Help with cancer man

We went out on a couple of dates and had undeniable chemistry. Cancer man has been pursuing me for 6 months and we went out on another date and he broke up with me for unknown reasons. He said his mind will never change and to please respect his decision. Will he ever change his mind if he really liked/loved me and will he appreciate if I sent him a love letter or will that turn him off even more.

Posted by Piscesgirl1

We went out on a couple of dates and had undeniable chemistry. Cancer man has been pursuing me for 6 months and we went out on another date and he broke up with me for unknown reasons. He said his mind will never change and to please respect his decision. Will he ever change his mind if he really liked/loved me and will he appreciate if I sent him a love letter or will that turn him off even more.

My ex of 2.5 years is a Cancer but I ended that one and I can probably get him to take me back if I tell him that's what I want so it's different.

I went on 2 dates with a Cancer about a year before him but that one didn't want me. I tried to put myself out there and failed. I felt like an idiot afterwards. My Leo pride and ego took a big tumble on that one.

To be honest, if he said respect his decision and he made up his mind, you should. You can't corner a crab without getting pinched so chasing him will likely hurt and fail. Sorry I can't give you the answer you would have hoped for but that's just my honest opinion. There will be someone else at the next corner who will love you better.

Posted by Piscesgirl1

We went out on a couple of dates and had undeniable chemistry. Cancer man has been pursuing me for 6 months and we went out on another date and he broke up with me for unknown reasons. He said his mind will never change and to please respect his decision. Will he ever change his mind if he really liked/loved me and will he appreciate if I sent him a love letter or will that turn him off even more.

He gave you the answer already! Is this not obvious to you? You have to believe someone who says it cold headed, that this is exactly what he meant. It’s not like you two were invested lovers who had a quarrel, got their feelings hurt and now need space before the make up sex.

You two just went on two dates! You seem young, and will probably go on many more dates before meeting the one for you. Appreciate if someone like this crab is so direct with you and doesn’t waste your time or tries to get into your pants before ghosting you.

Also, people say men prefer respect to love! So don’t try to feed him love letters, if by doing so you’ll disrespect his wish, as he explicitly said it to you!

Move your attention onto someone else, who would be grateful to receive it.

I am a Cancer lady but I've done this. If I go as far as to tell someone that my mind will never change, it's because I don't want them trying to manipulate me back into something that's never gonna happen. So a love letter at this point would obviously annoy the shit out of me.

It was a kindness, people are rarely so kind as to let you go so clearly. Please listen to him.