@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius
I have to admit
What Does It Mean When Someone Doesn't Call Back
When someone doesn't call back for several weeks, it may indicate disinterest or personal issues rather than a reflection of your worth. It is important to focus on self-care and avoid overanalyzing their reasons. Understanding astrology can also provide insight into their behavior based on their zodiac traits.
Ooooh. Maybe there was more to that awkward moment than he let on.
I'm sorry.
Call him, I bet he comes running like a kid.
😢
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Ooooh. Maybe there was more to that awkward moment than he let on.
I'm sorry.
Like what? Do you think he feels overwhelmed? That's the feeling I'm getting...sometimes some Sags can be a bit too much.
I thought the sex was bad?
Posted by LunarMaiden
Call him, I bet he comes running like a kid.Stop stirring up trouble.
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Nope, too busy giggling at Crab males bite off their own claw. Tee hee
Posted by LunarMaiden
Call him, I bet he comes running like a kid.You know Cancers if we aint feeling it we aint feeling it. stop giving bad advice dude.
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Go fuck yourself.
If she's that pressed to find out what's on his mind she can call him to find out.
Posted by Astrobyn
I thought the sex was bad?Probably bad cause he wasn't feeling her, look if our emotions aren't engaged, we can be very selfish.
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It was bad because they didn't know each other.
Only met a few times, Sag is down for sex whenever with whomever.
Crab males need a connection.
Me thinks he was in it for the sex and if she calls him and he feels inclined to want another romp, he may contact her.
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Ooooh. Maybe there was more to that awkward moment than he let on.
I'm sorry.Like what? Do you think he feels overwhelmed? That's the feeling I'm getting...sometimes some Sags can be a bit too much.
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Yeah. I'd have to go back and read the other threads, because there's something I think I'm missing.
Posted by Astrobyn
I thought the sex was bad?Probably bad cause he wasn't feeling her, look if our emotions aren't engaged, we can be very selfish.
It was bad because they didn't know each other.
Only met a few times, Sag is down for sex whenever with whomever.
Crab males need a connection.
Me thinks he was in it for the sex and if she calls him and he feels inclined to want another romp, he may contact her.if u judge "sas" By dmv...yeh they re "for sex" with "whomever" N whenever. Thats capricorn behviour not sag. sag has sex when in Love
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I meant DMV not the entire Sag population.
Couldn't remember what order the letters came in so I just posted her astro sign.
Not judging just going from what I remember was posted.
Best advice........ bungie jumping yup....instant orgasm! try it as for the cancer guy. if u want a fuck buddy fine but if u really into him say so and do so or else best keep steppin!
So I did text him and he said that he didnt reach out to me because I never reached out to him. So he just went about his business and cut me out. I didnt respond to the text because I didnt feel like playing the blame game with him. He sent some more texts but I didnt bother even reading them. Running back like a kid is a bit right.
he wasnt that eager to talk to me until I made the first move.....again. he never reassures me, so I just told myself to take myself out of my own misery.
I definitely feel like what Tiz wrote in another blog is so true. How things start is how they will continue.
Posted by ReddmannScorch
Best advice........ bungie jumping yup....instant orgasm! try it as for the cancer guy. if u want a fuck buddy fine but if u really into him say so and do so or else best keep steppin!
ive said plenty of times that I liked him and wanted to get to know him better. Feel like a broken record. I mean how is one supposed to get to know him if he never comes out of his shell and hangs out with me?
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Ooooh. Maybe there was more to that awkward moment than he let on.
I'm sorry.
I really feel likes hes full of it and back pedals like its his business. Why must I be the only one laying cards on the table?
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Ooooh. Maybe there was more to that awkward moment than he let on.
I'm sorry.Like what? Do you think he feels overwhelmed? That's the feeling I'm getting...sometimes some Sags can be a bit too much.
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yeah I could see how I went full throttle but there is no middle of the road with me. Im either interested and go ham or I dont move an inch.
Posted by Astrobyn
I thought the sex was bad?
oh, it was.
Posted by DMV
So I did text him and he said that he didnt reach out to me because I never reached out to him. So he just went about his business and cut me out. I didnt respond to the text because I didnt feel like playing the blame game with him. He sent some more texts but I didnt bother even reading them. Running back like a kid is a bit right.he wasnt that eager to talk to me until I made the first move.....again. he never reassures me, so I just told myself to take myself out of my own misery.
I definitely feel like what Tiz wrote in another blog is so true. How things start is how they will continue.
I was really put off by his text. Made me feel some kinda way. I did think to myself, as a fellow scorp moon who liked someone how would I react if I were him. Probably be a smart ass 2 and just blow the other person off.
Posted by LunarMaiden
Call him, I bet he comes running like a kid.
this post gave me some guts because I kinda had a feeling he was going to be standoffish and diss me but I wanted to prove myself wrong.
I hesitated for a few hours but said fuck it..
Posted by LunarMaiden
Call him, I bet he comes running like a kid.this post gave me some guts because I kinda had a feeling he was going to be standoffish and diss me but I wanted to prove myself wrong.
I hesitated for a few hours but said fuck it..
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And this is why Saggy women are high on the list as Crab male partners.
Someone has to make the move and it's going to be the assertive girl to get the Crab male.
Sounds like you both were hesitant and insecure after that bad sex debacle.
Are you up for taking it slow and actually getting to know him as a person?
Naw I feel like a dummy and always behind the 8 ball with him. Im just kinda over winning over men. Wheres my white knight dammit lol.
thanks guys and gals, its can be hard 4 me to put men to pasture. The optimist in me believes that there will always be hope. I eventually get the point after a while.
Posted by aurora
if the sex was bad for you, it was bad for him too. if you don't know each other really good, and i think it really doesn't matter what sign the man is, he will put a blame only to himself. for men, i think, satisfying a woman is a serious business. and they tend to put a lot of pressure on themselves. on the other hand, females usually behave that it's not their responsibility at all. and you have all those women who just lay down and do nothing.
so, in these cases if a woman wants to continue to see him, she has to be the first to initiate contact, or to try her best not to show him that she is bothered with what happened at all, immediately after sex. i assume you didn't say anything to him, but he probably felt how you feel about the whole situation.
i don't think that you are at lost, cause i've only saw that good sex can turn into an awesome sex, but bad into good, never. you are just not good for each other in that department.
yeah your right, he probably felt my "ugh". I did blame him for it. Our sexual astrological planets dont even indicate good sex.
so crabs are not optimistic people?
Posted by xMoonMan
My experiences with Archer girls have never worked out easily.
I have always felt a little tension around you girls. (Unless I've known you for years and spent lots of time with you)It's not really a bad type of tension, more of an awkwardness, like we can't find the same 'wavelength to ride'
Easy to miscommunicate.I really like Sagittarian women and It's easy to be attracted to you, with your optimistic and worldy spirit, your willingness to explore.
But like I've said, I haven't been able to sync with one of you on a romantic level, even though there has often been a strong attraction.That's just my experiences.
My Jupiter is in Gemini ( Sagittarius's opposite sign)
Wonder if this is the area of miscommunication/tension for me.
you nailed it. This is exactly what I wrote in my other thread about feeling out of sync and an awkwardness. His venus is in gemini.
miscommunication, all day every day.
Thanks for the honest cancer male viewpoint on sag women.
Posted by xMoonMan
My experiences with Archer girls have never worked out easily.
I have always felt a little tension around you girls. (Unless I've known you for years and spent lots of time with you)It's not really a bad type of tension, more of an awkwardness, like we can't find the same 'wavelength to ride'
Easy to miscommunicate.I really like Sagittarian women and It's easy to be attracted to you, with your optimistic and worldy spirit, your willingness to explore.
+1 for similar experiences.
Posted by aquavita
Cancer with Venus in gemini. yum.
Put away the drawn butter, Archer! 😛
Interesting. Definitely gained some clarity.
So why do Cancers backpedal?
DMV......... sorry...
Posted by aquavita
Dmv is not a typical sag woma xMOONmAN. SORRY BUT WITH ALL DESCRIBED.... she goes from supercofident to begging for advice here. oh well u fixed her "ego". good for you. It is sad though as she thought she had the guy "on her finger". sag women usually do when they aim ! no not an archer this one...
Doesn't DMV have a water moon?
Wouldn't that make her more apt to second guess herself?
Posted by aquavita
Cancer with venus in cancer even so more. yum yum. What is cancer with venus in sagtrsus? lunar Iiaden? The wild one :My Venus is in Leo.
My ascent and moon is in Sagittarius and there is another Sag placement somewhere.
Posted by aurora
if the sex was bad for you, it was bad for him too. if you don't know each other really good, and i think it really doesn't matter what sign the man is, he will put a blame only to himself. for men, i think, satisfying a woman is a serious business. and they tend to put a lot of pressure on themselves. on the other hand, females usually behave that it's not their responsibility at all. and you have all those women who just lay down and do nothing.
so, in these cases if a woman wants to continue to see him, she has to be the first to initiate contact, or to try her best not to show him that she is bothered with what happened at all, immediately after sex. i assume you didn't say anything to him, but he probably felt how you feel about the whole situation.
i don't think that you are at lost, cause i've only saw that good sex can turn into an awesome sex, but bad into good, never. you are just not good for each other in that department.
+1
Agreed.
But to add I think people put too much emphasis on orgasms and less on just having fun and with sex I think there should be balance with the less worrying about an orgasm. I mean I course we all want to get our partners off, that is what is satisfying about it. But sometimes it's just about having fun and exploring each others body 🙂.
Don't sweat it too much DMV... if he's not calling it's not just the sex there has to be something more.
Posted by DMV
So why do Cancers backpedal?wow what a dumb woman....
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Bwaahaha such as Sag
@DMV based off what I read on here & from others, he probably was just using you. Him not calling or contacting you for three weeks, is not normal. His actions should definitely tell you what you mean to him. Plus if he missed you like a typical Crab would, he would have been called. Don't waste your time on someone who can't even bother to make time for you ok. Plus having sex with him so early, wasn't a good idea. Don't do that again if you wanna be respected
Posted by 2BlackIndian3
@DMV based off what I read on here & from others, he probably was just using you. Him not calling or contacting you for three weeks, is not normal. His actions should definitely tell you what you mean to him. Plus if he missed you like a typical Crab would, he would have been called. Don't waste your time on someone who can't even bother to make time for you ok. Plus having sex with him so early, wasn't a good idea. Don't do that again if you wanna be respected
say what? naw, your not going to make me feel bad for having sex with him. Nor would i think that i in any way disrespected myself by having sex with him. fuck that shit. im so over the judgemental nature of people. seriously. like where the hell do you come off telling me that i didnt respect myself? you dont know me.
Posted by aurora
if the sex was bad for you, it was bad for him too. if you don't know each other really good, and i think it really doesn't matter what sign the man is, he will put a blame only to himself. for men, i think, satisfying a woman is a serious business. and they tend to put a lot of pressure on themselves. on the other hand, females usually behave that it's not their responsibility at all. and you have all those women who just lay down and do nothing.
so, in these cases if a woman wants to continue to see him, she has to be the first to initiate contact, or to try her best not to show him that she is bothered with what happened at all, immediately after sex. i assume you didn't say anything to him, but he probably felt how you feel about the whole situation.
i don't think that you are at lost, cause i've only saw that good sex can turn into an awesome sex, but bad into good, never. you are just not good for each other in that department.+1
Agreed.But to add I think people put too much emphasis on orgasms and less on just having fun and with sex I think there should be balance with the less worrying about an orgasm. I mean I course we all want to get our partners off, that is what is satisfying about it. But sometimes it's just about having fun and exploring each others body 🙂.
Don't sweat it too much DMV... if he's not calling it's not just the sex there has to be something more.
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your right 🙂 outside of the sex, i thought we were fine. during sex was a whole other story. i didnt get the opportunity to for search and exploration.
your also right in thats theres more at work than bad sex.
i dont think theres anything wrong with how i went about things with him. i came correct. our style s just didnt match up.
No @DMV I never said you was wrong or didn't respect yourself. Im sorry if uou thought that way of what I said or that I was being rude. Honestly, I wasn't. I said maybe you shouldn't have had sex with him so early especially if you aren't to sure of his motives. I never meant to disrespect you or for you to take my post the wrong way. I promise, I was only trying to help . Sorry :/
Plus DMV, I never wanted you to feel bad about how you handled this situation. Its not your fault he is behaving this way. You can either show him you got feelings too or just move on. Sorry about the misunderstanding 😢
@aquavita I understand, I just didn't want her upset because me. I was only trying to make her feel better as she goes through this situation. I meant no harm. I try to tell the truth in a way that helps people. But I learned my lesson. I'll stay away from the relationship threads because I don't wanna upset anyone by my words.
Yes. "Dr. Phil" is back in the house.
@potheadvirgo no need to laugh. I did apologize for the misunderstanding. I never meant to make her mad. I never once insulted DMV. Hope that guy calls her & that we are all wrong about him. I wish DMV the best
Heres what confuses me right. He blows me off a few days ago and I fall back but now he just sent me a text asking me what im doing.
One moment its, naw im good with you. The next its, hey whats shakin bacon.
Well DMV, Dont put up with the wishy washy behavior. Let him know its not kool. Just go talk to him about what bothers you. It may help some. I hope things work out for you
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Im kinda pissed off that he never called, its been like 3 weeks, maybe longer.... kinda took a blow to my ego.