Cancer Women Too Sweet and Sensitive?

Was talking extensively to a Cancer woman. She was telling me how she has worked in corporate America (worked in sports marketing) and couldn't stand the unnecessary meanness. She then explained how she would rather be a stay-at-home-mom.

I think it is super sweet and attractive she wants to build a home, but it also makes me think she is too sensitive and emotional? Why would she tell me this after only meeting once and texting a ton?

Maybe- things are just a little slower paced with her. For example, she likes to wake up and have coffee in bed on Sunday mornings, getting up whenever she feels like it. She also listens to me when I am having a rough day; very motherly.

Her sweetness makes me want to protect her, but at the same time I want to put a little fire in her to get going lol

Posted by bmoon8

They’re not as sweet or innocent as they let on. Look beyond the surface.

They're called "killer ex" for a reason.

why not.... she's sharing with you the type of future she wants. You either align or you don't. I think this type of info should be shared soon so you know if you're wanting the same things...

Posted by ImperfectStorm

Y’all are being so hard on the cancer. Let her be who the hell she is without trying to mold her into who you think she should be.

Sincerely-

A “Too sweet and too sensitive” cancer moon

😝😝😝

I'm not trying to be too hard on her, just an observation that I noticed and curious if maybe hard situations/pressure was too much for her. Maybe that is why she likes me, an Aries.

Posted by newtothis

Was talking extensively to a Cancer woman. She was telling me how she has worked in corporate America (worked in sports marketing) and couldn't stand the unnecessary meanness. She then explained how she would rather be a stay-at-home-mom.

I think it is super sweet and attractive she wants to build a home, but it also makes me think she is too sensitive and emotional? Why would she tell me this after only meeting once and texting a ton?

But she doesn’t want to built a home! She just told you she wants to stay in one which was build and fully paid with your (or someone else’s) money. How fucking sweet was that?

I’ve seen quite a few Aries sun with Cancer sun couples as well cancer moon with Aries moon couples. On a surface, I don’t see how this can work but with other natal placements compatibility, maybe it can work. There is definitely that attraction that Aries men have with women that come across as naive, pure and innocent. They wanna do the sheltering and the saving only to realize later on that they need fire in the long run to cater to their tantrums and attention seeking behaviour.

Well if she wants to stay home and raise kids- that is not "Easy Street." Plus there is more to a relationship/marriage than who makes more and provides.

Posted by newtothis

Well if she wants to stay home and raise kids- that is not "Easy Street." Plus there is more to a relationship/marriage than who makes more and provides.

I like your Aries naivety, however one of the main reasons for divorce is financial difficulties or differences.

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Posted by aquarius09

I’ve seen quite a few Aries sun with Cancer sun couples as well cancer moon with Aries moon couples. On a surface, I don’t see how this can work but with other natal placements compatibility, maybe it can work. There is definitely that attraction that Aries men have with women that come across as naive, pure and innocent. They wanna do the sheltering and the saving only to realize later on that they need fire in the long run to cater to their tantrums and attention seeking behaviour.

I agree my cancer sister was married to an Aries, he turned out to be abusive though. My cancer friend is currently living in a shelter after leaving her abusive Aries ex. I have a sag mars so I have a little fire of my own and find myself attracted to usually men with a fire Venus. I do agree there is an opposites attract sort of thing. In my experience as a cancer moon, Aries Venus men seem to see me as a challenge probably because I am closed off and slow to let them in.

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I’m not surprised that they turned out to be abusive. I hate to say it but fire dominant people are domineering and bossy. They are looking for a submissive personality types so they can be themselves. Cancers are drawn to anything that will abuse them. They are masochistic and that’s why they end up in one-sided relationships where they do all the leg work/nursing.

In the long run, only a fire dominant can set them straight or air dominant with their non-chalance and detached attitude. Water will just get abused and have a lot of emotional outbursts.

The key to seeing what a cancer is like is to wait until the first argument. So get to know how her sweet side is and see if it outweighs the stubborn side. They are sensitive to their feelings being hurt, not yours.

Posted by blackphvse

Cancer = Overly sensitive and emotional. And she gonna expect you to cater to those sensitive emotions. If you can't or won't, get out now.

Support her too while at home eating Doritos n coke

Oh wow- that is terrible the Aries/Cancer relationships become abusive. I am an Aries Sun/Libra Moon Gemini Rising. She is a Cancer Sun/Gemini Moon; unsure of her rising.

Why would she hurt my feelings if she doesn't like her feelings being hurt? If I am out working all day, I would appreciate it if she would have a warm and inviting home to come to.

I would expect the house to be fairly clean too if she stayed home. Not a demand, just would not understand what she would be doing all day if she didn't work and the house was a disaster? lol (obviously things happen, but in general you know)

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Posted by aquarius09

I’ve seen quite a few Aries sun with Cancer sun couples as well cancer moon with Aries moon couples. On a surface, I don’t see how this can work but with other natal placements compatibility, maybe it can work. There is definitely that attraction that Aries men have with women that come across as naive, pure and innocent. They wanna do the sheltering and the saving only to realize later on that they need fire in the long run to cater to their tantrums and attention seeking behaviour.

I agree my cancer sister was married to an Aries, he turned out to be abusive though. My cancer friend is currently living in a shelter after leaving her abusive Aries ex. I have a sag mars so I have a little fire of my own and find myself attracted to usually men with a fire Venus. I do agree there is an opposites attract sort of thing. In my experience as a cancer moon, Aries Venus men seem to see me as a challenge probably because I am closed off and slow to let them in.

I’m not surprised that they turned out to be abusive. I hate to say it but fire dominant people are domineering and bossy. They are looking for a submissive personality types so they can be themselves. Cancers are drawn to anything that will abuse them. They are masochistic and that’s why they end up in one-sided relationships where they do all the leg work/nursing.

In the long run, only a fire dominant can set them straight or air dominant with their non-chalance and detached attitude. Water will just get abused and have a lot of emotional outbursts.

So basically you’re saying the cancer women and their “emotional outbursts” for men being abusive and “setting them straight”.

🤔 interesting.

I’m double water but I am not attracted to men with more than 1 fire in the chart. I fight back and I don’t want to have to beat nobody’s ass 😅🙃 my sag mars ain’t no joke I can bring the heat too 👊🏼

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The first paragraph is wrong. I’m not saying that. Cancer women are attracted to abusive men or train wrecks that they can fix/nurse to being better. Even Cancer men are like that. That’s the masochistic trait of theirs.

You’re a Scorpio and Sag mars. That doesn’t necessarily apply to you. Scorpios don’t need the help that Cancers need. Also, I’m a Sag mars myself so I know exactly how they are.

Here is our full chart-

Her chart-

Sun- Cancer

Moon- Gemini

Mercury- Cancer

Venus- Gemini

Mars- Virgo

Lilith- Aries

My chart-

Sun- Aries

Moon- Libra

Mercury- Aries

Venus- Aries

Mars- Virgo

Lilith in Virgo

Basically you are saying she’s manipulating me to live off my money then she will kill me lol

Posted by newtothis

Basically you are saying she’s manipulating me to live off my money then she will kill me lol

She will only kill you if you cheat on her.

Or she might just chop your dingy off. All depends on her mood.

Posted by newtothis

Was talking extensively to a Cancer woman. She was telling me how she has worked in corporate America (worked in sports marketing) and couldn't stand the unnecessary meanness. She then explained how she would rather be a stay-at-home-mom.

I think it is super sweet and attractive she wants to build a home, but it also makes me think she is too sensitive and emotional? Why would she tell me this after only meeting once and texting a ton?

Cancer rising

I love sweet people. If your mean, rude, disrespectful it really rubs me the wrong way.

How hard is it to be a nice person 🤪

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I’ve seen quite a few Aries sun with Cancer sun couples as well cancer moon with Aries moon couples. On a surface, I don’t see how this can work but with other natal placements compatibility, maybe it can work. There is definitely that attraction that Aries men have with women that come across as naive, pure and innocent. They wanna do the sheltering and the saving only to realize later on that they need fire in the long run to cater to their tantrums and attention seeking behaviour.

I agree my cancer sister was married to an Aries, he turned out to be abusive though. My cancer friend is currently living in a shelter after leaving her abusive Aries ex. I have a sag mars so I have a little fire of my own and find myself attracted to usually men with a fire Venus. I do agree there is an opposites attract sort of thing. In my experience as a cancer moon, Aries Venus men seem to see me as a challenge probably because I am closed off and slow to let them in.

I’m not surprised that they turned out to be abusive. I hate to say it but fire dominant people are domineering and bossy. They are looking for a submissive personality types so they can be themselves. Cancers are drawn to anything that will abuse them. They are masochistic and that’s why they end up in one-sided relationships where they do all the leg work/nursing.

In the long run, only a fire dominant can set them straight or air dominant with their non-chalance and detached attitude. Water will just get abused and have a lot of emotional outbursts.

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I can definitely relate to attracting people who hurt me what feels like for sport.

More like skin thinner than rice paper & narcissistic psychopathic.

Posted by ImperfectStorm

Y’all are being so hard on the cancer. Let her be who the hell she is without trying to mold her into who you think she should be.

Sincerely-

A “Too sweet and too sensitive” cancer moon

😝😝😝

Aka Murder Moon

Posted by bmoon8

They’re not as sweet or innocent as they let on. Look beyond the surface.

To add to this; you're not wrong in us (cancers) not being as innocent as people think. Cancers are as kind and sweet as they appear (especially the first and second deacons). The third deacon is a lot more street smart and much less innocent, but still so. Only because Cancers at the core are such softies, that they'd have a nervous breakdown if they knew full fledged how the system really worked in all its dysfunction. This is also part of the reason that while they're very psychic, they're out of touch with this ability; they deny what they "feel" from others; the truth is too emotionally traumatizing for them to handle. They'd become vegetables and never leave bed and become hooked on meds. On a certain subconscious level, they forbid access of reality's truths. They prefer to live in a protective shell, where at the end of the day, morals win, people do what's right, and kindness prevails. Even if its a delusion. (Everyone lives in a delusion to some degree, some just at a higher percentage than others). But this boundary is at thee most subconscious level, from early in life, so it's not as though it can be changed without a lot of help, and discomfort for them. But since they're a water sign, and emotions come so easy for them, it's easy for them to crank up the volume on the sweetness or the anger and ignite reactions in others to inflict guilt, or to get their way.

Posted by newtothis

Was talking extensively to a Cancer woman. She was telling me how she has worked in corporate America (worked in sports marketing) and couldn't stand the unnecessary meanness. She then explained how she would rather be a stay-at-home-mom.

I think it is super sweet and attractive she wants to build a home, but it also makes me think she is too sensitive and emotional? Why would she tell me this after only meeting once and texting a ton?

She’s being vulnerable and open. My sister is a cancer and It’s taken me 40 years to realize her sensitivity is a strength. She can handle things, she’s just not putting up a fake wall like everyone else.

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More like skin thinner than rice paper & narcissistic psychopathic.

Posted by ImperfectStorm

Y’all are being so hard on the cancer. Let her be who the hell she is without trying to mold her into who you think she should be.

Sincerely-

A “Too sweet and too sensitive” cancer moon

😝😝😝

Aka Murder Moon

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I bet you look exactly like that rapist.

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Posted by newtothis

Was talking extensively to a Cancer woman. She was telling me how she has worked in corporate America (worked in sports marketing) and couldn't stand the unnecessary meanness. She then explained how she would rather be a stay-at-home-mom.

I think it is super sweet and attractive she wants to build a home, but it also makes me think she is too sensitive and emotional? Why would she tell me this after only meeting once and texting a ton?

But she doesn’t want to built a home! She just told you she wants to stay in one which was build and fully paid with your (or someone else’s) money. How fucking sweet was that?

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She doesn’t have to build the home! Men are suppsed to provide and protect!