Cancer Man with Gemini Woman

Do you guys have any experiences with Gemini females relationships the contrasts between the two signs are quite challenging!! Emotion v Logic

Good friends but I think poor lovers. Gemini don't do well under pressure that's kind of off-putting atleast to me.

what do you want to know? PM me...i've got a wealth of info.

Posted by crabcakesandmayo
As friends YES, short-term lovers yes, long-term partners NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!

so why not long term partners— Also you have'nt explained the sadistic mind games and the hot pursuit issue.

Posted by SophiaGem

Posted by crabcakesandmayo
As friends YES, short-term lovers yes, long-term partners NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!

so why not long term partners— Also you have'nt explained the sadistic mind games and the hot pursuit issue.

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If you view the behavior as "sadistic"... stop playing?

Wineux gave you some great info. Lots of Cancers gave you their opinion on it so you got different sides...
He came back from his trip.. what happened?

You are here 'confused' again and looking for a specific type of answer.

You say Cancers are frustrating but you Gems are all over the place, lol. What do you want, woman!?!

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Posted by crabcakesandmayo
As friends YES, short-term lovers yes, long-term partners NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!

so why not long term partners— Also you have'nt explained the sadistic mind games and the hot pursuit issue.

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People can only share their personal experiences and opinions, no one can answer for every single combination of these two signs. So there is no answer to why not. What do you mean by sadistic games? You mean cancers play sadistic games?

personal experience from a gem girl..they play loads of mind games!!! horrible sign! :/

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Posted by crabcakesandmayo
As friends YES, short-term lovers yes, long-term partners NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!

so why not long term partners— Also you have'nt explained the sadistic mind games and the hot pursuit issue.

If you view the behavior as "sadistic"... stop playing?

Wineux gave you some great info. Lots of Cancers gave you their opinion on it so you got different sides...
He came back from his trip.. what happened?

You are here 'confused' again and looking for a specific type of answer.

You say Cancers are frustrating but you Gems are all over the place, lol. What do you want, woman!?!

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There is no sadistic behaviour it was suggested on annother forum that CANCERIANS can play mind games, which are somewhat sadistic!! I'm not confused anymore - we are rubbing along quite well I am now 'His Darling Girl who is absolutley lovely' I'm cool but curious (Gem trait) and I want to learn as much as I can about Cancerian behaviour is that so wrong??

You on the otherhand are quite agressive in your comments, which I find off putting and something of an anathema in regard to Cancerian characteristics , emotions,sensitivity, empathy and feeling !

Posted by BlackIndian22
Well like i said before, my grandma is a Gemini, & i get along with her. I think if you have a gemini with water in they chart, this combination will work. You should never compare just sun signs. Try looking your venus signs together. That says what kinda love relationship you will have. I believe this pairing can work ")

Thank you Black Indian I too believe the pairing can work, we compliment each other quite well., but I am taking it slow and not putting any pressure on him to commit to anything. We are growing closer and closer and I value this very much. He is very cautious, but equally very spontaneous in his actions he will without occasion take my hand and kiss my fingers, hug me, come into a room when I am doing something just to kiss me - we are becoming more and more familiar with each other and more and more comfortable in each others company. This obviously augurs well for me and I want it to continue to grow and flourish. However I do get confused and frustrated as being a Gemini we are not known for our patience and I want him to be crazy mad for me (which is what Cancerians are supposed to do when they are in love) however the conflicting stories are - they take it slow to start with to test you out - or they go crazy in love with you
I'm desperate to know the answers as I want this to work if you read my thread on CONFUSED OVER CANCER you will get the back story on this.

Posted by wineauxisback
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Welcome back WINEAUX I will do that to update with you re his return xx

Am I not responding the way you'd like?

It's ok that I don't live up to your stereotypes of Cancers... there is another side. Probably where your comment about Cancers and their "sadistic" mind games came from. 🙂 Watch for that or you'll run into even more problems. Which one do you believe anyway? What you read about, or what you have observed? Or is it a combination? (rhetorical)

Nor do I mind that you find me aggressive... I am. Cancers are a Cardinal sign and can be very determined and persistent.. almost relentless in getting and expressing what they want. That is, when they know what that is...

I think it is hard for Gems & Cancers because Gems try to rationalize emotions into something that logically makes sense to them... while Cancers must realize their emotions are often illogical.

Posted by wineauxisback
what do you want to know? PM me...i've got a wealth of info.

Hi Wineaux

Can you help me with the astrological aspects of our signs I am Gemini/Virgo Ascendant 5*44* he is Cancer/Libra Ascendant 6* 29*—

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Posted by wineauxisback
what do you want to know? PM me...i've got a wealth of info.

Hi Wineaux

Can you help me with the astrological aspects of our signs I am Gemini/Virgo Ascendant 5*44* he is Cancer/Libra Ascendant 6* 29*—

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My moon is in Taurus 22*06* and his is in Cancer 23*23*

Posted by xxnightbynight
ALL water signs play mind games. They're manipulative as F*CK!! - but you know what? half of them don't even realize they do it.

It's a gift. 😉

But I use my powers for good not evil. 😄

Posted by shellshocker
..........while Cancers must realize their emotions are often illogical.

But aren't emotions logical due to the fact that humans are emotional beings?

I know this is totally random, but for some reason I have yet to met a Gemini Woman who doesn't like a finger in her butt during sex 🙂 They are the most "average" in bed of any of the zodiac. They do nothing really well or or really bad either.

In a relationship sense, they do all the right things in building a good relationship with a Cancer, but they play Devil's Advocate so much it eventually makes it so I don't even give an opinion on anything I believe in as they are incapable of saying "wow I 100 percent agree with that".

I love Geminis... My best friends growing up were all Geminis and Scorpios and they hated each others. I don't got nothing in Gemini but I'm technically born on the Cancer/Gemini Cusp. I got loads of Gemini girlfriends. We talk non-stop. They find me to be an amazing person. Even tho I was born on the cusp I got a Virgo Moon and Rising... The other side of Mercury.

I LOVE TALKING. Its one of my past time hobbies, even like hearing my own voice - Venus in Taurus. Anything wrong with that? Geminis that I've surround myself around all seem to like my laughter. Cancer rules over humor add a dash of Virgo you got a Comedian. Gemini rules over throwing you under the bus to get a laugh. Cancers never laugh at you, but laugh with you. If you do get a Gemini to open up, they can be quite caring about what happens in your daily life. The thing people screw up with Gemini is they forget to ask Geminis opinion. Just assuming an answer. Geminis aren't the types to speak up...They just go along letting you think you know them, and that's where they get accused as being two-faced... You wake up one day and realize they weren't the same person as you perceived them to be. It has to be true because all the Geminis I have communicated throughout the years have remained pretty consistent in personality. I listen, Cancer truly understands Geminis emotional block. That is punishing themselves because they think they should react a certain way and they don't. That's fine and dandy. Emotions arn't meant to be thought out anyways, they just happen.

In terms of Moon and Mercury. Moon is WAY faster then Mercury. In mythology The Moon is the Mother of Mercury. 3rd house is siblings and 4th house is family... There interchangeable houses. The 3rd house is also distant family and the 4th house is the intermediate circle. Sometimes your intermediate family can switch and vice versa. When you get married your divorced from your parents. They become 3rd house all the sudden. Only if your one of them unfortunate couples that got to move in with the In-Laws because the economy blows then they revert back to the 4th house.

There's an innocence to Gemini... I've always noticed. They take my advice to heart. Would I ever date a Gemini? Naw I feel like a mentor towards them. They are kinda quirky when it comes to love. They fall in love with the idea of love. Im different I need somebody who's more grounded. I'm already too fickle don't need two fickle people in a relationship.

Gemini is the conscious Mind and Cancer is the unconscious mind. We tend to move our conscious minds towards the unconscious mind over time.

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Posted by shellshocker
..........while Cancers must realize their emotions are often illogical.

But aren't emotions logical due to the fact that humans are emotional beings?

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Emotions can't be logical cause you can't think unconsciously.

Posted by xxnightbynight
ALL water signs play mind games. They're manipulative as F*CK!! - but you know what? half of them don't even realize they do it.

Scorp moon/Cancer Asc.... I know how to play mind games. I know when I'm having them played. A part of me likes it... apart of me is disgusted with it.

"You can't bullshit a bullshitter" - just know when you're being played - and call them out. - If you don't want to call them out, obviously you enjoy it... and if you don't enjoy it... you're putting out the message that you do do, or that you're A-OK with having your mind fucked.

I don't play "Mind Games" I play war... Don't got time to play mind games cause I only know the truth. Truth hurts if your scared go to church lol The joys of being raised by 2 Sagittarian Parents, Leo Sister, Aries Brother. We were taught to be blunt and direct...I don't play games anyways... I hate video games. Why mind fuck when you can scare and break somebody with a reality check and the truth. I'm honest to a fault and feel the flames and the burn from being that way. I don't got time to be sneaky... Open, honest and direct with my chin to the sky and my back to the wind I will always prevail cause Im a realistic person and down to Earth. It gets your point across more efficiently.

Mind Games make you a deceiving person.... You just manipulated yourself to have nothing in life. You will always be nothing but the walking talking scum of the earth as you pointed it out and admitted. For what its worth .. IF ONE CAN SAY about ones self that they are both ""deceiving and proud "" of the fact that they can look you in the eyes and say bullshit... And shed a tear when happiness is all that surrounds YOU, and PREACHING of pride full of nothing more then a life of shame. Thank you for telling me. Like the gospel encourages.. spread the word OF the wise and INFORM.. WHEN shame is CREATED and GLOATED BY ONES SELF.. THEY NEED NOTHING MORE THEN TO BE EXILED.. and STONED.

Theres no need to respond I feel justice has been done in all aspects. Like Caption Planet to A Team. Power Rangers Unite. I didn't say rangy bitches apply.


Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see. -mark twain

So I must assume you must be a descendant of Helen Keller please do tell where your family tree is planted? Im sure your original decedents from the hills hav

have eyes could definitely lead us there but we would not make it back. 🙂

This was narrated by Ann Motha Fucking Frank, Proof Read by Ray Charles and Karen Carpenter was going to read it over lunch. I do hope you pick up what I'm putting down, and go drink the fucking kool aide. You wasted 10 minutes of my life but it was worth it. Think before you speak and know your role. Before you speak know your facts and definitions of the story.

See not all Water signs play mind games. And I would not be surprised if your the earth sign that dug your own grave, or air sign, for your like the dust in the wind. But I would FEAR to fuck with the water sign for you are drowning bitch without a life jacket or a person that gives a fuck.

O Here's A fact I just read, your a fire sign and my Dixie cup full of water just put that shit out. do us a favor &don't ever light A fire again.U only burned yourself.UR not on my level to comprehend what I've expressed to you about you. You ask for attention with intent to fire back, but the best way to put this is you told me you were thirsty so I handed you a sandwich. Thank You and FUCK U.for what its worth become a listener, close your mouth and open your ears. I was respectful, witty, charming YET straight to the point. I can only hope other people take as much pride as I do to have taste when writing tart cart writers like U. Because if U dont learn from this experience, every time you post I will post YOUR URL link from YOUR pathetic excuse for a personal inventory that you GLOATED about,NOW SCHOOLED U have been given the benefit of the doubt. To reevaluate what you say you are.& in a "nutshell" as you described. UR self .. IV PUT WHAT U SAY YOU ARE how IT's SEEN (a LOVE ME U CAN trust me outside LAYER ..lined with a despise me because i am BETTER THEN ALL.. inside..topped with fake as fuck i can deceive anyone and everyone EVEN MY SELF COOKIE crumb topping..)..SINCE I FEAR YOU TRULY DONT SEE THE WHOLE PICTURE u made public.(YOU ARE as PICTURED. That homeless hopeless bum who is begging for help.WITH a STOLEN wheelchair you make LOOK GOOD..soon your cup is full enough of lies and Money ..rolling your half cocked wheel-chair to the parking garage. TO STAND UP&with no Remorse or second thought.slickly remove the raggedy out side layer.. that you really are on the inside.. to only NOW be ROCKING AMERICAN EAGLE..sucks DICK aeropostale image and NEW ALTER EGO.(but U DO)(btw THEY have no choice..in the matter of actions .. THATS HOW FUCKED this is.)NOW as U ROLL OUT in a Bugatti.&go to STARBUCKS.U will gloat.&the TRUNK is supplies for one sick&twisted twat that U really are.)so now we all have a painted picture of THE edward gein YOU ARE. & EXPOSED BY OWN ADMITON. I DO HOPE U know MANSON,GACY& BATES. all had 1 thing in common.THEY DIDN'T GLOAT,or let alone understand WHAT THEY HAD DONE in there LIFE. WAS INDEED WRONG BUT.. MR EDWARD GEIN Careless and willing to expell info, even kept a diary of meals he made& parts used. the LIFE we new of& the secrets were EXPOSED.when asked he GLOATED&ANYTHING to TALK MORE&MORE.ENding IT .HE SAID. I Just want 1 more meal. One Last Entry to Gloat and GLORIFY WHAT I DO.. WHAT I AM..

As a Cancer Man there are also a few different things I like about Gemini women. They aren't as uptight about actually having sex similar to how a Virgo Woman. They also can display these charming childlike tendencies that I find as really cute, but they hate when u bring them up 🙂