Cancer Taurus Story (Page 2)

yall are so one sided. It might be more than a rebound and it could work! And thats from experience.

I just want to point out the two taurus women here are the ones saying that the TAURUS woman MIGHT have other motives besides just sex and it could work out....
but otherwise I'm done with this thread....

"seems like everytime p-angel gives crappy opinions/advice"

"i agree with P-angel."



God, people are so damn stupid, sometimes, that I just can't understand how our species has kept alive .. maybe we're just parasites, or cockroaches.

"im Jewish

haha psyche! My family left a little while ago, I take them in small doses then I detox by conversing with total strangers. What a stress relief."



Awww .. you had family over? Bless ...

SF, when you get to be my age and most of your family members are passed, you're gonna wish you had these days back again. Sorry that your family doesn't make your Christmas merry 😢

"You've got to lack a few sensible brain cells"


Geez, you're unreal Gemgirl ... you get upset because I said this girl is a ho, as thought this is an unacceptable thing to say, then you turn around and insult him.

It's only a matter of time before people figure it out ...

awww Im sorry P *huggs*, its merry I just see the ones that were over here every day, literally. I wish my brother who is out of state was home this year, or my Dad was over. My parents split this year. I love my fam, they're just....taxing.


I see yall saying "look at the signs" but I know how easy it is to be misread, in a very similar situation and also as a Taurus woman dealing with a Cancer man. The turning point in our relationship came after I started being VERY blunt and unquestionably direct about my interest in him and my feelings for him. It seems like Cancers have a lot of trouble catching significant subtle hints but no trouble giving them.

It appears to me that it's moreso just not being as experienced. None of us know until we've been there. In reality, any of us can say what we want, others can ask for ages ... but, until we've actually lived through life-experiences, we really don't know.

It isn't even fathomable how many times people told me a pile of crap was in my horizon .. I still ran straight for it. It wasn't until I actually stepped in it that the light went off in my head. And I think we all do this .. we have to .. live and learn.


((hugs back to you))

Sorry about your parents splitting 😢
Maybe your brother can make it next year.🙂

I think they're happier apart, but for my sense of constancy...its not real good.

I pray my brother and his family can make it next year because I really dislike snow and he lives in Montana.

I know it's hard .. my parents divorced when I was 18 and they had been unhappy for a long time. They wanted to wait until all the kids were grown (I was the baby) .. and though, it's respectful of them and considerate to us, but we knew. In hindsight, I feel guilty for it.

As hard as it is for parents to break up .. it's even harder if they stay together, all the while, the children are feeling guilty because they know that if it weren't for them, their parents could be happy.

I hope both your mom and dad find what they need to feel complete and whole again. What would be beautiful is if they will be able to remain friends for you kids 🙂 I hope so, because you're gonna love them both, no matter what.

Yeah they are still friends which is really helpful for us. And I also pray that they find what it takes to complete them. They have more life to live left than they've already lived 9I pray) so I hope that it is more fulfilling than what has already passed. I doubt we had much to do with their not working out as my Dad was in the military and my Mom is a weird kind of complacent.

Overall Mood I think this situation has a chance to work out if you give her the opportunity to find herself and she decides that her place is with you. She might not feel that way, but its better to let her come to that conclusion than assume she wont or try to make her.

Thanks for all the feed back every one. she poked me on facebook today and she anwsers my phone calls and text messages and she was the one that called me the night we met up I don't think she would do that if she was not interested I'm gonna send her a text tomorrow and see how it go's from there

yea...i think sifting through all the responses u should be able to get something out of them....noone knows this situation better than u.....so use your own instincts. just go easy trying to push a relationship............ 😉

so much for the ho theory p-angel................ Insane on the mebrannnnneee insane on the braiiinnnnnn,lol. BUt i do understand where u coming from though ... u have to remember why they call this the astrology part of dxp or else it would just be a case of a lady just wanna fuk. Hence if u understand the sign a bit then u would understand why alot of taurus women would give advice on how to approach the situation.

Complimenst of the season to p-angel,x-angelfish,sweet fatale and to the new dxpers ,may your belly be full and may you sleep even better.AHHHHHH sleeppppppp,yes my moonalistic looniness is back in here. Goona watch da boondocks,loooove dat cartoon. Watching the whole first season.

Hayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy BK. Happy Holidays Hun. Thanks for the good sleep wishes, surprisingly, I need those. I LOVE Boondocks, my Cancer guy just got hip to it tho, took him long enough. Now I just have to get him to give Dave Chapelle and Paul Mooney a chance.

Good luck Moods. Im sure you can figure it out and you will whichever way it goes, just dont go all skeptical on her when and if it seems like her interest becomes more defined...after all that is what you want no?

You're welcome, mood .. just go with what feels right to you. Listen to your guts, it usually doesn't lead a person astray.

And no matter what happens ... this feeling that you're going through of absolutely adoring somebody is what we're living for anyway 🙂

Merry Christmas to all 🙂

ok.... I sent her a text yesterday "Merry christmas beautiful! If I don't get to see you before you leave have fun in florida and a happy new year xox" I get one back "Thanks! you too. maybe we can hang out tomorrow" I send one back "I would like that 🙂" that got my hopes up. today I call around 2 and get no anwser maybe she was working I sent her a text a hour later "Whats up sexy do you wanna meet up today? I got you a little present I want to give it to you before you leave" I got her a calendar and a cd. I get no phone call or text back so I call her back at 7 and it was busy so I call back a few minutes later and still no anwser w t f is going on?

ok I just talked to he on msn I'm going over to her house but she has 3 friends over and she is leaving for florida tomorrow morning

so she wants to keep things platonic right now. Sounds like you're getting from her kinda what I was getting from my Cancer. Give her time to move into the new phase of life that she's in. It doesnt seem like you're on the same page as she is right now.

ok just got back home I went to her house and met up with her and her 3 girl friends I all so met her mom dad and grandma every thing was going really good her and her friends wanted to do some thing so we went to my house for a few drinks I had a bottle of grey goose that we all shared I maked out with her a few times but she told me that she dose not trust many guys and that her last boyfriend was a ass hole and at dinner one night he said he wanted to punch her in the face and her friends told me he was a ass hole to her and some other stuff I went to drive them all home and she smoked a lot of cigarets because she was drunk she was the olny one me and her other friends were not really drunk we only had about 3 glass's each by the time I drove them home I was sober but she drank them really fast and smoke 2 more cigarets on the way to her house she ended up geting sick after we droped off her first friend and she was to leave for florida at 6 am

hmmm sounds like the end of a beautiful night. Ummm how old are you and this girl...if you dont mind me asking?

I'm 21 and she is 18 we live in canada I hope she is not too embarrassed and I hope that her parents wont hate me the night went really good except for the very end

I think she will fall for me if I get to spend more time with her

lol Merc Im not a psycho. She doesnt sound like a psycho she just sounds extremely immature and your pursuit of this chic seems kinda....I dont know. Who knows I guess ya'll are good for one another. But the thing is Mood, is that you dont want her to fall for you, you want her to get to know you and love it and it takes time to get to know someone so just let her get to know you at her own pace.

my pursuit seems kinda what? should I send her a text or some thing? or should I wait untill new years? if you were in her shoes what would you like SF?

she sent me a text yesterday "sorry for last night" I sent one back "it's ok have a safe drive down wish you were here take care xox" got one back "Thanks 🙂" I gonna send her another text new years day if she dose not send me one by then

Yeah I'd say give her a little time to miss you. If I was in her shoes I dont know. I dont get drunk let alone smoke and Im not the heal my pain with sex type, but if I was I'd be guessing Im young and confused anyway so anyone wanting to deal with me at this point probably wont be in for a serious relationship because Im just not mature enough for one of those, but if he sticks with me and gives me time and tries to help me make more constructive decisions without being judgmental or pushy I know I could definitely grow to appreciate him.

I think your pursuit is a little odd placed...what exactly attracts you to this chic? It seems like she's all fun and no business.

People complain a lot about Cancer's being smothering/clingy .. not to say that all are, but, it seems to be taking place in this instance.

Mood .. back off a tad and give her room to breathe. She is probably getting overwhelmed. It's possible that she does have feelings for you and would want to have a relationship .. but, if you smother her, then she'll pull further away.

I am attracted to her because we have a lot in common especially her taste in music and she is very beautiful

yes she is very nice with me so far she has been really good to me

okkaaay then... yes we smotherrrrrr,lol. It is the mark dat when we leave u alone u'll miss us. BUt i agree with everybody here give her time to breathe get yourself busy seeks goals for urself and yes listen to her interests. At times be romantic and i KNOOWWW TAurus women dig romanticism yet there are times the i love u can be overdone. And as MERC rightfully said taurus women can be psychotic when they are extremly pisssed.Sweet fatale i sure u get mad to the point u actually feel all the blood boil,lol. And they say taurus are slow to anger press a RED button you will get fireworks galore,lol. And one thing u must note TAURUS take the things u say very literal i.e if u say u gonna do something or promise something u better do it.

Thank you SO much for that revelation BK. We are very serious about you keeping your word. I have been so angry to the point I felt my blood boil, but it doesnt happen every often and even then I wouldnt say Im psychotic. Funny thing, my Cancer Hun has never made me that upset. Oh great bliss!!

i made mines upset,lol many times,lol. Yet she stuck with me cause i fufill most of the promises and she just loves me for me. Me being there and sharing a dream with her. ALso another point words alooooone mean nothing. BAck it up with action MOOD. Another no no is looking at another girl or flirting with her friend you will get the "taurus death stare of a lifetime"lol. And one thing be prepared to love hard and be asked alot of questions because taurus women wants to make sure that you worth the time and effort of being her persuer. On that note of sounding extremely "old" I bid u all a happy new year if yall dont hear from me.

"may your belly be full and may you sleep even better.AHHHHHH sleeppppppp,yes "

SLEEP?? no...didn't get any of THAT ......

lol - in reading through all that I have to say BK has definately learned all about taurus women.....listen to him!

Oh yes, BK knows his taurus woman. I ask a million and 1 questions, but its just because I want to know about the man that interests me, I want to explore him like a diver at a reef.

lol - I'm like that.... I ask all kinds of questions...

angel just doesnt answer them........

you asked me ONE question to which I said I had no answer..... go ahead ask me anything.

This is a good example - I ask him questions and he clams right up.....silly man.......

oh and technically you didn't even ask a question... you said "and u?" and I said there was nothing to tell.... 😛

well i dont have any questions at the moment.....

and u know there was something u could have said....unless u just never....ever...do that......😛

ask me a REAL question 😛

what size bed do u sleep in??🙂

okay.......queen

how many pillows do u have?? 🙂

do u prefer the right or left side of the bed?? or the middle? do u sleep with clothes on or naked?? 😛

I sleep with two but I have like seven not including throw pillows

lol - right side and naked 😛

lol - wow you lost interest in that conversation pretty quickly...hmmm.......