cancer man said he loves me—?

Im Pisces/ Aries cusp sun, Sagg moon, Leo rising.
He's Cancer sun, and I think Scorp moon and Aries rising.

We were messaging solidly for a week or 2 before going on a date, and have been dating for about 6 weeks, an item for about 3 weeks and sleeping together for a week.

He pretty much ticks all the boxes for what I am looking for in a long term partner. We are very similar in terms of where we are in our lives and also what we want from the future. I do think he could be the 'one' for me 🙂 and we have already talked about living together. It just feels right, im not in lust or infatuated, it just feels like we are right for each other. The first time he picked me up he had a huge bunch of flowers, he turned up at my place with food to comfort me when I'd been in a car accident, the way he looks, talks to me and holds me suggests he already loves me. He's even stocked up his kitchen cupboards with things I like lol.

Anyways, last night as we were having s3x he said he loves me!! I was a bit shocked because even though I had an inclin he felt that way I wasnt expecting to hear it so soon, and generally during s3x isnt the best time to say it for the first time? although it was more making l0ve than banging lol.

Is it normal for Cancers to do this? Is this the real deal?

My ex (pisces) actually did this to me during sex! After we talked things over, later on, it actually became something that we said all the time including while having sex. The compatibility is great, with everything on paper and my personal experience I would say this might be the real deal. Of course you/him and myself/my ex are different and there are no absolute guarantees. I keep saying 'ex', we did not work because we are attending different universities. If not for this I am sure we would still be a couple with burning desire for each other.

Good luck! I don't believe you'll need it though.

thanks Sidestepping Arguments - I've never dated a cancerian before, I've fancied them but they have always been to reclusive for anything to happen. I feel like I can be myself around him and he doesnt appear to have a shell around me 🙂

Mines said it during sex once, and I let it go over my head thinking he was just going with the moment. Then he said it again a month later out of nowhere and claimed he really did mean it. Cancers are very emotional so if he said it, im pretty sure that's how he really feels.

Omg you and I have almost the same chart. I am March 20. Different rising but same moon ad venus and I have taken a liking finally t a Cancer woman. All the Cancers in my life have liked me but I only liked them as friends. This Cancer woman sounds like your man ....she and I have so much in common but are different enough to have variety. How did you both meet? I am having a hard time working my way in because of she is in politics and I volunteer for her soooo.... buf I would like to hear how you operate with this Cancer man like how did you get him to open up, your thouhts. It will be like looking in a mirror I never find people with similar charts as mine!

Sorry for typos, on mobile and awful at typing

I'm not trying to burst the bubble you are in atm....

buuuut...its been 6 weeks...which to me seems wayyy to soon to be saying the I love yous and talking about moving in together. Both kinda a red flag for me (not that hes a bad guy...just its wayy to soon)

I'm just trying to bring it back down to reality....I think you both are caught up in infatuation period. IMO

Haha, Cancers will channel all their emotions into the "I love you" bomb.
which means he feels that he really loves you.

but then again, isn't 6 weeks too fast..?

Must be mind games.