Disappointed or upset and Jealousy.

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by sweetbabes on Monday, September 18, 2006 and has 6 replies.

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@cancimini
20 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

If a certain disappointment has to do with a boy, I instantly feel sick to my stomach, like I have to throw up. That quickly turns into an angryness and the need to fight back because of the fact that: no one..... MESSES with me!
Disappointments other than that, make me feel sad. But afterwards I'll feel the urge to fight back too, or I'll just move on.

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@cancerLA
20 Years500+ Posts

that's a very broad question but I'll try:

1) dissapiontment: I tend to regroup and move on quickly. I'll try to glean whatever lessons I can and forget the rest asap.

2) upset: it depends. More than likely I'll get quiet and retreat to a quiet place to be alone until I get over it. If it is the result of coming under attack I strike back with amazing velocity and fervor.

3) jealous; I'm not a jealous person as far as "things" go. Relationshipwise, I'll be very quiet on the subject until I gather aaaaaaaaalllllllllllllllll the pertinent information. Then I will address the issue calmly. My response will depend on the answers I get plus what I know to be true from my research multiplied by any lies and bullsh!t that come up.

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@cj7
21 Years1,000+ Posts

i have that urge to fight back too...im fairly passive but i take great offense when are done agaist me and get very mean...ive been told i lack some kind of speech filter that keeps people from saying everything that goes thru thier head.