Dealing with cancer man and his nochalant attitude

My boyfriend is a cancer, and the thing that bugs me the most is the fact that he always has this nochalant attitude as if nothing phases him. Now I am a cancer as well and I seem to be the one that is more expressive in the relationship. I would often tell him how I feel and he just basically gives me an indication that he doesn't care, his response is always "oh ok" or "I hear ya" and that's it. I know if he was to tell me how he was feeling about something I would totally take his feelings into consideratio and try to talk it out and find a solution if needed. I don't know this is definitely taking a lot of my energy because I am trying so hard to get through to him, but for some apparent reason he just will not let me in. See he has his own analysis on me and knows more about me than I know about him, so what he knows he uses to his advantage. As far as me I am still trying to figure him out. And I am afraid that my sensitivity and my emotions may cause us to break up. What should I do, any suggestions? Please help.

I guess we cancers like to have information drawn from us. Even thought we also like to talk and explain a lot, when the confidence its there.

With cancer males, I think they just get weary and retreat when its affirmed, that no one can read their minds (damn it!)...I think this is stronger with males, than females. Besides, they're men...

I hear ya girl...I'm going thru the exact samething like. I'm also trying so hard wanted to figure him out and one time he said that I was thinking too hard.Well, I guess that's his way of reassurance telling me everything is fine? lol Thought it might gets frastrustrated from time to time and I often feel so emotional exhausted but when I think about the outcome then everything is worthwhile. Maybe becasue I'm a Taurus so I got that infamous presisitency and patient and he knows it that's why he's sticking around with me haha. I dont think girls would put up with it especially with our case we are a long distance one. So you can figure how I'm not gonna give up unless I have what I want. Talk about stubborn bull lol All I can say is be patient and communication is the key to break their code. For me, the process is slow since we don't see each often at all, but to see his smile and know that you have his heart...it's priceless haha yeah I'm hooked on him big time 🙂

For some reason with cancer males once they make up their mind about something there is no changing it. They don't like to consider your feelings for anything. I am a cancer and just got out of a year long relationship with another cancer. Our feelings ran deep but, his stubborness and pigheadedness I could not deal with. We could not see eye to eye on a lot of things. One thing being the most important was trust. Things seemed perfect until I found out he was cheating and he knew I couldn't trust him anymore because trust to him was me believing that he would never leave me regardless if he was having sex with someone else or not. He had that forever no matter what attitude. And yes he would use everything I told him against me including my past. That was a big mistake to even tell him my past. I think my cancer guy was just special (meaning half crazy) because after he knew I could not trust him anymore it turned into verbal abuse and that was something I could not deal with..... Good luck with your cancer/cancer relationship it's like living in emotional hell.....

Well i guess i can just join the party because i am a taurus and my bf is a cancer and he knows way much more about me then i do about him and he defitnatly useses that to his advantage ;-/ and when i try to ask him something for him to open up ,. I can just kiss that goodbye, at times i get so mad n fed up with all of it that like i want to leave him but we knew each other for 3 years and i went out with him for 2yrs and its something hard to do.I've tried but it didnt work. But he's just so stubborn, sensitive,once he makes up his mind forget it/he gets to me so much n its a long distance relationship ,so we hardly sees each other but when we do its good😉 but when were not argruements all the way ,either or the other is mad/but when i see him i guess its all worth while, and i know that he loves me so i guess i'll just have to put up with the emotional hell ...who else will/. 😉

Cancer/Cancer is NOT a combo that I would recommend because you two are too much alike. Personally, I would NEVER date a Cancer man...except Daemon 🙂

Look at Tom Cruise...he is CRAZY!

There are too many moods going on with no stabilizer.

I don't know but I thought the sag are more unstablized then the cancers. I used to date this crazy sag he's always on the go for new changes. I mean it's okay if you are goal oriented but not when you dont know what the heck you are doing. Like he would come up with lots of plan at the same time but without one being accomplished and yeah lots of emptied promises too. Comparing with my cancer bf, thought he's a bit emotional and distant sometimes, but we remain closed at heart no matter what. We are able to comprise our differences and accept each other for who we are. I really think that cancer guys are the best boyfriend material and yeah family-oriented too 🙂 BTW, I'm a taurus too 😉 So I think we girls who are dating cancerian babes should be happy and glad haha well at least I'm happy,maybe it's true that taurus and cancer are made to be together,because no matter how sometimes I act foolish and get upset at him, he's always there, no matter what. It's awesome to have found someone to be able to make you feel so complete.

HUH cancerlady huh who called my name,lol. CANcerlady i have cancer traits but i don't feel cancer at times ,i talk too much,lol. ME and u date?OF course,he he he. And u aheeeeem,aheeemm,u know this RASTA bwoy would do many thingsss.