Cancers and SEX

I can't help but wonder after reading all these messages. I must tell you all, I am involved with my 2nd Cancer man, 7 months now. It is some of the hottest, nasty, dirty talking sex I ever had! This man is a man all the way, military and no where near gay or bi-sexual. But, he does like to experiment with toys, which makes me wonder about his thoughts. And he also has some very domestic, almost female traits. Now even though he is a WILD ONE behind closed doors...he is a family man, loves his Mother and kids, a very upstanding man in the community.I think I have finally EARNED his trust. But, as I said, sex with this man....is the best I ever had and I sure hope he's not planning on going any where any time soon! How do I keep this one?

I am a cancer man, and I know that I am an awesome lover. The best! To keep
this man, don't EVER betray his trust in you, for it is sacred. Emotionally, keep him secure, and show him (by your actions), that you really care and love him. Trust me, he won't go anywhere!
Good Luck!

Thanks for the response! If I knew he would stay, not cheat on me....I would never betray his trust! He is a keeper! But, he is just getting a divorce, coming up in 3 months and was only single 3 months before we started seeing each other. So, I am very cautious, not told him how much I REALLY care for him, but the actions show it. I don't want to scare him off or pressure him. I want him to be the one to make the more serious move. I can tell he cares for me...he just doesn't want me to know I think. And I sure don't want to be the rebound cause I can see how hurt he is by the divorce. Can ya give me any more advise on this. I don't want him to think I don't care enough, but I don't want to scare him away either.

Just be a friend and take things slow. Sounds like he has some things to work out. As a cancer man myself, I seem to form opinions and feelings by actions verses words. Show that you care without necessarily always having to say so. Also, have it non-pressure. Be light, breezy honest and true. Good luck!