CANCERS

get it together...the hypersensitivity is going out of style ...

i dont even see why this is a match for scorpios

Never underestimate a cancer......

For the record I'm a pisces who has a scorpio friend who desperately wants to date me. Despite my own hypersensitivity I can honestly say this man is but no match for ME, clingy, possessive, gets upset if I haven't replied to his text within like a few hours.

Hence why I won't date him.

Trust me, if you betray or hurt a cancer you'll see no sensitivity or regard for your feelings whatsoever....

Right said. Cancer cannot be underestimated in any aspect. Whether it is in giving love, in looking alluring, in cooking a great meal, in putting people in their right place, in making children happy- cancerians are a past master. They are like a much needed quilt in a cold cold winter .. like cool glass of lemonade in scorching summer ... ike a pink carnation in spring time ... like a hot choclate in heavy rains. It is all cozy till they are not crossed in a bad way! After that god help the offender!

sorry...i have to underestimate, i gave up on em.

Pixie Peach, Scorpios can be really possessive I had a possessive friend and it is not fun. I'm not that possessive, well im just not, i find that funny...some of my scorpio friends like to cling and some dont. But anyways, I know pisces and Scorpio can have complications. But I have the most beautiful experiences with pisces 😉

oh yeah...and he was the clingy one

maybe u are the odd one that isnt sensitive.

^^ im not that sensitvie, i have a heart, i have feelings to, but it frustrates me when the boy that is trying to be with me CRIES WAY MORE THAN ME, he is crying all the time. Same with his other cancer friend...so sensitive. I can't tell em anything. Not puttin this label on all cancers, but the cancers i know ...whew...And it seems to be the men more than the women. But it's not odd to not be easily hurt. I'm glad I have that quality, it saves me from future damage.

see....im very sensitive but i would jump off a cliff before i showed it. if i did cry....noonne else will be there to see it.

Scorpios are pretty damn harsh and they don't relaize a lot of times the negative effect they can have. CAncers are very very sensitive which might be annoying to some but our "hypersensitivity (as you called it) is also what can make us wonderful lovers as well as other things

And by the way I only Whine or B*tch when I have gotten to a certain point...usually when to the point were I feel disrespected or not appreciated... Then all hell cam breal loose.

Meant to write" Then all hell can break loose!"

Also...I agree that cancers and scorpios can rub eah other the wrong way, but what I think that makes them a good match ic that cancers are sensitive enough to see pass the HARD exterior that Scorpio's exert...we can make sense of it...

and i dont wanna tell him im no longer interested cuz then he will cry! >:-[

he's already avoided me, he used to be my best friend until he started having feelings for me again, but he hurt me so my feelings were long gone. And i was with someone else and told him, he cried...then he didnt talk to me.

then a few mos. he started to have feelings for me after we started talkin again, i liked him, but that phaded quickly and then he liked someone else. It happened AGAIN, i told him i was not over my ex, and he cried. And now...i dont kno what to tell him, cuz its gonna ruin our friendship, but you know what...it doesnt reely matter once i think about it.

Just leave him alone......Let him realize you are not the one for him.

Hi BeautifulScorp,

Softy is right! Leave him alone! Anybody prone to crying so much need not be just a cancerian. I have an Aries neighbour who cries without any reason. her eyes are permanently swollen because of too much crying and men fall fo her like a house of cards.
Sweet-P's reflections on cancerians lovely side is as realistic as my experience of understanding that so many virgos have given me. The cancerian sensitivity is something which is required to save the world from self-anihilation. A smart lover would hold their cancer dreamboat's hand and channelise that sensitive energy towards human causes. They are a natural people's person.
Need some solid examples?- Helen Keller, Princess Diana, Nelson Mandela.

Here There are more examples but i am not remembering them right now. I would like other people to add on to these examples.

Now i do agree there can be some negative personalities too. But such is the world. If you feel you are giving too much in the relationship and getting too little in return, sit down and talk it over. If the person is not receptive, then ... i personally feel like softy that you are not the one for him.

I would further like to know more about your cancer fellow provided you are cmfortable with it.

take care

looney

Scorpio,

You wont go wrong if you listen to sweep-p, she is wise beyond her years.

Try to look with a more open heart, if yours is as closed as you say it is your missing far to much. Yes you are protected from future damage, but your also blocking the love and positive things too. Because when you are blocked you are not capable of feeling things yourself. think about it!

TW2

If there is no hope for anything further than friendship with this guy then so be it.

But spare his feelings, you don't have to hurt him. What you do is you fight for his friendship, if it means enough to you. It will ease the blow for him if you show how much you value him and want him around, it doesn't have to be in a physical sense.

As for the crying, does he really cry that much? Are you sure there's not something else going on in his life that's affecting him?

Not to sound rude but the cancers I know are much stronger than that....they would keep their crying to themselves.

Yes..I may Bit*ch and moan....but when I cry...it is alone..then I wipe them and feel stronger than I did before...but I do not cry in front of people or to people.

Low-key Beautiul Scorpion,,,,I think you may have feelings for this guy that you may not have acknowledged just yet.....

no no no softy... i have feelings for my ex

..... dammit

ok well maybe a little bit... i just wish he didnt have to be this way !

I knew iT!!! You do have geelings for him...Canyou answer a question for me Beautiful Scorpion? Honestly? Are Scorpios afraid of something so deep....Does it frighten you that you have this effect on him?

Beautiful Scorpion....I am a Cancer and displays of intensity frighten me.....I think that Scorpios and Cancers are more alot than they think. Cancers can only hide their feekings for so long,,,but Cancers are the master of deception when it comes to their feelings.

Ok, i do have a little bit... like 10% but my heart is still on someone else [my ex bf..sad to say]. I'm not afraid of the affect i have on him... i mean... i dont know what it is. what do you mean? explain.

I'm tipsy..I meant to say that Scorpios are the master of deception when it comes to their feelings...

I meant to say that Scorpios are the master of deception when it comes to their feelings...

HAHAHA thats true...

can u explain that question now— ??

nevermind

Well I guess what I meant was if you sense that someone has deep...very deep feelings for you....do you think that it may subconsciencely frighten you..

Ouch Softy... I'm wounded at your statement about Scorpios being harsh. I'm sorry, but I have to disagree with you. Not ALL Scorpios are harsh and not ALL Cancers are hypersensitive.

I'm in a relationship where I'M the sensitive one and HE'S the tough one. Believe me, the only time I am EVER harsh is once I have reached the point where I have no choice, but to express some of the emotions boiling up inside of me. I'm a peaceful person and I prefer to keep the peace, and I will remain quiet, UNTIl provoked past a point where I cannot hold it in any longer. Perhaps you have had some bad experiences with Scorpios, but we are not all the cold-hearted people everyone thinks we are. Quite the opposite, I am 100% Scorpio and I happen to be one of the most loving, kind, caring people you could ever meet. I take care of everyone around me... children & adults alike. I give until it hurts. I would go without sleep, without food, without water to make certain my loved ones do not go without. I take a lot of poundings from those around me due to my sensitivity, but chances are, they'll never know it because I don't show it until I can't keep it in anymore. I can also hold my temper MUCH longer than most people think a Scorpio can. Simply put, if I'm not pushed, I won't bite. Now, quite the opposite of what is expected, my fiancee (who is a Cancer) will bite MUCH quicker than I will and is a lot less sensitive to those around him. Not that he is without sensitivity, but that I am a whole lot more sensitive than he is and can be hurt a whole lot easier.

Stereotypes don't work with astrological signs. A lot of who we are also has to do with how we are brought up, what experiences we have endured in our lives, etc. Due to that, every Cancer & Scorpio relationship won't work, but on the general basis of things, we have what it takes IF we want it to work. Every relationship is different, no matter what signs we are. Although, I will say, given my past experience with my first husband being an Aquarius, that it is probably a good idea for some signs not to mix - and doing so, is going to be a lot of work. I'm not saying they can't mix though - it's just going to be a lot more work.

Sorry to pick on you, Softy... I just don't like it when we Scorpios are all classified as "harsh" because I know I'm not harsh. I've been taken advantage of and taken for granted more times than I can count just because I'm not harsh enough to push for what I really want. Where others would have bowled everyone else over and taken what they wanted, I will tend to give up what my heart truly desires to please others and keep the peace. Please keep an open mind and realize that all of us aren't mean, cold-hearted snakes... and that most of the time, when we are harsh, it's because we've had so many little hurts build up inside... or such a big hurt... that we just can't hold back the emotions any longer, and one of our most infamous ways of dealing with something that hurts us is to get angry at the situation (unfortunately) and, if the situation persists, destroy the origination of it... even to the point of tearing down a relationship to stop the pain. We aren't cold and harsh, but we are the finalizers... We are matter of fact people, who know when something hurts it has to end... and we'll throw a fit, throw a chair, or throw the issue out of our lives before we'll continue going on in pain. It's a defense mechanism, not a personality flaw. I'm not mean, but eventually, after I get hurt long enough, I will do what I have to do to protect myself from anymore pain.

Don't give up on the idea of Scorpios making great mates for Cancers... We are actually one of the only signs willing to try to understand (and forgive) the Cancerian tendency to withdraw into themselves. That's a big part of the Cancer characteristic and if their mate doesn't understand that part of their personality, it's an ugl

BTW I have to agree with twinflame's viewpoint on not closing up the heart... I've been hurt a lot in this lifetime, but I would have missed the greatest love I have ever known if I had closed myself off to any further loves. Remember, when one love doesn't work out, there is a reason... and he/she might just be right around the next corner. Keep hoping and keep loving...

Hi Riders_Angel,
You are really hurt. Yes i have coem across scorpio who take a lot. The way yo talk you seem to be so much like my scorpio nephew who is a real sweetheart, but with one difference. Whenever anyone hurts him, he lets them know immediately. See this way he shows peopel who matter to him that what hurts him. Peopel love ot be shown their limits. It is better to draw boundaries and let people be aware of them. This way you live find that the number of peopel hurting you will reduce. I am a hypersnesitive cancerian. But have experienced that rather than hiding in the shell, speaking out my feelings brings poeple more closer to me. Also they get a window to my caring and nurturing self, which is very well appreciated. Then it opens me to trust that everything in life nee dnot be taken to heart. So i would say that being open with my feelings ahs made me overcome lots of issues which i used to carry like a bag of potatoes over my shoulders.
stay happy🙂
looney

oooooooops too many errors in my post. sorry guys
looney

Riders_Angel...I think I made A bad choice of words...My daughter is a Scorpio and I have a few friends ahw are as well...Maybe the word I should have used was BLUNT...They can be very blunt,,,whuch can be painful if taken the wrong way....or by HYPERSENSITIVE individuals,

LOL Softy... No harm done hun... Looking back at my post, I would say I just demonstrated exactly HOW hypersensitive I really CAN be. But I do appreciate you clarifying that you realize we aren't all harsh (though some can be)... As for being blunt, I will say that, when I make a point, I do tend to make it well stated. 😛 I'll give you that one... and I'll give you that sometimes it can hurt when someone is that blunt. I can't speak for every Scorpio here, but speaking from my own personal experience, the only times I am ever so blunt, is when I've been hurt in some way or don't feel like I'm getting through. Hope that helps hun..

Looney... While I see your point, I have to say I'm not usually the type of person who says right off "Hey, you've hurt me" or "Hey, you're upsetting me" ... mostly because I want to try to keep the peace... but if you look in my eyes or know me well enough to know my body language, you'll pick up on the cold wall going up pretty quickly lol. Maybe the Scorpios who are so direct live happier lives, but I feel miserable when I something I've said has hurt someone or upset them, when I could have just kept my lips tight. 🙂

Thanks for sharing...

Angel

Riders Angel that third paragraph is all me.

My sister is a scorpio, and I have seen her go through so much stuff that I would not have been able to in relationships. She is a very caring loving mother to her son, and a nice person all around. There is a spunky side to her though that comes accross when stating her opinions.

She is intense in personality, and strong in her beliefs. I will never forget the day she told me that she loved me so much that she would give her life for me. I was so supprised that she felt that way. I had only thought about such feelings when refering to my son. I was amazed that she could feel that way about a sister.

Anyway what I am trying to say is that scorpios have a side to them that most people miss I think. Thats been my experience with them personally.

All the signs have positive traits about them, and yes they are all molded and shaped furher by their experiences in this life. So we are all unique creatures, no one like another. That is what makes is so incredible does it not?

TW2

Hey CB... I was wondering when you would pop up in here lol. As for this being a Cancer board, well, we Scorpios are so highly involved with you Cancers it seems the 2 overlap lol. Sorry I treaded on your land 😛 Happy Holidays!!!

Angel

T2, thank you so much for your positive notes about us Scorps... Sometimes we get so much attention on the 'negative' parts of us that I think ppl really do overlook the good in us. We're not all evil, honest 😛

Take care hun and good to hear from ya 🙂

Angel

ROFL CB, you didn't come across as negative at all... I took it jokingly 🙂 If anything, you're right - We Scorps were taking over (one I can think of in particular - I think her name is Angel) 😛 There goes our typical assertive self pushing our way through huh lol.

As for being more intense... I'm sorry 😢 I can't argue with you there... nor can I help you lol. I pity anyone who has to 'handle' us Scorpios ha ha

I promise to behave myself and 'try' to remember this is the Cancer board from now on lest I should be punished severely 😉 or worse.... banned :-O

bbs
Angel 🙂

Hi Water Signs!

I love it! The great high power meeting of all the 3 water signs! Lucid conversations! sweet-p is right that the water signs feel intensly but express diferently.

CANCER- The cardinal sign - the leader! representing the perenial nature of emotions(river & ocean). There is always more (emotionally)from where it came from in cancer waters! SCORPIO- the organiser, the consolidater (lakes,ponds & ocean)is also sign of an inventor- no wonder still water runs deep expression fits them so well!
PISCES- all water bodies including Fish Tank- the communicator & visionary! They are the most comfortable ones among the water signs in relating to different assortment of people.

Each one has it's own karmic role to play on this earth.

Looney Bird

Yeyyyyy I got a hug lol And I thought for SURE I would get punished 😉

Hiya Sweet-P... Good to hear from you... I sure wish you'd share some of that red wine though 😉 I'm so happy for you that you've found the love of your life. Hold on though... He's a Cancer, and I'm sure you know from your past experiences that you're in for the ride of a lifetime 😛 (Don't beat me Cancers lol)

Hey LB... Coming in with some insightful info as usual... I do like your description of us water signs (lol @ the fishtank idea 😛) I have to agree that Pisceans are definitely the easiest going of all of us... One of my closest friends is a Pisces and she is a total sweetheart!

BTW guys, if I haven't said it enough, I do love this board... The conversation is always interesting in here & you help me to break the monotony my boring work 😛 Thanks!

hugsssssssss to all
Angel

LOL... Now CB, I never said it wasn't a ride worth taking... I just said it was the ride of her life 😉

HNY to you 2 🙂

Angel

predators are right

Atlantic Myst,

Just what do you mean that Scorpios are the sexual and emotional predators of the zodiac?? I am not sure I quite understand what you mean, and I am curious. Please explain further what you are saying ok??

TW2

actually I was just joking. They are something else though.