Do you believe in true love? (Page 2)

I have seen the error of my ways.

The initial question was "Do you believe in true love?".

Yes, now, I believe I do.

I love you two so much. My heart is telling me this and as I'm sure you both know, the heart doesn't lie. God I miss already, the times we could have together in the future. It's just so, so hard.

I would be with either of you in an instant. This is real love. My heart aches...and my arse is choking.

Hey try and see the funny side of life and yourselves, and maybe you will get over it?

Hope this helps.



Mr Bitter.

Then Mr. Bitter -
Why is your "arse" on here even responding or commenting on this. Apparently, you haven't been in true love before - poor you!
Bitter are we?

MR BITTER, BEFORE YOU HAVE THINGS TO SAY THAT YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW ABOUT, WHY DON'T YOU JUST RELAX.....IT'S UNFORTUNATE THAT YOU HAVE SO MUCH ANGER
WITHIN YOU. AND SECOND IT WAS NEVER MY EX, SO BEFORE YOU SAY ANYTHING, MAYBE YOU SHOULD KNOW THE FACTS FIRST.

haha,

Are you sure I am the biiter, angry one? Who is the one typing in caps?..

I'll leave you to it, you have no sense of humour....and no life obviously..

Hook...line...and

Sweety, let other people have their say and get on with it yourself. I think everyone is a little bitter sometimes and i think you just want a rise cos you're angry, naughty...

I love you

Awww, aren't you cute 🙂

honey you are wasting your time. look in your hometown. they are plenty of men out there unafraid to committ

Hey,
I am a female Virgo who dumped my Cancer boyfriend a couple years ago. We went out for 5 years. We have been through the same situation what you people posted. I loved him a lot and ever planned to marry him. However, I still decided to leave him. I haven't had a b/f after our break-up because I was hurt deeply as well. Virgos do have hearts and feelings. I tried very hard to figure out what happened between us.

Virgos instinctly know how to provide sence of security to Cancers. Cancers are able to see and appreciate Virgos' traits. Virgos appreciate that a lot and,in return, will do something extradinary special to their Cancer friends/lovers.I had a wonderful spiritual connection with my ex b/f. However, emotionally we were different. Cancers feels rejected by Virgos' aloofness. Virgos are annoyed by Cancers' changable emotions. As time goes by, the bond will be weaken although it seems so unbelievably wonderful and strong at the begining. The sad thing is that it usually takes years to happen.

After breaking up with my b/f, I have been observing the interaction between Virgo/Cancer couples around me. Strange to say, it is always Virgos who initiate the breaking-up. I guess they (we) love Cancers' warm heart and passion for life but can't stand their moodiness.
Cancers are VERY VERY good catch. After a couple of years' rest, I am ready to love again. Cancers are still my No. 1 choice. However, I pray to God grant me trmendous wisdom to handle the differences between these two signs (if he send me another Cancer man one day.)

Oh ! One more thing...Virgos have a tendency of avoiding commitment. They actually need long time to figure out their how they truly feel. They run away because those logical thinkers are scared by their emotions. That's why after several months later they phoned you and said they missed you. Quite weired, huh ?! (sigh) .... I am one of them though, still learning how to FEEL instead of think.

The last but not the least thing is do not make yourself too available for these logical thinkers. They need space and some chasing. They will take your availability for granted.

Thanks sooo much for that insight. I've had such a tumultuous relationship with my ex b/f but we still care soo deeply about each other. I am the cancer, he is the virgo. Emotionally, I need more stability and security, he is unable, I know that. When he is "real" and thinking with his "heart", then the connection is so spiritual - I can tune right into him, on such a deep, profound level. He feels it and misses it, I've been there with him. I hope we can rebuild a deep, solid friendship someday. I can be the best friend he never had and he knows it! Please respond - your posting was incredible!

I'm a new comer, I've been reading this whole chat and actually don't get into chats much, but find the banter interesting and compelling. I'm a female cancer and only have a couple of cents to contribute:
Virgo's- Bad
Cappy's- Bad, but not as bad as Virgo
Other Cancers- we're getting warmer
Taurus- Warmer!
Scorpio- okay, we all know that's hot!
Pisces- AWWWW Yeah!!! that's what we're lookin' for!!! Keep your eyes peeled Cancer peeps!

The virgo will never commit...they don't want to "miss out" on anything. If their ascendent (the sign they project to the world) is different, like Pisces or Scorpio, you have a better chance, otherwise, I'd fo'getaboutit..Stick with water and earth, air and fire can talk to the hand (unless you're only looking for hot sex, but let's face it, we're cancers).

And yup, sometimes I hate being a cancer too, but damn we're intuitive! listen to your intuition, not your heart or your mind.

For what it's worth fellow cancers- The best of luck to you all- gay, straight, male, female, etc..

if this is so stupid, why are u reading it annd answering it?

I ALWAYS TYPE IN CAPS......DON'T LOOK INTO THAT EITHER. GO BOTHER SOME OTHER PEOPLE, WHO WOULD LIKE TO CONVERSE W/YOU.

APPLAUSE ON YOU, IT WAS GREAT TO HEAR WHAT A VIRGO HAD TO SAY, I THOUGHT THAT WAS WONDERFUL, I WOULD LUV TO CHAT WITH YOU. IT'S HARD TO E-MAIL WHEN OTHERS ARE E-MAILING AS WELL. HOW CAN WE DO THIS? THANKS AGAIN.

THANKS O MUCH FOR REPLYING, I KNOW PIECES ARE THE MATCH, BUT MY HEART IS W/THE VIRGO.

I know exactly how you feel. My virgo and I have been together for a year. He works with a company that travels everywhere and makes a lot of money. He finally decided to move to my town so we could spend more time together. Two days after we got are place together, after all of my stuff was unpacked and his was in the uhaul being ready to be unpacked, he jacked the uhaul and drove half way across the country. He can't even give me a good explanation why he left me. Now he calls me and says he wants to get back together and how much he misses me but then he'll say in the same conversation how things could never work out. Virgo males are very fickle. They think they know what they want and then all of the sudden get scared and want something else. Hang in there fellow cancers. Always trust in fate. Go on with your life, no matter how hard it hurts, and he will come back. The best thing you can do is act like it doesn't bother you and he'll be dying to come back.

Hi 166.77.209.190


I don't know how to rebuild a virgo/cancer relationship. I can only tell you what I have been through and what's really on my mind. As I said, Virgos do have strong feelings. I just find that they are often out of touch of their own feelings. It takes a while for them (us) truly understand what they really want.
I am not trying to defense for my speciese. But it is hard to be Virgos. Your posts take me back to the past ...love, joy, fun, sadness and torture. It has been three years since we broke up. But I never stopped thinking of him every single day. Honestly, I didn't not know I would missed him so much. I am pretty happy to offer help to answer your questions about what Virgos really think. It might not be able to represent all Virgos' voices. However, I have searched inside myself for years. I hope to contribute my experience to those who are going through the same thing as I did before. I just wish you, no matter Virgos or Cancers, have much less pain than we did before.

Esther_Virgo_2002@hotmail.com

hi esther, thats so much for ur advice.
i am the cancer girl who began this whole mssg. i will e-mail at ur e-mail. my name is alyse. when you recv my e-mail, the subject will be "do you believe in true love". ok

oh my goodness!!!! i feel for you, i do.
that is terrible. sound so much of what my virgo has also been doing. the onlt difference is that i never got to "the raleationship part, eveb though it feels like i was. i was in a strange situation, four years of this
"holding on" i still do though, because after all this time, he always calls again. then say he will again. the scary part is when you don't know when that will be. astrologocially they say things should turn around for us cancers now, and they will remain w/us for a long time. i hope so. i would luv to talk to you further. can we? i just can't believe what happened to you! whats going through your mind,
will you ever take him back?

hi 166 77 209 191, it's me the girl who started this e-mail. how are you. sometimes this gets hard as so many different people are responding, very nice ones i might add. how are things?

confused!

aren't you the forty year old that i began speaking with?

it is the forty year old.

I JUST WANTED TO SAY HI AGAIN. HOPE ALL IS WELL.