Cancers and calling (Page 2)

Complicated... lol... they say "a drunken tongue is a truthful soul" People get courage when they are high and intoxicated. So he was actually telling you the truth, something he would not have said when he was sober, just to save face. My guy drinks alot and he is constantly on the computer, so yeah I know. He loves video games too...

"O and another thing i liked about him, was his stamina."

Hello! I loves my woody 🙂 Taurus and Cancer people love sex. I know my guy is glad he met me... he said no other woman would just lay on their back any ole time for him. (TMI sorry) Gots to keep the goodies serviced and in good working conditions now don't we Complicated 😉

Lost... I know... that is the good thing with Cancers they will repay you. I love that about them.

Sweets... yeah because we are straight up and we deal with things different and we hate to be ignored or avoided. I think it is true... Cancers don't feel worthy enough I guess... that's why they give up easy. Sweets... don't watch how much effort you put in... the harder you work the better it will be for you in the end. Your crab will never forget your efforts and he will repay you. It takes time and the timeline is unknown... but good things comes to those who wait. 😉

LT... you read me like an open book!!!

I can relate to your best friend said.. i only got small piece left..

"Patience and understanding is a virtue and not many people have it. "

you got it sooooooo right!

Hey SF!..Long time no see... glad to have you back here 😉

lol Oh that clears the way for me. It seems like he does see my efforts and he even seems sometimes to feel guilty about the effort he makes me put in, but I've already decided for myself that he's definitely worth it, to have him in the end or to make it through the experience.

When you have decided to stick with it and work on it..you'll get him.. heck you've been in and out with this guy before...be it being cancer or taurus but when it comes to love, you gotta go for it 😉

Really Lost... cool. Good... I guess I understand you guys then.
That's right Sweets... who better to tell you but a Cancer herself. Sticking it out won't cause no harm. Working hard can only produce good results... that applies to life in general. Just like sowing seeds... it takes awhile... lots of hard work and sometimes disappointments, but when those seeds produce crops... imagine the joy in reaping them. "What you sow is what you reap" 😉

This subject would take alot more than our keyboards to get out how we really feel about this stuff... it is soooo sad 😢

Ok l need answers big time !

lol Virgo men are weird to me, but the main issue I had with the one that I was with was that he was seriously materialistic and he only dealt with people he felt answered the question "what can you do for me", but when we were younger and he was broke, hungry, and unpopular he proposed to me lol go figure. He's very hardworking and talented, and gorgeous to boot, but he misuses people in the name of "networking".

Naw he wont. He graduated from Howard University and has deemed himself a part of the Elite. He will marry a black woman with the family history and lineage of a Southern aristocratic belle, of this I have no doubt. Even if he did decide to marry a woman of another race I have no problems with it, lol I dont want him.

oh complicated...you do have fine body...
Gb? is that you??

I don't really agree with the statement that Cancer's miss out on what is rightfully theirs. I really believed the Cancer guy was mine in my heart and soul. The problem is he still doesn't know it yet or at least he just isn't ready to accept it at the moment(LOL). And after - what - 10 yrs now of waiting for him to come around, I don't think he ever will. Even though he has told me that he loves me many times. But I just take it with a grain of salt. I've had him on ignore for the past 4 months now. Trying to get him out of my system but its hard to do now that I'm in my shell. I haven't dated anyone for almost a year now. So he is occupying my thoughts as there is no one to take his place.

I guess I have to get used to him being my what if guy. That sucks!

I agree, Complicated. I loved him very hard. He loved me very, very hard! 😛 He does have commitment issues and parental issues (his father was a heroin addict and abandoned him as a child.) I tried to be loyal despite his issues. But he put me through alot of heart ache and played with my head. My sister (who is a Taurus and my best friend) jokes around that when I finally get married to someone else thats when Cancer guy will come around and try to stop my wedding declaring his love for me. We joke but at the same time I'm like...hmmmmmmm...Nooooooooo! Which why I definitely need to make sure I move on and make sure when I do see him (because I always run into him as we are in the same industry) he won't have such a powerful effect on me.