make women feel good.. But I had to stop doing that. Doing what? Making bitches feel good.. AKA, giving bitches validation.. Bitches like you especially. You the type of bitch I be talking about.

You also might not even be that much of a bad bitch anyway, and sometimes we feel more comfortable chasing 5's and 6's because it entertains us..

Now, how many other men are chasing you?? Talk about they ass too.. Where they at??

She ain't got no other men chasing her Horse booty ass..

Thought the fuck so.

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Posted by HoneyXx
cancers will wife you in ONE day.





if they want you, they want you.

the cancer dude that's had the longest running crush on me has told me that he knew he loved me the day he met me... it's going on 11 years this june and he's still trying. 😒

I thought it was funny what you said, but then I got to reading your responses in response to people.. And all that shit you saying is just why I can't fuck with women.. Because y'all like male orbiters but too bitchy too admit that. It gives y'all an ego high. Validation.

This is my second time you talked about this Cancer dude all on your heels for the past 11 years. This is the second time I'm hearing this tired ass story on these threads, probably the third.. But it didn't register in me that you were the same chick talking about the same guy until now.

Stop trynna flex on Cancer dudes just because ONE is "stalking" your ass. You'd be saying the SAME shit if he was a mothafuckin Ophiuchus. Stop it.

Us Cancers are obessive, first off. So he's simply just obsessing over what COULD BE, not necessarily YOU.. I guarantee he's just obsessed with the thought of getting his balls drained by you. I know this cuz I'm guilty of that.. And every time I got the girl, my interest just DROPPED shortly after.

IT'S THE CHASE and we love to make women feel good.. But I had to stop doing that. Doing what? Making bitches feel good.. AKA, giving bitches validation.. Bitches like you especially. You the type of bitch I be talking about.

You also might not even be that much of a bad bitch anyway, and sometimes we feel more comfortable chasing 5's and 6's because it entertains us..

Now, how many other men are chasing you?? Talk about they ass too.. Where they at??

Pretty much sums it up. Watch out she'll try to rumour you too cuz she thinks she's on a dang pedestal.

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Can't no fuckin slut do shit to me.

I'm not worried about that bragging ass hoe.

Try it and I'll shut her whole shit down.

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Posted by Arielle83
Cancer doesn't talk unless we are sure.

5 dates is nothing.

cancers are easy af... you only think you're a challenge...

LOL. You obviously know nothing about cancers.

A man that chases a woman for 11 years definitely needs therapy, no matter what his sun sign is. This only proves that you attract disturbed persons. Hmm, I wonder why...

ironic that he has your placements!!! you might relate.

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