How to treat cancer guy...

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Nataliaaa on Thursday, September 29, 2016 and has 5 replies.

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@Nataliaaa
11 Years

I met this cancer sun, moon in scorpio guy.

He's freaking me out. He seems very attached to me. And when I don't give him enough attention - according to him- or hurt his feelings slightly by no answering his messages at the very instant he sends one to me, he retreats and ignores me. But he tells me nothing about being mad. I distract myself easily so is hard just to cope with this cancer dude and his emotional type. I like him lot, and I am emotional too but this is freaking me out.

How do I treat him? How do I make him feel he can trust me without preaching the idea?

Help! I hadn't dated a cancer guy before...

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@Kellyz123
10 Years

Girl, consider yourself lucky. Crabs crave attention 24/7 and especially the men. Consider yourself lucky that he is showing this in your direction.. as long as you want it.. let him play for a little.. there's nothing more satisfying for a cancer male than the chase.. let him think he hasn't won you yet, which it sounds like you are already doing. Really wanna have him unleash? Ignore him for a few hours.. hehe

Love

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@Kodak
10 Years500+ Posts

Posted by Kellyz123
Girl, consider yourself lucky. Crabs crave attention 24/7 and especially the men. Consider yourself lucky that he is showing this in your direction.. as long as you want it.. let him play for a little.. there's nothing more satisfying for a cancer male than the chase.. let him think he hasn't won you yet, which it sounds like you are already doing. Really wanna have him unleash? Ignore him for a few hours.. hehe

Love

lol good luck long term with this strategy.

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@Nataliaaa
11 Years

Posted by Kellyz123
Girl, consider yourself lucky. Crabs crave attention 24/7 and especially the men. Consider yourself lucky that he is showing this in your direction.. as long as you want it.. let him play for a little.. there's nothing more satisfying for a cancer male than the chase.. let him think he hasn't won you yet, which it sounds like you are already doing. Really wanna have him unleash? Ignore him for a few hours.. hehe

Love

Great advice! thanks.

Cancer men are the sweetest.

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@AnOdeToNoOne
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Kodak

Posted by Kellyz123
Girl, consider yourself lucky. Crabs crave attention 24/7 and especially the men. Consider yourself lucky that he is showing this in your direction.. as long as you want it.. let him play for a little.. there's nothing more satisfying for a cancer male than the chase.. let him think he hasn't won you yet, which it sounds like you are already doing. Really wanna have him unleash? Ignore him for a few hours.. hehe

Love

lol good luck long term with this strategy.

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