Cancer Taurus Story (Page 3)

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Mood on Monday, December 24, 2007 and has 127 replies.

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@Mood
18 Years

she got back from florida 2 night ago she was suppose to text me when she was on her way back but never did talked to her on msn yesterday and asked her if she wanted to meet up later that night she told me to call her I did after and got no anwser then I went to my friends house to drink before going to the bar then when I went to the bar I saw her she was acting a little distant and other guys were hitting on her I got jealous and I think she could see that I asked her to dance later and she did not want to because she knew that I wanted more then just dance with her and that I wanted to be with her she told me that she was not ready for a relationship I left after because I could not see her with other guys because it made me jealous I was really drunk at this time and had about 8 drinks before going to the bar the 3 beers at the bar when I got home I sent her a email saying sorry I had to leave and that I was jealous and that I really care for her and said I hope we can still be friends and may be more one day and left it like that I'm not going to contact her for a long time

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@leonine_girl
18 Years

Since you've already sent the email.. you can't so anything about it now!

But it would do you real good if you actually don't contact her. The way i moved my Taurus guy around was by killing the 'hope' he gave me that we might make it someday. I killed the hope in my heart although he kept believing I'm still hanging by the thread. And i actually moved on, and started behaving with him just the way i do with other guy friends, without telling him that he's just a friend for me and no more than that. Which actually turned tables with him 'constantly' calling me.. complaining i don't prioritize the way i used to! Played the game right back.. went on for a long time until i finally have him.. :-)

Just move on and get over her, save yourself the mental agony.. and then you'll win her back automagically! Don't get over for 'her to know' get over 'for you to know'.

Taurus will make you fall back in love with him/her, so until you HAVE her for keeps, keep your feelings out.

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@leonine_girl
18 Years

Taurus love is good... So be patient and be ready to 'plan' long term for yourself.

And yeah this is indeed a LEO talking. Patience and slow and steady is the key.

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@xangelfishx
19 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

"Just move on and get over her, save yourself the mental agony.. and then you'll win her back automagically! Don't get over for 'her to know' get over 'for you to know'.

Taurus will make you fall back in love with him/her, so until you HAVE her for keeps, keep your feelings out."

*shakes head in shear disappointment and disbelief*

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@Mood
18 Years

leo girl how long did it take him to start calling you constantly after you cut contact with him?

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@SweetestFatale
19 Years1,000+ Posts

Taurus women and men are a bit different about the pursuit of a relationship than Taurus men. I think more than leaving her alone it would be best that you allow her to get away from her past relationship, like I've said a couple of times before. If she is genuinely interested in you and you leave her alone then she'll most likely assume that you werent genuinely interested and go about her business. Sometimes we taurus women want to see someone that is dedicated and loyal that wont force us into a decision or a place that we are not comfortable being in. Be her friend, periodically check up on her, and give her time. It took me a series of on again off again with my ex before I got to the place where I was ready to be with my Cancer guy. I was genuinely interested in him from the moment I met him, but I had unfinished feelings for the ex and a skewed sense of loyalty. You cant force her to want to be with you or even mentally to be ready to be with you and leaving her alone wont do it either. Be dedicated without being pushy and it can really pay off.

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@Mood
18 Years

Thanks for the advice SF I think your right it will be a week tomorrow since I last talked to her you think I should contact her soon? just to say hi or what?

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@leonine_girl
18 Years

I agree with SF too, maybe i spoke to soon without realizing the pursuit is for the Girl here.

For us the distance never laster more than a couple of days, cause we both needed each other as much as wanted. And although he admits it now, something he never did before, he was genuinely crazy about me, and he 'says' he used me miss me .. but always refrained from admitting it, since he didn't want to lead me on and was very unsure, and his behavior made me think he doesn't care about me AT ALL. Demanding Leo that i am! Actually good luck or bad.. but my taurus man stumbled across my blog..getting a complete preview of my mind and what i thought what i felt ever since i met him. And that turned things around for us.

And mood by 'constantly' i mean now he's become predictable. He still needs his space.. its just something i have fit myself around. But i KNOW when he takes his space, he doesn't go fishing other women, but actually just takes a backseat. Since he's got quite a bit of cancer in his chart. And we bicker alot if we're too much around one another,..but we know we're always around when the other person needs.

And angelfish, its not for you to 'believe'.. but that's what I did.. and that's what worked. It prolly worked for me cause my moon is in Capricorn and till the time i was emotionally crazy about him, i couldn't give him his space.

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@xangelfishx
19 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

"And angelfish, its not for you to 'believe'.. but that's what I did.. and that's what worked. It prolly worked for me cause my moon is in Capricorn and till the time i was emotionally crazy about him, i couldn't give him his space."

yeah....seeing as how I am a TAURUS....I think I know better than you do......

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@leonine_girl
18 Years

You really need to start minding your own business woman!

And i dont even get what's itching your ass. You gave your views i gave mine. Never commented on yours. Weirdo!

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@xangelfishx
19 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

lol - when you post on a public forum you make it everyone's business.....

there's nothing weird about saying you're wrong. I didn't actually even comment about what you said - just shook my head because you're clueless and you had the nerve to tell me "well it's not for you to believe" ummm....HELLO I AM a taurus...if I say you're wrong about taurean behavior then you're wrong.

seriously...people who run around contradicting themselves [in the same couple minutes....] are weird....and my ass is none of your business ๐Ÿ˜‰

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@BlackKnoxx
19 Years

THunder THunder THUNDER CATSSSSSSS,HOOOOOOO!!!!! Thunder cats are on the loose ...whoopps since i heard cat fight had to put dat in,lol. WHO u think would make a good cheetara. MMM sweet fatale u would make an awesoem cheetah despite u being a bull u too xangel,lol.

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@krobe03
19 Years1,000+ Posts

Taurus love is good... So be patient and be ready to 'plan' long term for yourself.

And yeah this is indeed a LEO talking. Patience and slow and steady is the key.

YEAP, A true Leo, just my words exactly. Move on and men or women usually catch your drift once you are in the wind. They have to have time to miss you or come to the conclusion that you are the one for them. ALL Earthly love is good love.