Hi cancer folks

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by aquapiscescusp on Monday, November 9, 2015 and has 15 replies.

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Ok, this is to understand my cancer cousin who can't seem to make her mind up about guys. She is lucky in the sense that she has many suitors but she can't seem to make her mind up about any if them.

She in in love with a cancer fellow who seems to be giving her a hard time. They can't get past the friends only point even if they both flirt about wanting more.

There's another guy, a Taurus, he's all over her...treats her right but when they get too close, she bolts.

I find her to be very cold..., but deep deep down I know she isn't. What a confusing person... Any insights

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Posted by BlackMamba
She's not into the Taurus.

She's into the crab.

next.

She really loves the cancer guy... But he messed up early on in their :: friendship :: he confided having to pick between her and another girl, ya, and she was insulted by that, obvs, basically telling him she made the choice for him -- by eliminating herself from the choices!!! Haha which is a good move.

He came back months later apologizing for it saying it was immature, nanana and if he could he would want another chance. She's not sure anymore, she doesn't want to get hurt.

The Taurus guy is a total romantic... She's broken up with him but he keeps insisting they belong together... I feel she's going with it to forget the other.

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Posted by Pisces15
Posted by aquapiscescusp
Ok, this is to understand my cancer cousin who can't seem to make her mind up about guys. She is lucky in the sense that she has many suitors but she can't seem to make her mind up about any if them.

She in in love with a cancer fellow who seems to be giving her a hard time. They can't get past the friends only point even if they both flirt about wanting more.

There's another guy, a Taurus, he's all over her...treats her right but when they get too close, she bolts.

I find her to be very cold..., but deep deep down I know she isn't. What a confusing person... Any insights

Intriguing to hear about her 'bolting' when she gets too close because Cancer guy I was seeing has done exactly that to me! We had an intimate moment, but he has bolted! Not quite sure what it means though.....

Sounds like she's got options but isn't sure!..

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I don't know... But she bolts a lot...and is pretty firm about it, no feelings attached, we disagree on how she should end things

She can't make up her mind it seems

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There's another side to the story. Her Scorpio gf is after the cancer guy, they were at a party recently and she was sitting on cancer guy's lap... He didn't mind which made her in turn pull something similar... The games !!!

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Posted by aquapiscescusp
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Posted by aquapiscescusp
Also any thoughts on cancer and cancer?

When its good, its really really good.
When its bad.....well, placements and maturity matter.

Does it take long to trust each other?

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It takes a little while.
Crabs can have their antennae go up at any apparent inconsistency.

It takes a bit to come to terms sometimes and realizing "x really is x, and not y".
Like any relationship, communication is key, although it pays to sometimes have a deaf ear if something goes into nagging territory.

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Posted by BlackMamba
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Posted by BlackMamba
She's not into the Taurus.

She's into the crab.

next.

She really loves the cancer guy... But he messed up early on in their :: friendship :: he confided having to pick between her and another girl, ya, and she was insulted by that, obvs, basically telling him she made the choice for him -- by eliminating herself from the choices!!! Haha which is a good move.

He came back months later apologizing for it saying it was immature, nanana and if he could he would want another chance. She's not sure anymore, she doesn't want to get hurt.

The Taurus guy is a total romantic... She's broken up with him but he keeps insisting they belong together... I feel she's going with it to forget the other.

she's not into him. period.

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Ok possibly... she's going to break his heart yet again