Cancer men- do they like to be chased?

Hi! I'm new here i'm a Cancer girl as well, but this is my first time dealing with another Cancer.

This dude is SO fine and just everything & from what he tells me, I'm the same for him! We talked on the phone the other night for 8 1/2 hours.... No awkward silences. Just all laughs and deep convo.
He told me he really loved talking to me, and when he got off the phone he set up a time to call me back. He did.
Everything was going smoothly and 2 days later.. Nothing?
Am I reading too much into it?
Being a cancer, I know we have hella passive aggressive tendencies but like, it's very confusing.

So.
Should I just chill and let him come to me or do cancer men enjoy being chased?

Posted by Moonchild111
We talked on the phone the other night for 8 1/2 hours.... No awkward silences. Just all laughs and deep convo.

WOW

Posted by Moonchild111
He told me he really loved talking to me, and when he got off the phone he set up a time to call me back. He did.
Everything was going smoothly and 2 days later.. Nothing?
Am I reading too much into it?
Being a cancer, I know we have hella passive aggressive tendencies but like, it's very confusing.

So.
Should I just chill and let him come to me or do cancer men enjoy being chased?

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Do you consider the possibility that he's probably thinking it's moving too fast??
Sometimes men just want to step back to gather themselves (their emotions,basically) when they think they are getting on too intense with a woman.

It does sound like this person will definitely get back to you again sooner. You'll just have to keep your calm,charm and patience!! 🙂

i like to be chased a little

I disagree i dont care what sign you r. If u feeling . someone u dont blow hot cold. I dated 2 of same signs which let me know other one was playing games. Its not a sign thing. If i blow hot cold.it means im not feeling u. Idk what to tell u maybe ask him. 2 days isn't that long. Pay attention to bis behavior and also ppl become interested when u give up....Sometimes u gotta wonder do they like me or is their ego hurt.

Did he set up a time to call you two days later? No? Then chill. He's probably just playing it cool, and doesn't want to come on too strong. Or he might be with some buds, or with another chick. If you would like to hear from him, send him a message and wait for him to respond back.

As for male crabs liking to be chased. Most don't mind, but you do want to be careful not to come on too strong. It's usually best to bait your hook with subtle advances to draw the crab out and come after you. Despite their feminine nature, Cancerian males still like to be men.

Posted by MiZLeo
They like women who play hard to get. At least, that's how I got my husband. He liked that I was difficult.

Hmmm, kind of. I'd say you did it right with your husband, and being a crab yourself likely helped BIG TIME! Most crabs DO NOT like this game. The hot/cold thing will seriously fuck with a Cancer's emotions and that is not a good thing. We feed off of genuine affections towards us. Giving affection to a crab that is not genuine is like poisoning their food. Hard to get can work IF your affections are genuine and you're not confusing him by giving them to someone else, and you actually let him get you before he starts to think that you're just fucking with him.

Well played MiZLeo 🙂 A lot of Cancer chasers could learn a thing or two from you!

Well in my experience when I met the crab he was the one Always initiating texting. Facebook and what not but of course not everyday. He would check in on me. I didn't have to do anything. So I don't know if they like to be chased? They are men of course and Men chase. But maybe my crab is a bad example because now he's blowing hot n cold after I didn't have sex with him haha