Cancers: Our problems = Paradox

We love too well and people get arrogant and think they're doing us a favor.

We leave them and we're the bad guy.

Annoying....

When something rings so true....

@DivaCanLeo - Lolll omggg right?

&You don't know how many times I've seen that movie.

I can see this. Had my Cancer met me 5 years ago I probably could have become arrogant. I can sense that he is very strong and would be out after too much of that. Its crazy how strong in relationships Cancers actually are.

Posted by Pearls
@DivaCanLeo - Lolll omggg right?

&You don't know how many times I've seen that movie.

Tony Montana is without QUESTION, a Cancer. 🙂

Who in the hell are you idiots to refer to others as arrogant?

When you finally get to age 45 and are still all alone, you will finally admit that the common problem in all of your dysfunctional relationships is your ass-backwards mentality.

Posted by AnOdeToNoOne
Who in the hell are you idiots to refer to others as arrogant?

When you finally get to age 45 and are still all alone, you will finally admit that the common problem in all of your dysfunctional relationships is your ass-backwards mentality.

HA! that's rich coming from a guy who wants to pretend he's a scorpio and who stalks his cancer ex gf.

@Cheeseburger - Right but this happens too much.

It's literally the demise of 90% of my relationships.

I'm always told in subtle ways that no one has every treated them so well in certain ways or they even know I wouldn't do this or that to hurt them as a fact.

But nevertheless, taken for granted without fail.

I show them warmth, acceptance, encouragement and no judgement

and I guess they forget how cold the world really is but once left they're reminded all over again.

Now they minimize their wrong doings, sweep their faults under the rug, and get full yet very selective amnesia.

It's as if they lie to us, insult us, & deny enough we should come back...?

What an insult.

Posted by Crabra

Posted by Pearls
@DivaCanLeo - Lolll omggg right?

&You don't know how many times I've seen that movie.

Tony Montana is without QUESTION, a Cancer. 🙂

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You know as often as I watch this and how much I like to guess a character's sign/the actual actor/ress I never even thought to guess his. So weird.

I did really admire his dedication to Angel (bathtub scene guy) and identified with it (to a more extreme extent).

Posted by Pearls
We love too well and people get arrogant and think they're doing us a favor.

We leave them and we're the bad guy.

Annoying....

Very interesting that Cancers feel this way.