Cancerian ex gf confusing HELP

I got iced out by this Cancerian ex and she kept ignoring me so I thought I would play my last card. I thought making Cancerian girls really emotional will trigger something. I wrote a long heartwarming emotional letter and told her that this would be the last time I will contact her. I was not trying to manipulate her or anything coz I meant what I wrote.
Lo and behold she calls me for the first time after breakup and we talk for 3 hours. In the end I asked her where are we going with this? She said that we are just "talking" and she also mentioned that it is okay if we talk and she will call me in a few weeks. She also said that she is scared she will look like a fool if she gives me another chance and I hurt her again. However she also tells me we cant be friends but it is okay to talk. So what do u guys think? Is she interested in giving another chance or I am just overthinking this?

Posted by leonineguy
I got iced out by this Cancerian ex and she kept ignoring me so I thought I would play my last card. I thought making Cancerian girls really emotional will trigger something. I wrote a long heartwarming emotional letter and told her that this would be the last time I will contact her. I was not trying to manipulate her or anything coz I meant what I wrote.
Lo and behold she calls me for the first time after breakup and we talk for 3 hours. In the end I asked her where are we going with this? She said that we are just "talking" and she also mentioned that it is okay if we talk and she will call me in a few weeks. She also said that she is scared she will look like a fool if she gives me another chance and I hurt her again. However she also tells me we cant be friends but it is okay to talk. So what do u guys think? Is she interested in giving another chance or I am just overthinking this?

What was the reason of the break up?

I broke up with her coz we fought too many times. When we loved each other, it felt so deep but when we were worse then we couldnt stand each other

Call me crazy but I'm an Aqua/Pisces cusp and if you broke up with me and then waited to hear from me... it'd be a long ass time that you'd wait.

Then you write to her, tell her it's the last time you'll contact her... you finally get her to talk on the phone and then you ask her where it's going!! (Too much too soon is my point.)

I think she meant exactly what she said. She only wants to talk, she doesn't want to think about getting back together or even necessarily seeing you any time soon. Just get back to square one.

She's upset, hurt and her pride is wounded. If you want this to go anywhere positive, do what she's suggesting, or risk her cutting you off.

I would have asked to meet then punched you in the face.

Cancerians don't usually like making the first move. We're all different though considering we have other signs traits. She's probably just hurt and needs time to think about if she wants to go through the pain of breaking up and fighting again. Us cancers will give chance after chance to those we love but when we get fed up and are done, there's no going back.