cancersconfuseme
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Cancers (Ladies) let's talk
You have the green light, why aren't you courting her?
No where in your OP did you mention calling her and asking her out and scheduling a date.
What are you waiting for?
Courtship with a Lunar woman can be a bit different than you are use to.
You could be in the cat and mouse or chess game.
She steps out and lets you know she there, then backs off and waits for you to make a move.
Once we assert ourselves in getting your attention we then become very quiet, passive and wait for the guy to further the initial ice breaking. This cat and mouse may continue even if you pursue.
She did her part, she approached you and set the ball rolling and you are dropping the ball by expecting her to constantly be in push mode. The non-stop passion is her Leo Mars. It's a very physical and sexual placement. But she is still very watery.
If she is traditional and old school that means she wants a guy who is also traditional and old school.
Which means she wants her man to be a man.
Personally, I get a nice chemistry with some Virgo males in the beginning but you guys like to lay back and wait for the girl to make the first move then whine about us not pursuing you. There is a guy I work with who does this crap, he will see me after a week and then ask why I haven't called him. I ask him why he does that considering both of us clearly don't seem interested enough to pursue. I had to really push him to admit it's just talk.
She approached you, now court her.
No where in your OP did you mention calling her and asking her out and scheduling a date.
What are you waiting for?
Courtship with a Lunar woman can be a bit different than you are use to.
You could be in the cat and mouse or chess game.
She steps out and lets you know she there, then backs off and waits for you to make a move.
Once we assert ourselves in getting your attention we then become very quiet, passive and wait for the guy to further the initial ice breaking. This cat and mouse may continue even if you pursue.
She did her part, she approached you and set the ball rolling and you are dropping the ball by expecting her to constantly be in push mode. The non-stop passion is her Leo Mars. It's a very physical and sexual placement. But she is still very watery.
If she is traditional and old school that means she wants a guy who is also traditional and old school.
Which means she wants her man to be a man.
Personally, I get a nice chemistry with some Virgo males in the beginning but you guys like to lay back and wait for the girl to make the first move then whine about us not pursuing you. There is a guy I work with who does this crap, he will see me after a week and then ask why I haven't called him. I ask him why he does that considering both of us clearly don't seem interested enough to pursue. I had to really push him to admit it's just talk.
She approached you, now court her.
Maybe I gave you the wrong impression. I wouldn't say I've dropped the ball, we met at the gym and have worked out together twice now, and we've been very touchy physical during our workouts and I've kept up the physical aggression and flirty banter. Her leo mars and my scorp mars are going to make for some fucking intense passion in the bedroom.
I've intentionally held back from going back to one of our places because 1 the bf and 2 I've read (admittedly stupidly now that you're telling me otherwise) that coming on too strong with a cancer lady can send her running back to her safe zone. If you're saying I should go for it then no problem I will. I know what you're saying about virgos being passive but I'm like the most non-virgo virgo you'd ever meet. That's what got me into learning about this stuff in the first place was because I had no connection to my sun sign whatsoever. I'm very airy with some leo and scorpio mixed in.
But like you said, if she wants me to step up and take it to the next level, then that's what I'll do 🙂
Curious, what would make a cancer girl in a 4 year relationship cheat or look for the next relationship, especially as watery as she is and the cancer in venus?
I've intentionally held back from going back to one of our places because 1 the bf and 2 I've read (admittedly stupidly now that you're telling me otherwise) that coming on too strong with a cancer lady can send her running back to her safe zone. If you're saying I should go for it then no problem I will. I know what you're saying about virgos being passive but I'm like the most non-virgo virgo you'd ever meet. That's what got me into learning about this stuff in the first place was because I had no connection to my sun sign whatsoever. I'm very airy with some leo and scorpio mixed in.
But like you said, if she wants me to step up and take it to the next level, then that's what I'll do 🙂
Curious, what would make a cancer girl in a 4 year relationship cheat or look for the next relationship, especially as watery as she is and the cancer in venus?
Posted by cancersconfusemeSince you have spent more time with her than I thought, you should be able to get a feel for how to approach the subject by being around her and watching her body language and listening to her. You could start with a gentle push toward her, by asking her to lunch. The gym is not a date. 😆 I mean an actual atmosphere that promotes romance like a nice restaurant. You earth signs are funny. 😆
Maybe I gave you the wrong impression. I wouldn't say I've dropped the ball, we met at the gym and have worked out together twice now, and we've been very touchy physical during our workouts and I've kept up the physical aggression and flirty banter. Her leo mars and my scorp mars are going to make for some fucking intense passion in the bedroom.
I've intentionally held back from going back to one of our places because 1 the bf and 2 I've read (admittedly stupidly now that you're telling me otherwise) that coming on too strong with a cancer lady can send her running back to her safe zone. If you're saying I should go for it then no problem I will. I know what you're saying about virgos being passive but I'm like the most non-virgo virgo you'd ever meet. That's what got me into learning about this stuff in the first place was because I had no connection to my sun sign whatsoever. I'm very airy with some leo and scorpio mixed in.
But like you said, if she wants me to step up and take it to the next level, then that's what I'll do 🙂
Curious, what would make a cancer girl in a 4 year relationship cheat or look for the next relationship, especially as watery as she is and the cancer in venus?
Are you and she Americans?
How did the boyfriend get mentioned?
Who said it would be cheating? Is she in a committed relationship with her boyfriend?
If she has a boyfriend, it's best to know where she is with that.
Ask her how's it going and if she is open to dating other guys.
I am a fire crab, a guy coming on strong, albeit gracefully; is sexually stimulating to me.
This may not be the case for a water Crab.
That's why it's important to spend time around her so she can open up.
Look up Leo Mars for women to give you an idea into the type of guy she might like.
Posted by cancersconfusemeI ask about the Nationality because I find Americans have complicated courtships.
Were working out in a couple days, I'm just gonna tell her to come over to my house and I'll cook her dinner that will probably work to be honest, but wtf lol we're Americans in so cal and where I live and really my entire social circle, going to the gym and then getting food is equivalent to a casual date, so there lol
I'm an absolute cheeseball for romance so when she comes over for a home cooked meal, there will be candles and music etc forsure.
She was wearing a ring when we met, I asked about it and she said she's not married, in a relationship.
He's a leo, but she says I'm way more outgoing and fun than he is. so...
Posted by cancersconfusemeI ask about the Nationality because I find Americans have complicated courtships.
Were working out in a couple days, I'm just gonna tell her to come over to my house and I'll cook her dinner that will probably work to be honest, but wtf lol we're Americans in so cal and where I live and really my entire social circle, going to the gym and then getting food is equivalent to a casual date, so there lol
I'm an absolute cheeseball for romance so when she comes over for a home cooked meal, there will be candles and music etc forsure.
She was wearing a ring when we met, I asked about it and she said she's not married, in a relationship.
He's a leo, but she says I'm way more outgoing and fun than he is. so...
She's not answering your texts because she with her bf and she's hiding you.
Cancers cheat when we're not fully mature. She likes your attention,BUT she still has a bf which means she's still in love with him right now
Cancers cheat when we're not fully mature. She likes your attention,BUT she still has a bf which means she's still in love with him right now
Not complicated, more casual. I dated a girl from St. Petersburg and I studied abroad in France and at least that's what I've found.
So I feel maybe that's what I mean when I say I haven't made a real move sbecaue of the bf. I don't feel like she's interested in juggling two guys so I'm gonna have to ask and find out what she's actually interested in. I'm 26 she's 28 he's 32 so I'll have to see.
Would you, a cancer woman, talk about children, your mom and your ideal home with a guy you were only interested in sleeping with? The first time we hung out she made it clear she wanted children lol, I mentioned that I wanted to own a winery as my "retirement career" and she added how she wanted certain aspects to her dream home (and the. Later impressed me with some interesting wine facts) and then told me about her mom who is her best friend? This was all brought in the first couple hours we hung out.
So I feel maybe that's what I mean when I say I haven't made a real move sbecaue of the bf. I don't feel like she's interested in juggling two guys so I'm gonna have to ask and find out what she's actually interested in. I'm 26 she's 28 he's 32 so I'll have to see.
Would you, a cancer woman, talk about children, your mom and your ideal home with a guy you were only interested in sleeping with? The first time we hung out she made it clear she wanted children lol, I mentioned that I wanted to own a winery as my "retirement career" and she added how she wanted certain aspects to her dream home (and the. Later impressed me with some interesting wine facts) and then told me about her mom who is her best friend? This was all brought in the first couple hours we hung out.
Posted by Arielle83
This thread made me wet.
She's hiding you.
After 4 years she's prob gotten bored or he's gotten complacent.
Id get turned on af if I was working out with a hottie all about the cheeky sexual banter.
Fuck, finally some positive feedback. Thank you Arielle, so I'll go about everything as usual. This is pretty stupid but I think I took astrology too literal and thought that I'd have to slow it down or maybe she wasn't going to cheat simply because she was a Cancer, stupid I know. I'll go about it as I would anyone else then and I'll update later.
Oh and we can work out anytime you're in the states :p
Sounds like she's crushing on you though straying from her boyfriend would be against her "code" of loyalty. I would tread lightly so you don't get hurt in this whole process because cancer's are feircely loyal to their partners, though if she's willing to hang out with you outside of the gym is a very good sign. How does she respond when you ask her about her relationship?
Posted by ChrisIsKodakI completely understand why you feel that way but it's not accurate. There's some actual real mutual interest here the obvious fucked up part is that she isn't single and someone is going to get hurt here, yes that someone could be me. I wouldn't treat this girl as a quick fling and I'm not trying to get in the middle of a relationship Just for a tally mark. I realize there are consequences to whatever our actions are and if something does happen between us I will be happy and guilty but I know this girl wouldn't cheat for a thrill either so if we do end up doing something then it's going to get serious.Posted by cancersconfusemelol you were just trying to find something to validate putting your junk where it dont belong dude. If you're gonna do dirt, don't hide your hands.Posted by Arielle83
This thread made me wet.
She's hiding you.
After 4 years she's prob gotten bored or he's gotten complacent.
Id get turned on af if I was working out with a hottie all about the cheeky sexual banter.
Fuck, finally some positive feedback. Thank you Arielle, so I'll go about everything as usual. This is pretty stupid but I think I took astrology too literal and thought that I'd have to slow it down or maybe she wasn't going to cheat simply because she was a Cancer, stupid I know. I'll go about it as I would anyone else then and I'll update later.
Oh and we can work out anytime you're in the states :pclick to expand
A quick update we were supposed to hang out on valentines but we both got busy. We worked out tonight nothing has really changed same flirting sexual banter, a lot more touching, she was calling me daddy which is an amazing sign. I asked if she wanted to get food she said No but we were both really tired and it was late so okay no big deal. I'm really exhausted just typing this up there is something else that I was going to mention or add but Indont remember atm, good night
Posted by ChrisIsKodakIt's not validation. The question was about her not responding to my texts. The first girl didn't answer the question, and it just so happens that the first message that I read that did answer the question also mentioned that this thread got her wet lol so bonus points there. Of course I want something to happen with her, I never denied that or hid my intentionsPosted by cancersconfusemeAgain Validation. for the end justify the means. Just admit it. You would do dirt because in the end it would all be worth it.Posted by ChrisIsKodakI completely understand why you feel that way but it's not accurate. There's some actual real mutual interest here the obvious fucked up part is that she isn't single and someone is going to get hurt here, yes that someone could be me. I wouldn't treat this girl as a quick fling and I'm not trying to get in the middle of a relationship Just for a tally mark. I realize there are consequences to whatever our actions are and if something does happen between us I will be happy and guilty but I know this girl wouldn't cheat for a thrill either so if we do end up doing something then it's going to get serious.Posted by cancersconfusemelol you were just trying to find something to validate putting your junk where it dont belong dude. If you're gonna do dirt, don't hide your hands.Posted by Arielle83
This thread made me wet.
She's hiding you.
After 4 years she's prob gotten bored or he's gotten complacent.
Id get turned on af if I was working out with a hottie all about the cheeky sexual banter.
Fuck, finally some positive feedback. Thank you Arielle, so I'll go about everything as usual. This is pretty stupid but I think I took astrology too literal and thought that I'd have to slow it down or maybe she wasn't going to cheat simply because she was a Cancer, stupid I know. I'll go about it as I would anyone else then and I'll update later.
Oh and we can work out anytime you're in the states :p
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Oh yeah so I guess she's just really bad at texts (which was my initial question) she says her friends don't really trip on it more because they understand that's just how she is. She's not a fan of social media, she said if she couldve lived in an earlier time without all the technology and where men were stilll gentleman it would be perfect because she's very "old school"
Fuck man. Yes I'll be sad if nothing happens with her but you don't know how long I've been waiting to meet a true cancer sun that I absolutely connect with. Once again, I love you guys.
Fuck man. Yes I'll be sad if nothing happens with her but you don't know how long I've been waiting to meet a true cancer sun that I absolutely connect with. Once again, I love you guys.
One more thing, she mentioned her bf more than usual tonight. Should I straight out ask about the situation there? I'm personally a fan of the unspoken tension but maybe that's a productive conversation that could lead us in the right direction
Posted by cancersconfusemeOh wow, is her name Melissa? If so, she likes attention and long nice poetic emails. She won't respond for two weeks, but you have to like the chase.
First things, first I love you all for the most part. You guys are so kind, caring, and ridiculously funny.
I've never actually dated a cancer, I usually date air signs, but I find that they usually have heavy water placements, especially cancer placements, and I've always hoped I'd find a Cancer that I connected with as effortlessly as I connect with my watery air friends that I've dated.
So a couple weeks ago this girl approaches me, absolutely my type, like smoking hot, funny, dorky,and we start talking. We've hung out three times now. It's beyond effortless when we talk, the vibe and chemistry is amazing, I honestly feel like I've known this all my life, we have a deep unspoken bond. Like, it's real. One problem, when we're together, its non stop passion, when we're not she doesn't respond to my texts and it's so god.damn.annoying. Is this a test of some kind? Is she expecting me to call her out on this? I'm VERY intuitive and easily pick up on people's vibes (my mars,pluto, and venus) are in Scorpio and it definitely kicks in when I need it to so I don't think she's just playing with me but I don't know why she isn't as attentive on the phone. She says she doesn't spend much time on her phone, which is believable she doesn't have any social media and says she's very old school and traditional. Perhaps a phone call? I just find it offensive that she doesn't respond, when she does reply it's within minutes, but that's rare, I go out of my way to text her because I care, so I'd appreciate a little more there.
Other than that, is there anything else I can expect as far as tests or speed/pace of the relationship?
One thing that I'm confused is, neither one of us is shy on sexual banter, flirting, and innuendos, but she has a bf. And from what I've gathered Cancers are very traditional and loyal, but this girl is giving me every green light to go for it. I haven't yet because I was assuming she needs more time to get to that point, but she seems pretty open to it. And she was the one who approached me, so maybe she's fed up with her current bf? Idk...
I'm a virgo sun
leo rising
aqua moon
libra mercury
scorpio mars/venus
my chart is like 40% air, 35% water, and a dash of earth and fire
She's
cancer sun
pisces moon
cancer mercury
leo mars
cancer venus
Idk her birth time, if I had to guess I'd say she's either a fire or libra rising
Posted by everfreshjuiceNot a MelissaPosted by cancersconfusemeOh wow, is her name Melissa? If so, she likes attention and long nice poetic emails. She won't respond for two weeks, but you have to like the chase.
First things, first I love you all for the most part. You guys are so kind, caring, and ridiculously funny.
I've never actually dated a cancer, I usually date air signs, but I find that they usually have heavy water placements, especially cancer placements, and I've always hoped I'd find a Cancer that I connected with as effortlessly as I connect with my watery air friends that I've dated.
So a couple weeks ago this girl approaches me, absolutely my type, like smoking hot, funny, dorky,and we start talking. We've hung out three times now. It's beyond effortless when we talk, the vibe and chemistry is amazing, I honestly feel like I've known this all my life, we have a deep unspoken bond. Like, it's real. One problem, when we're together, its non stop passion, when we're not she doesn't respond to my texts and it's so god.damn.annoying. Is this a test of some kind? Is she expecting me to call her out on this? I'm VERY intuitive and easily pick up on people's vibes (my mars,pluto, and venus) are in Scorpio and it definitely kicks in when I need it to so I don't think she's just playing with me but I don't know why she isn't as attentive on the phone. She says she doesn't spend much time on her phone, which is believable she doesn't have any social media and says she's very old school and traditional. Perhaps a phone call? I just find it offensive that she doesn't respond, when she does reply it's within minutes, but that's rare, I go out of my way to text her because I care, so I'd appreciate a little more there.
Other than that, is there anything else I can expect as far as tests or speed/pace of the relationship?
One thing that I'm confused is, neither one of us is shy on sexual banter, flirting, and innuendos, but she has a bf. And from what I've gathered Cancers are very traditional and loyal, but this girl is giving me every green light to go for it. I haven't yet because I was assuming she needs more time to get to that point, but she seems pretty open to it. And she was the one who approached me, so maybe she's fed up with her current bf? Idk...
I'm a virgo sun
leo rising
aqua moon
libra mercury
scorpio mars/venus
my chart is like 40% air, 35% water, and a dash of earth and fire
She's
cancer sun
pisces moon
cancer mercury
leo mars
cancer venus
Idk her birth time, if I had to guess I'd say she's either a fire or libra rising
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Quick update:
Few days ago she came over, not after the gym or anything we just agreed to hang out at my place and watch movies. Everything was going fine, laughing joking like usual things started getting more Intense, like real. I've never experienced such a passionate kiss before Tbh, our hands started moving around we started grabbing each other and she suddenly pulls back and starts looking really sad. I thought she was about to cry. She said I was bad for her?? 😢 I asked if everything was okay, she said that that's enough for tonight. So I made a little joke she giggled and we went back to watching the movie.
About five minutes later we start talking she looks deep into my eyes so we go back at it. She pulls back starts looking sad again, says that I'm going to think she's crazy but she needs to go home. I asked if everything was okay and reassured her that there were never any expectations and if we didn't have to do anything she
Didn't want to. She brought up the bf and said she's confused as to what she wants. Said that she likes me a lot but is scared to just throw away four years with him, said they've been going through a lot of struggles lately but being here with me makes her more confused, and that she can't truly know if she is ready to move on if she is seeing me while trying to fix itor end it with him.
We talked a little while longer and then I walked her to her car, hugged a really long Time and then she left.
I texted her the next day saying I've enjoyed getting to know her and if she ever needs anything let me know.
Sad. Not sure how this will play out but I'm just gonna fall back and give her the time and space that she needs. I feel like eventually we'll have a chance to see where this can go but today is probably not the day.
Few days ago she came over, not after the gym or anything we just agreed to hang out at my place and watch movies. Everything was going fine, laughing joking like usual things started getting more Intense, like real. I've never experienced such a passionate kiss before Tbh, our hands started moving around we started grabbing each other and she suddenly pulls back and starts looking really sad. I thought she was about to cry. She said I was bad for her?? 😢 I asked if everything was okay, she said that that's enough for tonight. So I made a little joke she giggled and we went back to watching the movie.
About five minutes later we start talking she looks deep into my eyes so we go back at it. She pulls back starts looking sad again, says that I'm going to think she's crazy but she needs to go home. I asked if everything was okay and reassured her that there were never any expectations and if we didn't have to do anything she
Didn't want to. She brought up the bf and said she's confused as to what she wants. Said that she likes me a lot but is scared to just throw away four years with him, said they've been going through a lot of struggles lately but being here with me makes her more confused, and that she can't truly know if she is ready to move on if she is seeing me while trying to fix itor end it with him.
We talked a little while longer and then I walked her to her car, hugged a really long Time and then she left.
I texted her the next day saying I've enjoyed getting to know her and if she ever needs anything let me know.
Sad. Not sure how this will play out but I'm just gonna fall back and give her the time and space that she needs. I feel like eventually we'll have a chance to see where this can go but today is probably not the day.
I can't believe that this douchebaggery is being promoted here. If this thread was in any other place on this website, she would've been labeled a cheating whore and you a nuisance.
So, you want this chick for what? One night stand? A relationship? If it's a relationship, is unfaithful the personality trait you seek in your future gf?
If this was just about sex, you shouldn't worry about her BF and what her relationship dynamic with him is.
So, you want this chick for what? One night stand? A relationship? If it's a relationship, is unfaithful the personality trait you seek in your future gf?
If this was just about sex, you shouldn't worry about her BF and what her relationship dynamic with him is.
Posted by aquarius09K
I can't believe that this douchebaggery is being promoted here. If this thread was in any other place on this website, she would've been labeled a cheating whore and you a nuisance.
So, you want this chick for what? One night stand? A relationship? If it's a relationship, is unfaithful the personality trait you seek in your future gf?
If this was just about sex, you shouldn't worry about her BF and what her relationship dynamic with him is.
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I'm a virgo sun
leo rising
aqua moon
libra mercury
scorpio mars/venus
my chart is like 40% air, 35% water, and a dash of earth and fire
She's
cancer sun
pisces moon
cancer mercury
leo mars
cancer venus
Idk her birth time, if I had to guess I'd say she's either a fire or libra rising