I'm in a fwb situation with a Cancer and I'm really considering cutting it off. It's been going for a month, and of all the times we've hung out there was only once that we didn't fool around. What happened to friends? I've been back and forth with him about it, I don't wanna hook up, then I do, then I don't, the I do again. I rarely hear from him, usually I start the convo. He gets irritated with me easily. I stick around hoping that our friendship gets better(or at least the sex, lol). Oh, and he doesn't have my name in his phone!! It's just my number. I asked him about it and he just said, "Yeah I left your number because I remember the last four digits 6950, like oh that's you by the last four digits". HUH? I don't know what's going on? Should I just give up on this dude all together? Is there any reason for his behavior? I don't even feel like we're friends..So far I haven't contacted him and he hasn't contacted me. I haven't even told him I thought anything was wrong.
Cancers and FwB?
I'm in a fwb situation with a Cancer and I'm really considering cutting it off. It's been going for a month, and of all the times we've hung out there was only once that we didn't fool around. What happened to friends? I've been back and forth with him about it, I don't wanna hook up, then I do, then I don't, the I do again. I rarely hear from him, usually I start the convo. He gets irritated with me easily. I stick around hoping that our friendship gets better(or at least the sex, lol). Oh, and he doesn't have my name in his phone!! It's just my number. I asked him about it and he just said, "Yeah I left your number because I remember the last four digits 6950, like oh that's you by the last four digits". HUH? I don't know what's going on? Should I just give up on this dude all together? Is there any reason for his behavior? I don't even feel like we're friends..So far I haven't contacted him and he hasn't contacted me. I haven't even told him I thought anything was wrong.
What looks like indecision or aloofness on his part is him being cautious or waiting for you to contact first. But he doesn't sound too serious.
He's got a girlfriend
Posted by Arielle83
Cancers don't get into fwb with people they want more than sex from. You sound like you want more than fwb with him so he's being distant to keep it clear he doesn't owe u any emotional intimacy.
I don't we've already established we'd never be more than friends for various reasons. I'm just confused because it's a fwb...what happened to the friend part?
Cancer man here... its funny because I have done that..I have so many numbers unsaved in my phone.lol its because I am not into them.. if a cancer like you you would...I would get annoyed to when a girl I was fooling around with would talk about us lol. I'm like there is no us..I never would text her unless it was about sex..I think it is what it is...you gotta deal with it or move on
.hope this helps!
.hope this helps!
Posted by Trey1982
Cancer man here... its funny because I have done that..I have so many numbers unsaved in my phone.lol its because I am not into them.. if a cancer like you you would...I would get annoyed to when a girl I was fooling around with would talk about us lol. I'm like there is no us..I never would text her unless it was about sex..I think it is what it is...you gotta deal with it or move on
.hope this helps!
Ugh this sounds like what the Cancer ive been with has been doing to me. I already know he has me saved in his phone, we have been hooking up for months and he did say that it would be nice if I hit him up too and he'd be down to just hang but I feel like it may just be about sex. Do cancer guys ever transition from sex to more? Assuming we are equally attractive and stable. Also I have shown no signs of wanting more even though I do.
If you show no signs the cancer will show no signs.
Yes we can transition to something more. For me you have to give something more. For example I had a ex who I was fwb she wanted more but I wasn't really into her like that nothing more then sex..she cont to try I was in a bad state in my life and she was so supportive she never judge me she listen ...and guess what I made her my girlfriend.. even tho it was one of my worst relationship it can't happen. Don't talk about us..let him know how smart you are ..support his dreams and be his number one cheerleader..
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