How do you end it with an Aquarius?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Unregistered on Wednesday, February 13, 2002 and has 3 replies.

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@Unregistered
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Hi everyone. I've been married to a water-bearer for almost 15 years now and have been very unhappy for the last 7 years. Being a Cancer, I don't know how to tell him that I just don't love him the way a wife should. I love him as a friend, and the fact that we have so much history. But I have changed (evolved) and his stress-level and Jekel-Hyde personality is sucking the life out of me. The marriage is convenient and comfortable for both of us but that's it. Any suggestions on how to just finally start down the road to get this over with? I know we would BOTH be happier...he just never likes to lose anything unless it's his own choice. Please help!

M

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@Unregistered
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Act like a Blunt Sagittarius. Tell him how you feel. Be completely honest. Overwhelm him if necessary. Use whatever form of communication and action you can to convince him that you and him are through.

Air signs love a challenge, so if you convince him that you and him are completely through, he should be able to eventually bow out gracefully. Yes I did say eventually...it's going to take convincing.

I am sorry to hear that things didn't work out. Best of luck to you. I know it's tough, but it definitely sounds like you can do better than this.

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@Star
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Hi!
I am an Aquarius woman.
I agree. Just be blunt, as am I! I have left men for the reason you are expressing...and no, they did not see my point at the time...did they appreciate it later? Most did...there are just 2 hangers on...
Star