feeling like a fool

After a while with my crab, he's opened up and being telling me about his family. Last Wednesday night he shows up at my house, without a call (this is unusual for him). And we had a lovely evening watching t.v.
He asked me out for a meal and to meet his 2 sisters on Saturday night, and says he'll ring and tell me what time.
Come Saturday I sit waiting for a call and nothing, so I text - no reply ! I ring an hour later and his phone is turned off. Not impressed I deleted his number.
He's just messaged me now saying sorry I over did it on Friday night and hopes I'm ok. Seriously it's frigging Monday evening!

Vent, fume, kicks furnature !

What is it with these narcissist bastard crabs !!

I see your not into games. Haha. Good job..

@OP-Over did it what does he mean? He got super drunk and forgot about you. And never bothered to ask again for a different day. Smh.

Lol I remember you. The one got stood up by the cancer guy.
This is exactly what's going to happen, people will disrespect you only if you let them.
I suspect there's also an ex in the picture, that's why he showed up without a phone call, he can only see you whenever he finds free time.
And also bolt on you when he's "unavailable" (aka hanging out with ex)
Or it could be any girl..
Do you want to be in this loop hole forever or you want to cut loose and save yourself from emotional drain?

2 of them in about 4 months - what is it with these idiots !

I was out Saturday night after he hadn't turned up, got majorly tanked up and still able to message people while in my bed lol. I don't think me and crabs suit each other.

Fool tried texting me again to ask how I am - delete ! Haha

U needed to be more firm with him from the get go.

Must set these ground rules for cancer people.

1. Dont think of me as a fool
2. show when you fix a date.
3. dont hide stuff from me.
4. Be on time.

I wont take any of those mistakes lightly.

^ there 🙂

Yup they'll walk all over you if you let em...

Well he carried on with random texts. One even said he'd come round during the week. I didn't wait in hahaha. Anyway I've realised this guy is all fluff and nonsense. The only things he used to talk about were the bad past he had - like 20 years ago, or things that he'd want to happen in 5 years.
It's all regret or fantasy with him.
I've made a point of ignoring his texts, but they keep coming every couple of days.
I'm going to have to text back soon and be a bit harsh.

Good girl. Dont respond

Haha, sounds my ex friend cancer with me! Guys, are we talking here about, the same cancer coward? Or all cancers complete shit ?!))
Keep not only ignoring him for him to notice but make it REAL. Move on until he kneels miles for you.

Hahaha. I wouldn't want him near me now. If he texts again, I'll just keep ignoring his side stepping but.
I couldn't be doing with the emotional push pull of these guys. I'm too old for their childish behaviour.