Cancers: do you like to lead or be led...

...in general..just curious..?

Lead. In the unlikely event of something going wrong I'd rather it be on me.

I only lead if I have too 99% of the time I'm a lone crab I do everything alone it is the way I like it I march to the beat of my own drum I do what I want when I want. Cancers do make good leaders.

Lead like the champion I am.

A cardinal sign wants to lead whether they say so or not.

^same here. I've heard the "lone wolf" thing a lot..why is that a thing do you think?

Cancers are not needy people or at least I'm not.

Interesting..my cancer does the lone wolf but is actually SUPER needy and has major trust issues...I think its the shell that keeps people at a distant, but underneath yr all squishy and soft inside, which I love.

I'm a loner but if thrown in a group I watch first then step in and take care of shit.

That makes sense...ive noticed that. He does like to lead but when he's feeling weak he wants me to...

In what sense?

Just I'm general I guess, or in relationships...

To be led.

I like to lead.

It actually depends. If im into the guy and he is shy , i have all these terrible thoughts in which i LEAD ( which i never carry out cause im a virgin). Lmao
And if he leads he better not be too aggressive or to the point (he better know how to) or else ill be completely turned off.

Also when the person i like is feeling down , i just want to take them and make them feel like the most special person on this earth - making sure i show love to every insecurity they might have .

Cancer women like to lead no doubt. It just so happens that it comes naturally as they love to nurture and take care of the person. They do the mommy role quite well. However, pairing them with a strong guy who likes to lead will make them subservient and they have no problems giving up the reign. This is a feminine woman that can do both. I loveeee cancer women. They are pretty versatile.

As for the guys, it's a complete blatant lie and a self awareness issue when a cancer guy says they lead. They may want and dream of leading, but they don't. LOL. Why do you think cancer people end up with the control freak sign (Virgo) half the time? They want to be led and babied. One of the most masculine and leader like things a guy can do is ask a woman out, irrespective of what the answer will be. The cancer dude don't take the lead in asking you out unless they're 100% sure the answer is yes. They want to be babied and a leader is hardly a baby. Leaders give commands and get things done and sometimes they're ruthless, all qualities that a nice cancer dude just doesn't have unless he's got fire placements.

Posted by RainDancer

Posted by boxcarmirnta
...in general..just curious..?

Without reading the thread, my cancer knowledge says they like to believe they are in charge while taking orders.

They want to do it their way while being kept in tight reigns.

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I wrote my comment and then saw this. LOL! You summed my point nicely in couple sentences.

Posted by aquarius09
Cancer women like to lead no doubt. It just so happens that it comes naturally as they love to nurture and take care of the person. They do the mommy role quite well. However, pairing them with a strong guy who likes to lead will make them subservient and they have no problems giving up the reign. This is a feminine woman that can do both. I loveeee cancer women. They are pretty versatile.

As for the guys, it's a complete blatant lie and a self awareness issue when a cancer guy says they lead. They may want and dream of leading, but they don't. LOL. Why do you think cancer people end up with the control freak sign (Virgo) half the time? They want to be led and babied. One of the most masculine and leader like things a guy can do is ask a woman out, irrespective of what the answer will be. The cancer dude don't take the lead in asking you out unless they're 100% sure the answer is yes. They want to be babied and a leader is hardly a baby. Leaders give commands and get things done and sometimes they're ruthless, all qualities that a nice cancer dude just doesn't have unless he's got fire placements.

To me that sounds abit like virgo men too. You have to be the man in the relatioship.

Totally agree raindancer and Aquarius...

Lead and definitely a lone wolf

Posted by notafollower

Posted by aquarius09
Cancer women like to lead no doubt. It just so happens that it comes naturally as they love to nurture and take care of the person. They do the mommy role quite well. However, pairing them with a strong guy who likes to lead will make them subservient and they have no problems giving up the reign. This is a feminine woman that can do both. I loveeee cancer women. They are pretty versatile.

As for the guys, it's a complete blatant lie and a self awareness issue when a cancer guy says they lead. They may want and dream of leading, but they don't. LOL. Why do you think cancer people end up with the control freak sign (Virgo) half the time? They want to be led and babied. One of the most masculine and leader like things a guy can do is ask a woman out, irrespective of what the answer will be. The cancer dude don't take the lead in asking you out unless they're 100% sure the answer is yes. They want to be babied and a leader is hardly a baby. Leaders give commands and get things done and sometimes they're ruthless, all qualities that a nice cancer dude just doesn't have unless he's got fire placements.

To me that sounds abit like virgo men too. You have to be the man in the relatioship.

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Yes, they are weak and need to be led. Not my cup of tea at all.