@shy4acancer
16 Years
Cancer individuals tend to value emotional connection and security, which can make long distance relationships challenging yet possible with effort. Open communication and patience are key to maintaining the bond. When Cancer feels loved and understood, distance can become less significant.
Cancers don't do well with long distance relationships. They're very physical and need to see and touch you constantly. They need affection via hugs and kisses. It's not impossible, but he'd have to really care about you and even then it will take a LOT of convincing.
Oh your not talking about running because Nigel can average a little over 6.5 miles per hour for up to 26 or 27 miles.
hey there!
Well , remember that the motto for Cancer is I FEEL. These crabs need to feel a situation, live it, get soaked with emotions...this is one of the reasons why maybe it is not so good for them to sustain a long distant relationship. But this doesnt mean that it cant work in your case. Because you can get to know him and eventually drive over there to see him, and who knows?
I would say if you are interested, dont lose heart, go for it. Try.
There are always obstacles in love, but if your intuition and gut feeling says do it, just go with it.
Sometimes the rewards are awesome and esentially crabs are loving and caring people, loyal and devoted to those they love.
Shy4acancer: just get flee away ,your whorish scorpio. You are good with a dog.
If there is a light at the end of the tunnel, and you guys agree to get together often then yeah. Long distance relationships depend on the love, the maturity of you too, and the distnace. Three hours are not too much, but with school...ehh. It'll be a challenge.
God Bless and good luck.
Jeff
Thanks to all for your comments. I really do care for this guy. Im willing to do whatever it takes to make this work. I have been up to visit him once already so, I dont have a problem with getting on the road.
Hey PiscesArgie ! Nice pic . you 2 look happy together ! Im gonna follow my gut and go for it ! Wish me luck !
Ps: I known him since childhood. His mother lives down the street from me !
You have a great chance shy4cancer. You already have history and memories together. If there was sexual tension over the years... Woazah!
I don't know about other Cancers but I hate when people want to talk about a possible relationship, or where this is going. Such a HUGE turnoff.
How is that at all romantic. Just enjoy your time together, take it slow and see how it flows. But if an opportunity arises, TAKE IT!
I hate when people want to talk about a possible relationship, or where this is going. Such a HUGE turnoff.
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shy4acancer!!!
All the best!!!
If you are willing to make it work there are good chances of success.
The key word is PATIENCE , lots of undestanding, and loads of reassurance and affection.
I agree with SHELLSHOKER about not labelling the relationship. And Ive found that the not-pressure of having to deal with a woman that wants to be called GIRLFRIEND or whatever, has helped my crab relax. We just go with the flow. You have history with him, which is promising-..Ill be sending you two some good vibes!!!
hope all is good, let us know!
I hate when people want to talk about a possible relationship, or where this is going. Such a HUGE turnoff.
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wow. please dish/explain/expound/share. THANKS mr crabby.
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A relationship is a safety net for a woman. He can't cheat, he can't leave, he has obligations, etc... I'm not going to be with someone just because I'm filling an available slot in their life structure.
Crabbies are about feelings, not contracts.
Crabbie is not ALWAYS like that for a woman.
I let the person who is with me feel free to do as they wish and to CHOOSE to be with me because they want to, not because they are filling a slot.
In fact sometimes the guys are the ones who demand that...
you Crabs, with your jealousy issues are demanding cute things....!
I'm a cancer man, I had a long distance relationship one with 10 mi away and the other half around the world distance. If you want a cancerian man there are two things: one you must be in a state of danger so he can feel you, feel or be tested by you, but too much tests and less trust he will abandon you, if he passes few number of tests you can trust him. In my deeper long long distance, the woman must be persistence, possessive, and jealous so I will feel that it is worth chasing, to give full trust and loyalty and in return I will give my full life sacrificing emotional support and deep happiness in serving the woman.
I am a cancer woman and had a long distance relationship for four years🙂 I am not sure about the cancer man in particular but if he is really in love and trusts you, then it's possible. However, he also needs to see that this will be something temporary.
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How do you feel about them ? Would you ever ? Have you ever ? The reason Im asking is because Im in LOOOOOVVVVVVEEEE with a cancer man and I think he has feelings for me to but he wont pursue anything because of the Distance. ( He's 3hrs away at school ). What should I do ?
P.S He'll be home for his Birthday June 30th. Should I confess my feelings to him?