LOL Hey, stop picking on us 😉 We all mean well... If only all the other signs would just see it our way 😛 😛 😛
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Okay, this is gonna be straightforward and it might sting a bit, and for that I'll apologize in advance to anyone I upset, but I have heard enough of this sexual predator/Scorpios are "so mean" stuff, and I have to make my stand once and for all.
Yes, there are SOME Scorpios who are mean, but there are SOME of EVERY sign that is mean, some of every sign that is vindictive, some of every sign that seeks only to hurt people - but they are NOT the 100% whole of ANY sign, INCLUDING SCORPIOS!
I asked my fiancee about this sexual predator idea and he laughed! I'm a Scorp and I am NO predator. I am a natural-born peacekeeper, and I will only fight when I'm HURT (or possibly severely offended), or someone I love is hurt. I do not seek out poor defenseless individuals to smash into the ground for heaven's sake, but if I'm going to end up in a fight, I'm going into that fight to win it. Scorpios love intensely and fight to the end when hurt, but there is a BIG difference in fighting for what you believe in rather than actually seeking someone out to hurt them. Predator? NO. Intense? Yes. We love with all we've got. We loathe with all we've got. It takes a special person to understand a Scorpio and the way we love. There are just 2 ways to go with a Scorpio - it's black or it's white - Love us or hate us; Be loved by us or experience indifference or the sting, the latter choice depending on whether you have hurt us or just aren't someone we think our time and energy is best spent on. It's not OUR faults we are so intense... But we are NOT predators! Actually, I would say out of the entire zodiac list, we probably feel our emotions more intensely than anyone - most signs just take it the wrong way! Just because you can't SEE it or TOUCH it or HEAR it or SMELL it does NOT mean it does not exist. I don't go around screaming "I Love You" to every person I love, BUT they all KNOW in one way or another how much they mean to me IF they take the time to watch and listen, and when I do say I love you, you can bet your bottom dollar I MEANT IT and it's backed by my own soul. Superficiality is something I just don't have the time or care to spend the energy on - whether coming from me or anyone else.
I have a message I put on some of my profiles online. It says: "If I didn't like you then, I never will, but if I said I loved you, I meant I would love you forever." That about sums it up. Don't cross us and we will do one of 2 things - Leave you alone if you're not someone we want to be a part of our lives OR love you with every single fiber of our beings.
Don't underestimate Scorpios - There is power in there and I know that is scary, but a part of that power is the ability to love you like you have NEVER and WILL NEVER be loved again in your life IF you make it worthwhile for the Scorps to even TRY to give you all they have.
That said, there is just one more thing I want to say: I know it's annoying to a lady who has been raised in a family where men don't cry to see her man cry, but let me tell you this - Someone who CANNOT cry in an appropriate moment is not someone I personally could ever be interested in. It's a BAD thing for anyone to keep everything inside and never let it out. My fiancee is one of the toughest men I have ever met, but even he has cried when the moment was too much to bear! My father and brothers are tough men too, and even THEY cry at appropriate moments! Life is full of emotional ups and down and tears are natural when we hurt or feel so much we can't express it any other way. If I had been here at the time this thread was started, my response would have been: Either love him for who he is, tears and emotions and all, or let him find someone who will, but let me tell you this much, letting go of a Cancer because of a few tears is a BIG mistake - Cancers ARE everything all wrapped up in one awesome package. My fiancee might drive me crazy sometimes,
Yes, there are SOME Scorpios who are mean, but there are SOME of EVERY sign that is mean, some of every sign that is vindictive, some of every sign that seeks only to hurt people - but they are NOT the 100% whole of ANY sign, INCLUDING SCORPIOS!
I asked my fiancee about this sexual predator idea and he laughed! I'm a Scorp and I am NO predator. I am a natural-born peacekeeper, and I will only fight when I'm HURT (or possibly severely offended), or someone I love is hurt. I do not seek out poor defenseless individuals to smash into the ground for heaven's sake, but if I'm going to end up in a fight, I'm going into that fight to win it. Scorpios love intensely and fight to the end when hurt, but there is a BIG difference in fighting for what you believe in rather than actually seeking someone out to hurt them. Predator? NO. Intense? Yes. We love with all we've got. We loathe with all we've got. It takes a special person to understand a Scorpio and the way we love. There are just 2 ways to go with a Scorpio - it's black or it's white - Love us or hate us; Be loved by us or experience indifference or the sting, the latter choice depending on whether you have hurt us or just aren't someone we think our time and energy is best spent on. It's not OUR faults we are so intense... But we are NOT predators! Actually, I would say out of the entire zodiac list, we probably feel our emotions more intensely than anyone - most signs just take it the wrong way! Just because you can't SEE it or TOUCH it or HEAR it or SMELL it does NOT mean it does not exist. I don't go around screaming "I Love You" to every person I love, BUT they all KNOW in one way or another how much they mean to me IF they take the time to watch and listen, and when I do say I love you, you can bet your bottom dollar I MEANT IT and it's backed by my own soul. Superficiality is something I just don't have the time or care to spend the energy on - whether coming from me or anyone else.
I have a message I put on some of my profiles online. It says: "If I didn't like you then, I never will, but if I said I loved you, I meant I would love you forever." That about sums it up. Don't cross us and we will do one of 2 things - Leave you alone if you're not someone we want to be a part of our lives OR love you with every single fiber of our beings.
Don't underestimate Scorpios - There is power in there and I know that is scary, but a part of that power is the ability to love you like you have NEVER and WILL NEVER be loved again in your life IF you make it worthwhile for the Scorps to even TRY to give you all they have.
That said, there is just one more thing I want to say: I know it's annoying to a lady who has been raised in a family where men don't cry to see her man cry, but let me tell you this - Someone who CANNOT cry in an appropriate moment is not someone I personally could ever be interested in. It's a BAD thing for anyone to keep everything inside and never let it out. My fiancee is one of the toughest men I have ever met, but even he has cried when the moment was too much to bear! My father and brothers are tough men too, and even THEY cry at appropriate moments! Life is full of emotional ups and down and tears are natural when we hurt or feel so much we can't express it any other way. If I had been here at the time this thread was started, my response would have been: Either love him for who he is, tears and emotions and all, or let him find someone who will, but let me tell you this much, letting go of a Cancer because of a few tears is a BIG mistake - Cancers ARE everything all wrapped up in one awesome package. My fiancee might drive me crazy sometimes,
Thank you so much for backing me you 2. 🙂 I was starting to think having the Scorpio sign tattooed to my forehead made me an automatic enemy of the general public lol.
CB, I truly think he is my soulmate. We celebrated our 1-year anniversary on the 16th of this month. 🙂 For a long time, I was afraid to hope, afraid I might get hurt again, but I find myself believing more and more every day. I have to be honest and say I'm still a little bit scared because the past has been rocky for me with relationships, but he understands this and he makes me feel more at ease every day. Maybe it's a Cancer thing *wink*, but I know, if I lost him, I would miss him more every second for the rest of my life. Here goes up another prayer that this really is the one for me for all eternity. 🙂 Have you ever felt like you're holding your breath - forever? .... I'm afraid to breathe - I don't want to jinx it lol.
Blessings to all,
Angel
CB, I truly think he is my soulmate. We celebrated our 1-year anniversary on the 16th of this month. 🙂 For a long time, I was afraid to hope, afraid I might get hurt again, but I find myself believing more and more every day. I have to be honest and say I'm still a little bit scared because the past has been rocky for me with relationships, but he understands this and he makes me feel more at ease every day. Maybe it's a Cancer thing *wink*, but I know, if I lost him, I would miss him more every second for the rest of my life. Here goes up another prayer that this really is the one for me for all eternity. 🙂 Have you ever felt like you're holding your breath - forever? .... I'm afraid to breathe - I don't want to jinx it lol.
Blessings to all,
Angel
Riders_Angel,
That was one beautiful post I must say. So open and honest about how your are and feel. My sister is a scorpio and I have to say I admire her strenght and tenacity when faced with a hard situation in life.
She is exactly how you described yourself in the post. Most people dont get to see the gentle loving side of a scorpio but it is there none the less. I have seen it in the way she looks at her son, or in the way she helps care for an infant in distress that she is close to like a nephew or niece.
And yes she is very intense and full of lifes fire in her heart, but that is part of the strenght and power that scorpios have inside. In my opinion that strenght shows on their face and in their eyes. Thanks for the post I could not have said it better myself.
TW2
That was one beautiful post I must say. So open and honest about how your are and feel. My sister is a scorpio and I have to say I admire her strenght and tenacity when faced with a hard situation in life.
She is exactly how you described yourself in the post. Most people dont get to see the gentle loving side of a scorpio but it is there none the less. I have seen it in the way she looks at her son, or in the way she helps care for an infant in distress that she is close to like a nephew or niece.
And yes she is very intense and full of lifes fire in her heart, but that is part of the strenght and power that scorpios have inside. In my opinion that strenght shows on their face and in their eyes. Thanks for the post I could not have said it better myself.
TW2
Hey, I think I'm going to open up and say what I think in here more often 😉 j/k Thank you for the kind words everyone. It's good to know we Scorpios aren't viewed by all as cold-hearted snakes. 🙂
CB, Thanks for the words of encouragement. I really hope you're right because he's my world and I would sooner die than lose him. I'm always afraid I'll say or do the wrong thing lol, but I'm trying HARD to do this right. 🙂
Hugs and blessings all...
Angel
CB, Thanks for the words of encouragement. I really hope you're right because he's my world and I would sooner die than lose him. I'm always afraid I'll say or do the wrong thing lol, but I'm trying HARD to do this right. 🙂
Hugs and blessings all...
Angel
You just met one. There isn't a man alive who could convince me to cheat on my fiancee. There isn't enough money, enough justification, enough reasoning - There just isn't enough of anything to make that happen. It's called love, loyalty, and dedication. I've been hurt. He's been hurt. We're both tired of being hurt and with the love we feel for each other AND the bond we have due to our similar experiences in love, we have a loyalty and dedication no one can sever. I'm comfortable in the knowledge that he won't cheat on me and I'm dedicated to the principle of never hurting him. That makes this Scorpio/Cancer relationship an exception to the rule. So, I'm happy to say I can break that stereotype for ya. 🙂
Thank you very much hun. And good luck to you in your endeavors as well. 🙂
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