He's Cancer i'm Aquarius,,, i want this to work

A stranger I met in a hotel, a gentleman to be honest, we talked and had sex he treated me like a princess always calling me my lady.
After a while I told him I want more than just sex and he left me. Now he appears suddenly in my life, I don’t know why and I don’t know how to act. Shall I ignore him or tell him I missed him and I want him??
Advice.

So were you seeing him for longer than just one night in the hotel, you said "after a while" so it threw me a little as to wether this continued after the obvious 1 night stand ?
If he has just appeared after a one night stand with you, he probably wants more of the same, so just don't give it up and talk to him honestly, then you'll know where you stand, are you sure he isn't married?

Posted by piscespoppy
So were you seeing him for longer than just one night in the hotel, you said "after a while" so it threw me a little as to wether this continued after the obvious 1 night stand ?
If he has just appeared after a one night stand with you, he probably wants more of the same, so just don't give it up and talk to him honestly, then you'll know where you stand, are you sure he isn't married?

it was a one night stand. I meant by after a while, talking on the phone and chatting. I told him I'm looking for a long lasting relationship not just sex, and so he said ok take care and disappeared. I had my doubts that he's married, but when I asked he said no.

Posted by PrincessLouise
Be honest but sensible.

I was, I told him I don't want sex I want a relationship. Was I wrong ?

Posted by zaz29
A stranger I met in a hotel, a gentleman to be honest, we talked and had sex he treated me like a princess always calling me my lady.
After a while I told him I want more than just sex and he left me. Now he appears suddenly in my life, I don’t know why and I don’t know how to act. Shall I ignore him or tell him I missed him and I want him??
Advice.

Are you an escort or something?

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Posted by zaz29
A stranger I met in a hotel, a gentleman to be honest, we talked and had sex he treated me like a princess always calling me my lady.
After a while I told him I want more than just sex and he left me. Now he appears suddenly in my life, I don’t know why and I don’t know how to act. Shall I ignore him or tell him I missed him and I want him??
Advice.

Are you an escort or something?

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NO, why would you say that :s

Posted by Arieslovesaqua
Most likely not going to date you because they want a "good girl"...but prob keep having sex with you and treat you decently as long as you don't try to make it something it's not.

any suggestion ? shall I ignore him and leave him? I don't want just sex, I have had enough.

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Posted by zaz29
A stranger I met in a hotel, a gentleman to be honest, we talked and had sex he treated me like a princess always calling me my lady.
After a while I told him I want more than just sex and he left me. Now he appears suddenly in my life, I don’t know why and I don’t know how to act. Shall I ignore him or tell him I missed him and I want him??
Advice.

Are you an escort or something?

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I said the same shit. I started singing pretty woman after the first few lines. 😆

Posted by aquanib

Posted by zaz29
NO, why would you say that :s

In the bars of some mid-to high level hotels catering to the business traveler, there is usually a single lady at the bar, very well dressed, very pretty, drinking exquisite drinks and throwing eyeballs around the bar for single travelers in search for a travel adventure. Which is paid ofcourse.

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Thanks for the explanation ☺ï¸ I'm not though
I happen to be there for a business gathering and i saw him and we clicked ,, i like how intelligent and sophisticated he was. Such a gentleman an i just liked him so we had sex and continue chatting on the phone.

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Posted by zaz29
NO, why would you say that :s

In the bars of some mid-to high level hotels catering to the business traveler, there is usually a single lady at the bar, very well dressed, very pretty, drinking exquisite drinks and throwing eyeballs around the bar for single travelers in search for a travel adventure. Which is paid ofcourse.

Thanks for the explanation ☺ï¸ I'm not though
I happen to be there for a business gathering and i saw him and we clicked ,, i like how intelligent and sophisticated he was. Such a gentleman an i just liked him so we had sex and continue chatting on the phone.

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It's like the same thing basically.

Posted by PrincessLouise
GO for it!

Normally I would say that but this got me tripping.

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Posted by Arieslovesaqua
Most likely not going to date you because they want a "good girl"...but prob keep having sex with you and treat you decently as long as you don't try to make it something it's not.

any suggestion ? shall I ignore him and leave him? I don't want just sex, I have had enough.

He made his intentions pretty clear didn't he? What is confusing you? Because he came back

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Well yes,, this is the confusion part. I mean i want a relationship and he doesn't.. Did he change his mind? I don't want to sound clinky and desperate to have him.

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Posted by zaz29
NO, why would you say that :s

In the bars of some mid-to high level hotels catering to the business traveler, there is usually a single lady at the bar, very well dressed, very pretty, drinking exquisite drinks and throwing eyeballs around the bar for single travelers in search for a travel adventure. Which is paid ofcourse.

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Wow, you learn something new everyday, how do you know that..lol! (sorry being cheeky)

Did he ever tell you he wants a relationship?? Dont fool yourself.. It was just sex and he came for more..

Well if he contacted u again e might be coming around, he might consider it, you donno! Cancers are sweet they love family life! Lemme draw your synastries

Oh, I see your confusion now, he made clear he didn't want to continue seeing you, but you made it clear to him you did...so he disappeared..you move on..bang hes contacting you again..yes.
You say you don't want to sound clingy and desperate to have him, but by telling him you want more, your making it easy for him to use you, because it makes you vulnerable emotionally and very easy to use and disregard whenever he feels like it, hence the disappear and show up again.
"I'm feeling randy, who likes me enough to give me a good time". Hes a user and your worth more than that hun x

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Posted by Arieslovesaqua
Most likely not going to date you because they want a "good girl"...but prob keep having sex with you and treat you decently as long as you don't try to make it something it's not.

any suggestion ? shall I ignore him and leave him? I don't want just sex, I have had enough.

He made his intentions pretty clear didn't he? What is confusing you? Because he came back

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Well yes,, this is the confusion part. I mean i want a relationship and he doesn't.. Did he change his mind? I don't want to sound clinky and desperate to have him.

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Can I ask a question? How do you know you want a relationship with this man based on one sexual encounter? Does it feel safer and more secure if he makes a commitment? Maybe you'll actually end up only wanting a sexual relationship.

Not trying to persuade you either way but encourage you to look at your motivations for wanting a relationship with someone you barely


Well it just feels like he's the one,, he care and loves his family it shows whenever he talks about them,, that's why i told him i want more.

Posted by bricklemark
Well if he contacted u again e might be coming around, he might consider it, you donno! Cancers are sweet they love family life! Lemme draw your synastries

I know, he talks about his family with love, that's one of the reasons i wanted more than sex with him
I sure hope he want that as well

Posted by piscespoppy
Oh, I see your confusion now, he made clear he didn't want to continue seeing you, but you made it clear to him you did...so he disappeared..you move on..bang hes contacting you again..yes.
You say you don't want to sound clingy and desperate to have him, but by telling him you want more, your making it easy for him to use you, because it makes you vulnerable emotionally and very easy to use and disregard whenever he feels like it, hence the disappear and show up again.
"I'm feeling randy, who likes me enough to give me a good time". Hes a user and your worth more than that hun x

Thanks dear, i felt that actually that's why I don't know how to act or what to say if he speaks to me, so far he just like a picture i post on instagram i think just to show me that he's watching me or something.

If you truly want to try to get to know him better then do that, with no sex attached, but don't keep telling him you want more, just enjoy getting to know each other and if he does disappear again you'll have your answer, I hope he doesn't and I'm wrong take care x

Posted by piscespoppy
If you truly want to try to get to know him better then do that, with no sex attached, but don't keep telling him you want more, just enjoy getting to know each other and if he does disappear again you'll have your answer, I hope he doesn't and I'm wrong take care x

That's actually the best advice, thanks i will do that ☺ï¸

He liked a picture of yours on instagram ? Well he must have had a reason I suppose, I wouldn't read to much into it though, you did sleep with him and continue contact for a short while, so its not like you are total strangers, he was probably just acknowledging you to see what your reaction would be, keep an eye on him I would suggest, but don't overthink things x don't chase him ‰ and pls don't throw yourself at him, aloof is the best lol! Take care x

Posted by piscespoppy
He liked a picture of yours on instagram ? Well he must have had a reason I suppose, I wouldn't read to much into it though, you did sleep with him and continue contact for a short while, so its not like you are total strangers, he was probably just acknowledging you to see what your reaction would be, keep an eye on him I would suggest, but don't overthink things x don't chase him ‰ and pls don't throw yourself at him, aloof is the best lol! Take care x

I don't want him to feel like I'm chasing him, he like a picture right after he post a few on his page. I think he wants me to check his profile or something. I don't want to throw myself at the same time I don't want him to feel I'm ignoring and not interested cuz i am 🙄

Like I said aloof but stay friendly and in control of your feelings, your an Aquarius, like his pics if he likes yours and just see if it leads to him making further contact and take it from there if he does ok x

Posted by piscespoppy
Like I said aloof but stay friendly and in control of your feelings, your an Aquarius, like his pics if he likes yours and just see if it leads to him making further contact and take it from there if he does ok x

I did and i will. Thnx xoxo

I don't know about instagram, perhaps you could reply to his like with a friendly explanation of the picture, just to break the ice if hes been ignoring and just see if replies ? Š

Dont you know about world outside?

I've heard many stories where men and women meet in some social setting and something "clicks" and then they go to hotel or somewhere - do things and do not see each other again - unless maybe the guy will call you and again meet you in a hotel room. If he cant get enough of you he will meet you more frequently.

One who wants relationship will not do this with you - the moment you both meet. Sorry you had this experience ):

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What's up with all these topics about cancer men actually just being straight forward and the women are still asking questions —? How weird is this?

Because they believe that:

"I told him if he has sex with me he will fall in love." -tauxpie (or whatever that poster's name is)

This is the mentality. I want it, so he must want it to because we penetrated. Plus they believe they are all worthy of a man chasing them.

No, sex is sex. Relationships are relationships.

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But let's face it that now not even exclusive relationships amount to much, hence the staggering number of cheating men/women. Doesn't matter whether you're a one night stand or in a relationship, if a guy is gonna treat you like a sex toy, that's exactly what he's going to do. There's no rules on attraction.

It just occurred to me that the present world is highly sexualized and people are just thirsty to get laid, irrespective of their motivation. "Let's have sex and we'll coordinate all the meaningful things afterwards."

Posted by piscespoppy
I don't know about instagram, perhaps you could reply to his like with a friendly explanation of the picture, just to break the ice if hes been ignoring and just see if replies ? Š

I did conment on a picture and there is no reply, he read it and ignore 😢 ,, i had my answer he just want more

Posted by RumiL
Dont you know about world outside?

I've heard many stories where men and women meet in some social setting and something "clicks" and then they go to hotel or somewhere - do things and do not see each other again - unless maybe the guy will call you and again meet you in a hotel room. If he cant get enough of you he will meet you more frequently.

One who wants relationship will not do this with you - the moment you both meet. Sorry you had this experience ):

Actually we talked a bit and we share interests before going to bed we discussed a book that we both read "50 shades of grey" and then he invited me to sex and i went 😐
I hate that he disappeared and now he appeared like nothing happens

This trolling is getting tedious.

Unlike other pussys he stuck his dick into, yours was so magical that he fell into deep deep love with you.

Scared of his intense feeling for you he disapeared in order to reevaluate everything. Now he has returned to stick by your side forever and ever...so open your legs up.

Posted by LadyNeptune
Unlike other pussys he stuck his dick into, yours was so magical that he fell into deep deep love with you.

Scared of his intense feeling for you he disapeared in order to reevaluate everything. Now he has returned to stick by your side forever and ever...so open your legs up.

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