@canerleo101
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Cancer man & Scorpio-Sag cusp woman
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Sounds like he is an unfaithful guy pursuing something with someone else.
Why are you trying to keep this going?
How much of this is what you THINK he is doing as opposed to what you KNOW he is doing?
Posted by ChinkTheMONSTER
When he goes out he answers my call once & I call him a million times but no answer... He comes home at 5-6 am being extra affectionate trying to cuddle
lol, yeah.
It's time for you to get your stalk on, and go see for yourself.
Since you know all this & you know he gots another woman, Why put up with it. If he cared about you, he wouldn't ditch you for his friends all time. & definitely not for another woman. He would include in some his activities & treat you with respect.That's how a Real Cancer is or a good Man in general if he loves his woman. Not showing up when he feels like it & ignoring you. People will get away with what you allow them to. Either you deal with it Or put an end to it. If his actions don't show he care, then you shouldn't either. You obviously don't trust him. There is no love without trust & respect. Actions speak louder than words
Posted by LunarMaiden
How much of this is what you THINK he is doing as opposed to what you KNOW he is doing?
The only thing I actually know is about their convo on the phone.. Everything else is my suspicion as I do tend to overthink everything a lot & why am I keeping this going because I invested 4 yrs of my life into this and if I'm breaking up with someone it would be smart to have hard proof
@ChinkTheMONSTER Hey sorry about the confusion in my post. All i can say is don't pressure him to do anything. If he won't make the effort to talk to you, then he doesn't deserve your time. Let him know, he get disappear on you anytime he wants & that you deserve respect. Do that with action. If he truly cares about you like he say, he'll clean up his act. Well i wish you the best. I was only trying to cheer you up Ok 🙂
Posted by 2BlackIndian3
@ChinkTheMONSTER Hey sorry about the confusion in my post. All i can say is don't pressure him to do anything. If he won't make the effort to talk to you, then he doesn't deserve your time. Let him know, he get disappear on you anytime he wants & that you deserve respect. Do that with action. If he truly cares about you like he say, he'll clean up his act. Well i wish you the best. I was only trying to cheer you up Ok 🙂
Lol no it's ok!! You actually did make me feel a little better _... & I agree 100% ... Being that we live together & are not only lovers but best friends it's difficult. I haven't spoken to him in 3 days... He's literally trying so hard for my attention & to get me to talk but I won't. He knows what I want & until I get that I won't budge. Thanks a lot Black Indian man!! lol
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I had a cancer boyfriend and he always used to come home at 5am and do this same type of behavior. Up unill this day he swears that he never cheated on me and i believe him.