@puhleeze
13 Years500+ Posts
Honest Advice from Cancers
The girl he was seeing was driving over an hour to come see him, not the other way around, she may have just been a distraction for him, "a filler," who knows. It did take a lot of courage for him to tell you the truth I don't know if he would've told you that if he wasn't somewhat sincere in his intentions with you. Puhleeze said it, "its natural to feel this way" given the circumstance but It wouldn't be a bad idea to give him the benefit of a doubt and give this a shot first. If something seems legitimately shady, like not just a feeling but actual things not adding up, call him out on it. Remember cancer men need their space too, Maybe he needs the weekend to recharge.
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it's normal to feel this way. you feel insecure because he was not 100% committed while you were dating.
both intuition and insecurity (with a reason). the other girl was a reality not just a suspicion so it is natural to feel insecure and maybe he gives you reason to believe that. go with your gut feeling.