Cancer man keeps coming back

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Cft1101 on Wednesday, January 25, 2017 and has 3 replies.

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@Cft1101
11 Years

So I've dated this guy a few times know each other almost 3yrs now

Told me he had feelings for me then changed his mind a yr later saying he dosnt feel the same ...... so last year I just leave him to it it's done it's over

I became very poorly ended up in hospital , after no contact for weeks boom he emails me rings me concerned about me

Christmas new year he emails me

He's told me he's met someone else , someone who's with another guy ?? Made me feel like a piece of shit tbh like ye I'm seeing someone who's attached wtf !! Like I wasn't good enough to love but this cheating hoe has grabbed his heart ?

I keep telling him please you don't need to keep checking up on me I'll be fine I wish you every happiness ..... he ignores it then a week or 2 later hi how you doing ?? I just don't get why — I've not seen him in over a yr why does he keep emailing me it's making me sad

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@Arielle
9 Years

I am cancer. Scorpio did a similar thing to me. Try to heal and move on. For good. If they truly love, they don't need more people. And why the contact after... I will never get it. Narcissists maybe. I think they get a buzz out of seeing us hurt.

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@Arielle
9 Years

Apparently men don't want good women. They want women that leave them and cheat on them, just like they did to us. Never ending karmic circle...

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@Arielle
9 Years

Try to read inspiring quotes about a new life. See it as if you died and are starting over as new. Read similar experiences here. Try to understand their psychology. Move on. Let go. I am cancer and I never cheated on my man, never wanted to leave him. When we love, we lay down a lung. Please heal, learn and move on. The angst and mental fog will get better and the pain will subside...